What should parents do when their children are bullied? A more effective method than teaching \”fight back\” is…

Today when I was browsing Weibo, I saw Cao Cao and Diao Chan posting a video about school violence. The title is: Campus violence has finally reversed. The story in the video goes something like this: A group of seven or eight-year-old girls were practicing dancing in a dance studio, and one of the stronger girls, A, pushed B to the ground without mercy. The teacher did not notice A\’s move and thought that B did not practice well…

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Teenagers addicted to the Internet are not afraid of anything. What they are afraid of is the loneliness they will face after turning off their mobile phones or computers.

I was chatting with a friend not long ago: His daughter, who is less than 10 years old, plays games with her mobile phone and Pad all day long. She starts playing games after getting up, after meals, and before going to bed. No matter how gentle or fierce the tone of discipline is, there will always be a scene. Very awkward. In desperation, he even sought help from a psychiatrist. After a while, he was officially ready to start \”observing the condition\” in order to \”implement treatment.\” Friends suck…

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If you insist on doing these things before the age of 6, your child will be better

In the latest issue of \”Longing for Life\”, Lu Siqing and his violin became popular. When the song \”Butterfly Lovers\” slowly poured out from his hands, everyone present was extremely moved. Especially Wang Xun, who loves the violin very much, even had tears in his eyes. With everyone\’s encouragement, he also tried to play a song, but compared with what Lu Siqing played just now, it was more than just heavenly…

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A father with high emotional intelligence and a mother with a good mood are the best feng shui for a family.

I saw a piece of news some time ago: A 10-year-old girl lost her temper at her mother because she got up and said a lot of hurtful words. The mother sadly locked herself in the room, but the father deftly resolved the awkwardness between mother and daughter. The father wrote down 15 things that the mother had done for his daughter and asked her daughter to confirm them one by one. ● Did your mother buy you clothes? ● …

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How to raise outstanding children? If you are one of these types of parents, congratulations

It is said that parents are their children’s best teachers. Their words and deeds affect their children’s future development in life. Before educating their children, parents must first learn how to be parents. If you are one of these types of parents, congratulations, The children raised will be outstanding when they grow up. Reasonable parents should be reasonable and let their children distinguish right from wrong. Pao Pao is six and a half years old. In our community…

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How to control children playing with mobile phones? Avoid sending them to hell

Some time ago, Xiaopai fell in love with being a person who never goes home. Whenever he has free time, he would go to the house of his friend in the next building and play until he was hungry. One time, he took the composition book and swore to me: \”Mom, I will go to Tongtong\’s house and finish writing the composition and then come back.\” Tongtong\’s parents have always been very busy at work, and in such a big family, Tongtong is often alone. She always asks Xiaopai to accompany her, and I…

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Sad! Dad, you can’t spend 12 hours a week with me, but I love you too

I saw the latest issue of \”Qi Pa Shuo\” and the debate topic is: If fathers spend less than 12 hours a week with their children, the title of father will be revoked. Do you agree? To be honest, when I saw this debate question, I felt a little disgusted. Because there are many fathers around me who cannot spend two hours with me every day. Is it really possible to leave a child without a father? For a child, that is unacceptable…

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What is the most important thing in raising a girl?

After having a daughter, do you often have some confusion like this: Does your daughter need to be wealthy? What are the differences between girls\’ growth and boys\’? Will she become a good girl when she grows up? The book I share with you today – \”Raising Girls\” – is a parenting guide specifically written for parents of girls. In the book, you can clearly understand girls…

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Why do you care so much about what so-called experts/parents say about your children?

A friend sent me a message saying that she took her 5-year-old daughter to participate in the selection of a training institution. At the end, the director of the institution specially communicated with her and pointed out various problems with her daughter, the most critical of which was that her daughter Inattention, lack of concentration, there is a little sound next to it, and the eyes immediately turn away. The director said that someone like my friend’s daughter is very inattentive…

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Dad lifts up his daughter\’s clothes and kisses her constantly on the high-speed train: is it pampering or molestation?

Is it pampering or molestation? Recently, a piece of news sparked outrage. A father lifted up his daughter\’s clothes on the high-speed train, kept kissing and touching the child\’s body, and even reached out to the child\’s lower body. In the video, the little girl kept trying to struggle and even begged for mercy: \”Dad, it hurts, please don\’t touch my butt again…\” What is puzzling is that the girl\’s mother and grandmother were sitting nearby…

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