A few days ago, I was chatting with a very wise parent. She told me that when dealing with children, never get angry and cherish the time when your children are still with you. In the future, when children grow up, they will become farther and farther away from their parents and go to college. You have to go home once for vacation. If you are married and you don’t know how often you go home, no one will listen to your nagging in the future… I have read this passage, please cherish your children and…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
“If you don’t let your children sleep, you are killing them.”
This is not what I said. I watched a short video and saw a doctor with a psychology degree say it. I think so. He said, why are so many children jumping off buildings now? Why can\’t they say anything? Is the child too pretentious, or is the child actually on the verge of collapse? He said that even if children are ignorant and don\’t know what death means, at least they know pain, right? also…
Do non-rich families recommend that their children study abroad?
The family background is average, the children\’s academic performance is average, and they will graduate from college next year. Considering that the domestic employment situation is difficult, and there is basically no hope of taking the public examination, is studying abroad a good way out? Will it be easier to find a job after returning to China? Does anyone have experience in this area? The question of holding the title is not a simple yes or no. It mainly depends on the child and his wishes. Now don’t talk about foreign undergraduates…
Six things parents should never say no to their children
In the parent-child relationship, mutual communication and understanding between parents and children are crucial. Parents play a key role in a healthy parent-child relationship. However, many times, due to busy work and pressure in life, we may lack in-depth understanding and empathy for children\’s emotions and inner experiences, and thus neglect, misunderstand, ignore or reject some of the children\’s needs and expressions, and…
Li Meijin: 6 sentences of \”coaxing and deceiving\” are enough to change a child\’s life
A mother discussed a question with me: \”How can we communicate better with our children?\” Her son Xiaoliang did not do well in a math test at school and returned home with a heavy heart. As soon as she saw the results, she immediately said angrily: \”Why are you so stupid? You can\’t even get such a simple question right!\” This sentence was like a sharp knife, piercing her son\’s heart. …
If your child is timid, introverted and shy, parents must learn this trick
A mother asked me: \”My daughter is very timid and introverted. She is slow to warm up and very sensitive at the same time. When get out of class is over, she wants to play with other children on the playground, but she doesn\’t know what to do. How to join in? Even if she plays with everyone, she will withdraw from the crowd after a short time…
Whether the mother\’s family status is high or not can be seen from the child\’s \”name\”.
Some time ago, my child’s school organized a three-day parent-child outdoor camping activity. It is rare for parents to get together and chat in twos and threes. At first, the topic was just focused on the children, but as the relationship became more familiar, the content of everyone\’s chats became a bit \”gossip\” in nature. During the chat, a parent brought the topic to the relationship between husband and wife. According to…
How terrible is the influence of the original family? Influence the fate of children and determine their life
Satya, the master of family therapy, once said: \”A person is inextricably linked to his family of origin, and this connection may affect his life.\” The imprint of the family of origin will really be passed down from generation to generation. Everyone has their own family of origin, and to a greater or lesser extent, they continue to \”pass on\” the influence of their family of origin to their children. What kind of cause…
Li Meijin: If you change the way you talk, the change is so big? It turns out that changing children really starts with heart-to-heart communication!
In the journey of parenting, the art of communication is often overlooked, but it has the magic power to rewrite the parent-child relationship. Professor Li Meijin, an expert in criminal psychology, reminded the dreamer: \”If you change the way you talk to your children, the change is so big? It turns out that change really starts with communication!\” This is not only a simple reminder, but also a profound insight. , leading us to explore how to adjust communication…
Connect young children and get rid of \”procrastination\”
The most direct result of procrastination may be that the child will be late. In fact, children who are not late love going to school more. Why does not being late play such an important role? There really is. For children, if they are late for school, they will enter the classroom in full view of their teachers and classmates, feeling anxious and uneasy. Moreover, the teacher didn’t hear what he said before, so he took out the textbook in a hurry, and…