Don’t be held hostage by your imagination, determine the direction and take steps first

The day before yesterday, when I was listening to the class monitor\’s lecture on the Analects of Confucius, the passage about Ran Qiu struck me immediately. Ran Qiu said: \”It\’s not that I don\’t speak the way of Master, it\’s because I don\’t have enough power.\” Confucius said: \”Those who don\’t have enough power will give up on the middle way. Today\’s female painting.\” Meaning, Ran Qiu said: \”It\’s not that I don\’t like the teacher\’s teachings. , because the ability is not enough.\” Confucius said: \”If the ability is not enough, you will stop when you can\’t walk anymore…

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Stefanie Sun did this immediately after she said to her son, \”I don\’t care if you die.\” Do you dare?

She did this immediately after she choked her son with harsh words. Recently, Stefanie Sun published a long article titled \”Bad Parents\” on Weibo, using more than 1,000 words to describe in detail what happened to her while taking care of her sick son. What happened: Stefanie Sun\’s son \”Na Xiaozi\” was originally very well-behaved and cute, but due to physical discomfort during the illness, his temper became increasingly bad. On the first day of illness…

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Smoking secondhand smoke is too harmful, please don’t let your children smoke it again

In the evening, my neighbor Qin and I enjoyed the cool air in the pavilion downstairs in the community. Our neighbor Qin’s second treasure, Niu Niu, is our pistachio. Niu Niu is less than one year old. He has thick eyebrows, big eyes, and a tiger-like head. He is very cute. Not long after Qin sat down, Daming, the neighbor upstairs, also came. When he saw Niu Niu, he said, \”This kid is so cute and fun. I\’m here to tease him.\” As he said that, he sucked hard…

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If you let your child go to school if he doesn\’t have these abilities, what grudge do you have against him?

At noon, I received a call from a friend and after hearing her anxiety, I couldn\’t help but laugh. I said: \”If your child is in school now, you will know how important it is to learn Braille in primary school! By then, you will not be entangled!\” It turns out that my friend is preparing for his son\’s current understanding of literacy. Interested but worried. My friend\’s son has just entered kindergarten. Recently…

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How important it is to have “non-interruptive” parents

In the April episode of \”Mom is Superman 3\”, Uh-huh made his life\’s ridiculous juice-squeezing debut. 5-year-old Er Heng wanted to squeeze juice. After getting support from his mother, he immediately started his work. After he put the cherries and blueberries into the cups respectively, he announced that he was done and advertised: \”This juice is sour, sweet and delicious.\” Huo Siyan reminds: It doesn\’t…

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How terrible is it for parents to cry poverty to their children?

Raising a child in poverty has ruined three generations. My husband has a distant cousin whom he hasn’t seen for many years. It is said that he had a pretty happy life when he was little. Years ago, she took her whole family to Wuhan for a trip and stopped by my house. Unexpectedly, as soon as they met, she started to act like a sister-in-law of Xianglin. She kept complaining that life was tight and her son’s kindergarten tuition was expensive. The adults were clearly chatting, but when they saw her son…

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Why does the more you comfort a child, the harder he cries?

Some time ago, my son Xiaoshu just started going to kindergarten and made a new friend, Xuanxuan. One day after school, Xuanxuan’s mother and I were walking and chatting, while the two children were playing together. At this time, Xiaoshu wanted to pick a dandelion on the roadside, but Xuanxuan stopped Xiaoshu. The little tree insisted on picking it, so the two little guys argued for a while, and Xuanxuan began to cry violently. Xuanxuan mother…

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Montessori educational philosophy and golden sayings, always tell your children

Many of you may have heard of \”Montessori teaching.\” Montessori was founded by Italian educator Maria Montessori. Maria summarized her lifelong observations, research, and teaching experiments on children into a set of methods. Montessori teaching is based on the fact that children have the gift of self-education and the belief that IQ can be changed. Through this teaching method, children can often develop…

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A sense of self-boundary is a life-long armor for children

On one day of our trip to Kenya, we watched flamingos (small flamingos, relatively small) at Lake Bogoria. At the science expedition camp, a senior sister who was a freshman in Canada came up to me and \”complained\”: \”Just now, some mothers next to me were criticizing my clothes, saying why I was dressed like this and so on.\” I pretended. He comforted her easily: \”Don\’t take it to heart, just be happy…

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Don’t hold your baby with a crooked neck! The correct posture for holding a baby should be…

How to hold a baby is actually a very particular matter, especially for babies less than three months old. The neck and spine are not yet fully developed, and the baby\’s neck muscles are unable to control the posture of the head and neck, so The baby may be hurt if the baby is held in the wrong posture. If the baby is held with a crooked neck (that is, the child can tilt his head to both sides, but most of the time it tilts to one side)…

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