Mom, please stop using me as your \”shield\”

A few days ago, I had another argument with my mother. The reason was that when we were visiting the supermarket, she took a nectarine from the fruit section of the supermarket, stuffed it into Tong Bao\’s hand and took it out because Tong Bao wanted to play with it. This is not the first time that she has used the reason of appeasing her children to justify her \”little actions\”. In the past, I often looked back and saw her peeling off peanuts to eat. Several times…

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Can\’t stop yelling at your kids? The real reason may be here

A few days ago, I took Chengzi to extracurricular classes. The teacher called the name before class. When Orange was called, the teacher\’s pronunciation was a little inaccurate. Orange didn\’t realize that he was calling himself. The teacher called again. Chengzi hesitated and agreed in a low voice. The teacher didn\’t hear it and thought the student didn\’t come. I happened to be behind Cheng Zi, patted him, and asked him to raise his hands to tell the teacher that he was here. …

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After the long vacation, I faced the children who refused to go to school. What did I do wrong?

Every first day of school after a long holiday, Rooney would make a fuss – not wanting to go to school. Of course, usually he just expresses his emotions, just like getting out of bed. As long as I use the two tactics of \”empathy\” and \”gentle and firm\”, he will definitely go to school in the end, but I didn\’t expect that this time he would be so of determination. Yesterday morning, before half past seven, he was drowsy…

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Children are smart at home, but why do they become stupid at school?

In the community, there is a child named \”Tailun\”, and everyone who hears this name thinks it is very fashionable. His mother would proudly explain: \”Tailun is a homophone for talent, because his father and I both hope that he will have the potential to be a genius from an early age.\” Tailen began to read when he was one and a half years old, and started learning English at the age of three. At the age of four, he could already do simple math problems. Tai, who just entered elementary school…

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Trump’s way of raising children is worth learning from many parents

The current President of the United States, Trump, has five children. All of them are well-educated, have excellent academic performance, have successful careers, and are self-reliant. Some people say that it is not difficult for a child to be outstanding, but all of Trump’s children are outstanding. This only shows that Trump is a successful father. I saw an article introducing Trump\’s parenting experience, and there is one point in it that many parents can learn from: He will always be a child…

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When a child makes a mistake, should the parents spank him?

In my own mind, there seems to be only one real spanking of a child. It was when my son was in kindergarten, and the teacher called me to inform me that my son had a stomachache and asked me to take him home early. On the way back, there happened to be a stall selling snowflake ice. The crystal white ice flakes and colorful fruits were very tempting. My son wants to eat. I told him that he had a bad stomach and couldn\’t…

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Before complaining about your children, please reflect on yourself first

My daughter is over two years old, and when she talks non-stop, she wants to know the truth about everything, like a walking book of 100,000 whys. I have endless housework to do every day, and I also have to find time to write, so it is impossible to respond to every word of my daughter. One day I was working on a manuscript in front of the computer, and my daughter asked me to help her get cookies. At that time, I didn\’t want my train of thought to be interrupted, so I ignored her…

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Seeing Chen Shifeng exchange 20 years for Jiang Ge\’s life, I decided that I must teach my children these things

After more than a week of trial in the Jiang Ge case, the verdict was announced yesterday afternoon. I have been staying in front of the computer, waiting for the final trial results to be announced. The moment I heard that Chen Shifeng was finally sentenced to 20 years in prison in Japan for intimidation and murder, I felt a little mixed. From the perspective of Japanese punishment, this punishment is already very severe. The prosecutor made the greatest effort for this…

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