We have a custom here of giving a banquet to a child\’s twelfth birthday, which is called \”round lock\”. I have participated in several children\’s \”round lock\” banquets. Almost every time, after the host\’s opening remarks and the parents\’ speech, the \”round lock\” banquet turned into a special talent show for the little birthday girl. Piano, cucurbit flute, flute, dance… On this day, children will almost have to show off their eighteen martial arts skills…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
Father, don\’t let your daughter become Hepburn
Recently, I read the book \”Audrey Hepburn\”. The narrative about her father in the book was unforgettable to me. Divorced mother Ella, with two babies, married divorced Roxton and gave birth to Audrey Hepburn. My father is serious, withdrawn and picky. He often travels on business. When he is not traveling, he always goes to the city center to discuss current affairs. Hepburn really wanted to express what she had learned…
To give your children a sense of security, in addition to love, you need to do this one thing
A few days ago, a friend expressed his bitterness in the group. He said that since his son was born, he has insisted on taking care of him personally. I am afraid that the elderly will not be able to take care of them well, and I am also afraid that the children without their mothers will lack a sense of security. She felt fine before, but since sending her child to kindergarten, she felt confused. On the first day of school, my son hugged his leg and refused to let go. …
What is it like to have \”obedient\” parents?
One night, my son lost his temper in the supermarket. Because his mother and I have been discussing whether to buy the things on the shelf. He called me loudly many times, but I still ignored him. He was starting to get upset. When he pulled me angrily, we both realized that we were wrong. I told him: \”Say it again, Dad, listen, this time we only listen to you…\”
As soon as the child learns, the mother will start roaring mode! Why talk about waiting for the flowers to bloom?
A mother of a child in middle school sent me a message asking me to give her some advice. His child has poor attention span, and asking him to read and write every day is like killing him. The words taught today will be forgotten tomorrow. The children still don\’t recognize the word \”left and right\” after recognizing it over and over for more than a week. My mother said that the child is the most upset in the whole family when he is writing. One moment he needs to drink water, the next moment he needs to pee,…
Please don’t be a humble parent and raise your children smaller and smaller
Starting in September, I will work as a parent volunteer teaching assistant in the early childhood education class that Little D attended before. Little D no longer attends the class. I will spend one afternoon every week working with the teachers in the early childhood education class to teach a new group of children. This early childhood education class is affiliated with Little D\’s current kindergarten, so the teachers are very professional, and there are many teaching assistants who are normal students, which is equivalent to an internship opportunity. I followed…
Mothers who don’t know how to control their emotions cannot raise children with sunny personalities.
There is a relatively famous TV show that invites some talented celebrities and guests to play games. In one episode, they invited an internet celebrity boy who was under 5 years old. During the break in the recording of the program, the little boy may have been too tired and suddenly became unhappy. He walked off the stage and walked to his mother, puffing his lips and not wanting to move. The director and guests came over to coax him, but to no avail. He was unwilling to go on stage and continue recording. Just right…
A message to all single moms
The first thing single mothers must remember is: No matter how much grievances you endured in your previous marriage or how deep your resentment towards your former lover is, these have nothing to do with your children. In other words: For the sake of your child, you need to swallow your grievances and let go of your resentment in front of him. The reason is simple: the dissolution of your marriage was the adult\’s fault (although it\’s probably not your fault…
What you call love is just empty, boring, lonely and cold
Any form of cheating within marriage cannot be called love, it can only be called an affair. And what is stolen does not belong to you after all. A woman under thirty years old has been married for seven years and has a pair of children. Her husband is a construction worker at a construction site, and she takes care of her two children at home. The woman is beautiful, has studied in a technical secondary school, has a good family background since she was a child, and has never experienced hardship. I worked before getting married, and…
How we destroy our children with verbal violence
Violent education is devastating to a child; verbal violence is even more harmful to a child. Recently, a video was circulated on the Internet, and many people shuddered after watching it. In a supermarket in Thailand, the son was addicted to games and the father was furious. \”If you have the guts, don\’t live anymore!\” After my father said this, he loaded the pistol and fired…