The biggest lie in the world: When you give birth to a baby, someone will help you take care of it

In the morning, I received a message from Dandan: \”Sister Yuehua, I am in so much pain. Since going to work, I have found that I spend less and less time with my children. I have been working overtime in the past few days. I don\’t go home until almost midnight every day. The baby goes to bed early. . I go out early in the morning, and she often hasn’t woken up when I go out. This morning I finally waited until she woke up, and the child was very happy when she saw me. …

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If I accidentally offend you, please come at me, but don\’t attack my children

The day before yesterday, a criminal case that shocked the whole country occurred in Guangzhou, where Qinglan Jun is located: a 7-year-old boy had his right wrist cut off by a 41-year-old man with a knife on his way to school. A restaurant owner who witnessed the scene said: \”(The murderer) took the boy\’s hand (broken limb) away after killing the person.\” According to police investigation, the suspect and the boy\’s family suspected of having a debt dispute. The horror of the incident…

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My children are rude

Every morning when I send my daughter to kindergarten, when I arrive at the school gate, there will be two guards standing at the door, who are mainly responsible for the safety of the kindergarten. There is also a retired uncle who helps maintain order. When the daughter walks to the gate, she will usually look up at the two doormen, or she will go in without looking up, but she will not say hello to them. And when I see that retired uncle, I will shout \”Master…\”

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Behind the \”mother and child sleeping together, the elderly taking care of the children\”: hidden dangers of children\’s psychological problems and misalignment of family relationships

In families in China or Asian countries, including some places in the United States, it is a normal phenomenon for mother and child to sleep together. It is just like what many parents (especially the older generation) think: This is how it is in other families, so you have to How can you, a mother, let your child sleep on his own at such a young age? Today I would like to use 3 examples to tell all parents about this issue: at least 5 years old…

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In 3 steps, see clearly how children learn to interact with others

Children long to have good friends, but they cannot make friends. It is difficult for children to integrate into the group and they are always dissociated. Conflicts between children and good friends will not be resolved. How to help children when encountering these problems? Interpersonal skills are one of the core abilities of human survival. How do children develop their interpersonal skills? As parents, what do we need to do? Let\’s follow…

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90% of daughters-in-law can’t stand these five bad habits of mother-in-law, but she can handle them well

It was well known that Meili and her mother-in-law got along well. In the community, when an old man meets Meili\’s mother-in-law, he always says, \”Your daughter-in-law is nice. She says good things about you every time. You are really lucky. My daughter-in-law always says bad things about me when she meets people.\” Young mothers tell Mei Li Li said: \”Your mother-in-law looks very qualified, I really envy you.\” Meili works as a full-time mother at home, her husband earns an average income, and her mother-in-law…

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A truly high-level education is to allow children to be themselves

I remember a point in an article I read before. A common misunderstanding in Chinese-style education is that no matter what parents do or say, it is for the benefit of their children. As a child, you can only accept and obey unconditionally. You can\’t even raise an objection, let alone make any rebellious behavior. Otherwise, it means being disobedient, unfilial, and ignorant. Among those…

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These 5 types of families are the easiest to raise outstanding children! The sooner you see them, the better

How to raise an excellent child? The first reaction of many people is to let their children study hard, enter key middle schools and universities, and receive the highest quality higher education. This idea is correct, but many parents ignore one thing, that is, a person is inextricably linked to his family of origin, and this connection may affect his life. So, father…

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Whether a child is successful or not is related to these 4 laws! Mom must watch it

Every mother hopes to raise a good child who is sunny, cheerful, confident and optimistic, and also hopes to be a good mother who is gentle and delicate. But when it comes to disciplining children, they can easily become grumpy and impatient when faced with their stubbornness and willfulness… Why does this happen? Teacher Chen Qi from the Chinese Academy of Sciences said when sharing in the \”Parents\’ Must-Read Lecture\”…

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Baby, speak slowly, I\’m listening

Recently, my son has become a talkative person. For example, when I go to the toilet, if he has not finished speaking, he will stand outside the door and continue to talk to me. And in the elevator, it sometimes seems awkward. One day because the underground parking lot has been dry lately. I just said that the underground parking lot has been very dry recently, and there was always water in the past. My wife didn\’t…

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