From my initial exposure to children’s books, to studying child psychology, to creating this public account; from having no children, to when Dingdang was over two years old, I have read at least forty or fifty parenting books. The more I researched, the more I discovered that in fact, the so-called good education consists of just those few things. As long as we grasp the main direction and try our best to do what we should do, the children will…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
How important is a simple and happy mother to her children?
A few days ago, a mother left a message saying that her eight-year-old son had written something in his diary: \”I feel like I\’m not happy at all. My mother is too cruel and only likes my sister. I feel like she doesn\’t love me anymore.\” , I’m scared.” When she saw this sentence, she said she felt very sad. She said that her son was taken care of by her grandma until he was 3 years old. In recent years, the old man\’s health was not good, so she quit her job and stayed at home…
The calmer the parents are, the better the children will be
As a parent, it is difficult to calmly read the news on the Internet: \”Writing homework with your children will cause a heart attack\”, \”30,000 yuan can\’t afford a summer vacation\”, \”The election of the parent committee is comparable to the company\’s CEO election\”… This is a matter of national anxiety. In this era, the most anxious people are parents. Nowadays, there are more and more Buddhist young people. They can do whatever they want and look down upon everything. But when they have children, they will…
Sometimes, I just want you to hug me and talk nonsense
3-year-old Doudou has just started kindergarten this year. Recently, he has been crying before going to bed at night: \”Don\’t go to kindergarten tomorrow!\” Doudou\’s mother has to coax him for a long time before he will fall asleep. When she opened her eyes in the morning, the first thing Doudou did was to ask: \”Are you going to kindergarten today?\” After receiving a positive answer, Doudou covered her head with a quilt and cried: \”I haven\’t slept enough! Not today.\” ..
What should I do if my children are addicted to games? The solution can be solved in half an hour with the magic weapon of \”family meeting\”
What should I do if Chengzi loves to play games? We had a family meeting. One afternoon, when I was picking up Chengzi from school, Chengzi said, \”Mom, let\’s have a family meeting tonight.\” I asked, \”Okay, what\’s the issue?\” \”I always want to solve it. Problems with looking at mobile phones and wanting to play games.\” I was a little curious: \”Why do you suddenly want to solve this problem?\”…
I must be crazy to try to get a high needs kid to learn piano
When I first bought this piano at the beginning of the year, I originally planned to train Guoguo to learn piano. Guoguo\’s very well-behaved and patient character should be suitable for piano learning. As for the hairy devil…it doesn\’t seem to go well with the piano. If he had to learn an instrument, he should be more suitable for playing drums or percussion instruments such as percussion… I recall when I was a child. …
In intergenerational education, who is the most suitable person to take care of children?
In fact, it is really difficult to write about intergenerational education. Because if you are not careful, some elderly people will be hurt. For example, I take a walk in the neighborhood. I often encounter a grandma holding or pushing her little granddaughter. The girl should be only half a year old. Once I followed them cautiously. I heard the child in front of me yelling \”Wow wow wow wow.\” Grandma walked forward gently and smiled…
Don’t let threats and intimidation devour your child’s sense of security
When we were children, we were often threatened by our parents, \”If you cry again, mommy won\’t want you anymore,\” \”If you don\’t obey, the police will come and arrest you,\” and \”Take you to the hospital for injections.\” Such words came from our parents\’ mouths constantly, and we The young mind wanted to be hit with a heavy hammer and did not dare to act disobediently again. But parents don\’t know that while they achieved temporary victory, they scared away their children…
How to raise a boy at home and feel more secure inside
Many of our boys are suffering in silence. The reason this is so harmful is due to the prejudices of adults. For example, you will often hear words like this: \”It\’s so shameful for a man to cry!\” \”I\’ve never seen you so stingy when you give toys to your sister to play with. A man must be generous, you know?\” There is also a very lethal sentence. Common words. \”How dare boys…
Children who are able to withstand stress and setbacks all come from such a family education.
A few days ago, a reader shared his story with us backstage: ▼ When he was a child, he loved going to school and getting along with teachers and classmates. But my father is a very strict person. Starting from the third grade of elementary school, the first thing he would do when he got home would be to check his schoolbag. If he failed to pass the exam or if there were more red crosses on his homework book, he would give him a check again. Scolded again. If things go on like this…