\”I personally destroyed my child\’s internal drive…\” Before the age of 12, these behaviors must not be done. Parents should check it no matter how busy they are.

Last weekend, my cousin came to my house with her nephew Leilei as a guest. As soon as I entered the door, she asked me to complain: Not long after school started, the class teacher reported to me several times that Leilei was distracted in class and was always unable to concentrate. After I got home, I watched him do his homework in person, and the results were great! Sometimes I pick out rubber, and sometimes I go to the toilet. If I don\’t urge him and yell at him, I just put it off. I did it just to be perfunctory…

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These 3 abilities should be developed starting from the first grade so that children will not have to worry about learning.

Many parents do things the other way around, thinking that their children should play more when they are still young, and then urge them to study hard when they are older. In fact, children in first and second grade have not yet been formed, and they are the ones who need their parents the most. Cultivate the following three abilities as early as possible, so that you can worry less when studying later. 1. Reading Ability Reading comprehension is not only a required content in Chinese language, but also the foundation of other subjects. I want my children to understand…

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After my son got tired of studying, he was not interested in anything except his mobile phone, and the whole family was in trouble.

I never imagined that my son would one day be so epileptic that he would be unable to go to school. My son is 15 years old and is in the second grade of junior high school. This is a very critical year. His efforts and results will determine whether he can enter a good high school. But when the critical moment came, my son had no intention of studying because he was addicted to his mobile phone, and he became distracted and tired of studying. A junior high school student doesn\’t go to school every day and takes long-term leave at home…

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How could I not be worried? I just don’t want to pass my anxiety to my children.

One semester is about to pass, and the number of friends Niuniu has made in the new school is: 0. Not long after school started, the head teacher noticed that \”this new kid spends most of the time alone.\” At the first parent-teacher meeting, the teacher told us that he was not worried about her studies at all. The only issue that Niuniu needed to pay attention to was social interaction. He would encourage Niuniu to have lunch with other children in the future. I…

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A middle-aged mother’s advice: don’t be angry with your children. You’ll understand after reading this

A few days ago, I was chatting with a very wise parent. She told me that when dealing with children, never get angry and cherish the time when your children are still with you. In the future, when children grow up, they will become farther and farther away from their parents and go to college. You have to go home once for vacation. If you are married and you don’t know how often you go home, no one will listen to your nagging in the future… I have read this passage, please cherish your children and…

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“If you don’t let your children sleep, you are killing them.”

This is not what I said. I watched a short video and saw a doctor with a psychology degree say it. I think so. He said, why are so many children jumping off buildings now? Why can\’t they say anything? Is the child too pretentious, or is the child actually on the verge of collapse? He said that even if children are ignorant and don\’t know what death means, at least they know pain, right? also…

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Do non-rich families recommend that their children study abroad?

The family background is average, the children\’s academic performance is average, and they will graduate from college next year. Considering that the domestic employment situation is difficult, and there is basically no hope of taking the public examination, is studying abroad a good way out? Will it be easier to find a job after returning to China? Does anyone have experience in this area? The question of holding the title is not a simple yes or no. It mainly depends on the child and his wishes. Now don’t talk about foreign undergraduates…

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Six things parents should never say no to their children

In the parent-child relationship, mutual communication and understanding between parents and children are crucial. Parents play a key role in a healthy parent-child relationship. However, many times, due to busy work and pressure in life, we may lack in-depth understanding and empathy for children\’s emotions and inner experiences, and thus neglect, misunderstand, ignore or reject some of the children\’s needs and expressions, and…

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Li Meijin: 6 sentences of \”coaxing and deceiving\” are enough to change a child\’s life

A mother discussed a question with me: \”How can we communicate better with our children?\” Her son Xiaoliang did not do well in a math test at school and returned home with a heavy heart. As soon as she saw the results, she immediately said angrily: \”Why are you so stupid? You can\’t even get such a simple question right!\” This sentence was like a sharp knife, piercing her son\’s heart. …

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