What should I do if my child is not confident, timid and introverted?

A few days ago, a parent left a message on the backstage of the public account, saying that their children have been saying they don’t want to go to school lately. When asked why, the child said that his classmates were disobedient and the teacher often lost his temper. Although he did not cause trouble, he was still afraid of the teacher\’s anger. This parent is very anxious. The child is usually timid and introverted and wants to retreat when faced with the slightest challenge. He is worried that this personality will affect his future development. indeed…

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What to do if children are hyperactive

ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder that affects children\’s behavior, characterized by inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. This problem can be very distressing for both children and families, but there are many ways to help children manage symptoms and improve their self-control. Watch the full version of 23 episodes of Harvard Open Course Positive Psychology documentary online 1. Establish rules and structures…

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10 widely circulated parenting experiences and education methods are wrong?

With the continuous development of the times, the mode of raising children has become more and more modern. Especially the parents of the younger generation are already raising children scientifically. Although times are progressing, the concept of raising children may not necessarily follow the times. Especially the older generation, who have experience raising children, raise their children in their own way. But in fact, many of the older generation\’s \”experiences in raising children\” are wrong, such as the following 1…

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These five types of parents often stand behind children who grow up to be successful.

Today\’s parents are willing to spend a lot of money on education for the sake of their children\’s learning. Buying a house in an expensive school district, enrolling in various interest classes, sending their children to various tutoring classes, etc.; as long as it is helpful to their children\’s education, parents are willing to spend more money. But with these efforts, will the children really become better in the future? Over the years as a teacher, I have come into contact with many…

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Education before the age of 6 determines a child’s life, the sooner you know, the better

Many parents regret seeing the golden eight years of their children\’s lives until it\’s too late. If you catch it, the child\’s growth will be smoother and the future will be better. 1-year-old is a year that cannot be missed in cultivating a sense of security. During this period, children\’s sense of security mainly comes from their parents. Therefore, parents should spend more time with their children when their children are one year old, and give their children more attention and patience in daily life.. .

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How to calm your child when he or she is upset

Let me first respond to the questions from two parents. These two questions are not completely consistent with the topic of this article. I put them here in the hope that examples can be used to help parents learn how to deal with them. Question 01 My son is in third grade. He was very impetuous when studying. He would get angry after playing the piano for two or three times and would hit the piano keys to vent his anger. When I couldn\’t recite the text for a while, I would scream and act anxiously. I\’m so…

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What are the best ways and experiences for parents to educate their children?

I like this passage very much: No one is born to be a parent. Everyone needs to learn, and needs to restore himself to a seed and grow into himself again. Let go of authority and treat your children as equals; let go of perfection and get along with yourself truly. Only after I became a parent did I deeply realize the profound connotation of \”raising children means raising oneself.\” As the child grows up, it can be said…

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Height and weight standard chart for boys in 2023. Come and see if your cute baby meets the standard.

Factors affecting a child\’s height 1. Congenital genetic factors are directly related to the height of the parents, and it does not rule out inheritance from one generation to the next. 2. Acquired genetic factors In addition to nutrition, adequate sleep and appropriate exercise are also very important. It is good to pay attention to children\’s nutrition, but it is not good if the children eat too much and become overweight. Fat children will…

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What kind of person do you want your child to be? What kind of words do you say?

Yale University psychologist John Barger conducted an experiment: He asked two groups of students to take two sets of test papers. One set was interspersed with words such as \”provocation,\” \”disturbing,\” \”illegal,\” and \”rude.\” One set was interspersed with words such as \”considerate,\” \”patient,\” \”courteous,\” and \”respect.\” After finishing the test paper, he asked the students to go to the office to find the tester…

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How can children be emotionally stable and have clear boundaries?

A few days ago, a parent friend said: Her child always refuses to listen and is asked not to do something. He works very hard and the child will cry and lose his temper if the mother talks too much. She saw that my two children were very obedient, cooperated with me in everything I said, and did not get emotional. She found it amazing and wanted to know how to raise children with such clear boundaries and stable emotions. head…

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