Please \”let go\” of that crying child

A few days ago, I passed by the entrance of a kindergarten. I saw a little boy who probably didn\’t want to go to school. He pulled on his mother\’s clothes and cried, \”I\’m not going, Mom.\” \”Don\’t cry!\” The child pursed his lips and continued to cry. \”Don\’t cry. If you cry again, I\’ll beat you.\” \”Mom, mom…\” Many mothers have zero tolerance for their children\’s crying. As long as their children…

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Why should I raise a child who “doesn’t follow the rules”? Education, don’t forget that you are Chinese

Chinese people don\’t abide by the rules, that\’s because we are of a higher rank. In recent years, our parenting methods have become more and more in line with international standards. While we were shopping for maternal and infant products from the United States and Europe, we also picked up their parenting ideas. Under the influence of Western parenting concepts and methods such as \”Montessori Education Method\”, \”Sears Intimacy Parenting\”, \”American Academy of Pediatrics Parenting Encyclopedia\”…

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Are you still yelling at the naughty kid? Come and learn these magical \”spells\”!

One day not long ago, I was doing some chores in front of the computer. Suddenly I remembered that Xiao Nuo had been silent for a while, so I walked to the living room to see what she was doing. I saw her squatting on the ground, trying hard to scrub with her two little hands. There was a large puddle of white paste on the floor, and next to it was a bottle of baby lotion that she used to apply on her face every day. The cap of the bottle was already broken. Open&#8…

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When I think about the possibility of raising four grandchildren when I grow old, I simply regret having a second child.

I went back to my hometown during the Spring Festival and had a small gathering with some of my high school classmates. Naturally, we reminisced about the past and talked about the present at the dinner table. My husband and I were high school classmates, and we brought our second child, Xiaonuo, with us, so the topic of the second child soon came up. Will you have a second child? The answers of several female classmates were basically the same: they are too old to take risks. The male students\’ answers were varied, including those who had already given birth…

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Personal experience: Children in Montessori kindergarten are more independent, and the reason can be summarized in one sentence

Su Bao is two years old. Since last year, we have visited more than a dozen kindergartens around New York. Many kindergartens in the United States provide parent-child experience classes called mommy & me for families under 3 years old who are interested in joining the kindergarten. These experience classes are usually twice a week, with adults accompanying the children, allowing parents and children to In this process, the school has…

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Pour milk into the fish tank? Creativity hidden in baby’s naughtiness

Share a short story. A little girl asked her mother: \”Why do others praise you for being beautiful?\” Her mother said: \”If you drink a bag of milk every day, you will be beautiful and healthy.\” After hearing this, the child poured a bag of milk into the fish tank. The mother lost her temper and yelled at the child: \”This is something for people to drink. How can you pour it into the fish tank? I asked you to give me the water I just changed.\” It\’s dirty, I have to do it again…

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The freer the child is, the more conscious his actions will be

Friend A has been recommending the \”magic device\” she bought to her friends a while ago. In her words, she really regretted buying it late. She should have bought a few more. It was so practical. Only after she finished selling her \”artifact\” with lectures and demonstrations did we understand what was going on. After being introduced by a friend, A bought a wireless smart camera that can be connected to a mobile phone. Through the mobile phone…

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My daughter peed her pants, but her mother looked on coldly. Here’s why

Deliberately peeing her pants Since she was one and a half years old, my daughter’s toilet habits have been very good. One weekend not long after winter, she was playing and suddenly told me that she peed her pants. Then she quickly ran to the bathroom to pee cleanly and asked me to change her pants. Two or three times in a row, I found that there wasn\’t a lot of urine in my pants each time. My husband proposed to take the child to the hospital for a checkup, but I don\’t believe in hygiene…

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In this era, are you still comparing yourself to “other people’s children”?

A best friend, the mother of an 8-year-old girl, sent a message late at night: \”A classmate who practices dance with my child was selected for a TV children\’s program. My child was not selected. Why do I feel so lost?\” I asked: \”You Do you want your child to become a dancer? Or to get extra points in exams? Or to cultivate temperament?\” She thought for a while and replied: \”Just as a hobby or skill.\” I…

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