During lunch, my colleague Xiaomin complained to me, saying that children nowadays are too difficult to manage. She loses her temper at every turn, and can\’t explain when she makes a mistake. Before you become impatient, she becomes impatient and cries until she bursts into tears. It\’s very distressing. She meant to scold her, but in the end she just let it go. I know Xiaomin\’s child. He is in the first class of kindergarten. He is very sensible and well-behaved, but sometimes he is…
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School age
Making children confident is the most important thing for parents to do
My baby is two and a half years old and has reached a sensitive period for order. Many things must be done in the order he likes. What bothers me the most is the order in which I go to bed. According to his wishes, he drinks milk first, then goes to pee, crawls back into bed and plays with daddy for a while, then goes to pee. Then he lay down on the bed, put his face on my hand, turned over several times, and found a comfortable position before falling asleep. If you follow this order…
Optimistic children can be cultivated
On January 7, 2018, a high school student from the High School Affiliated to Nanchang Normal University fell from the 24th floor of the top floor of a residential complex, ending his life at the age of 15. Teach children with an optimistic attitude: a classic collector\’s edition of happiness that will last a lifetime for children. Before the incident, the deceased had posted a message that seemed to be a \”suicide note\” on QQ Talk, as follows: This is a scheduled talk. When you see this …
When a child loses his temper and cries, is it better to hold him or not?
A reader asked me that I only use simple and crude methods when educating my children. When faced with a problem, he won’t turn around. Although I know that I need to teach my children, I don’t know how to teach them so that they can be willing to accept them. How can I educate my children to achieve a state of moistening things without making any noise? And gave me a daily example: My daughter is three years and four months old. During dinner, her mother-in-law warmed up the pumpkin pancakes she had fried in the morning…
Chinese children love to say \”I can\’t draw\”, maybe this is the reason!
I remember when Maodou was less than 2 and a half years old, I once said to him: \”You like cars so much, then draw a car!\” As a result, Maodou looked at me blankly and said, \”I can\’t draw.\” .\” I was surprised. Maodou\’s standard Chinese child-style \”I can\’t draw\” made me suddenly realize what we were missing in art education. I remembered what I had experienced…
Children who have these 3 abnormal behaviors are actually asking for help
A few days ago, in a WeChat group, a mother said such a thing. She has a daughter who is almost 4 years old. Soon after she entered kindergarten, she had \”unusual\” bedwetting. At first she thought she was overthinking it, and it was normal for children to wet the bed repeatedly. But it lasted for 3 or 4 days, and she was extremely worried. Because the child has never wet the bed since he was 3 years old. So, she also…
If a child plays with his mobile phone too much and writes poorly, will this affect his brain and learning?
Many parents and teachers complain that today’s children’s handwriting is not as good-looking as the students of the past. is this real? This is indeed the case, and this has a lot to do with modern technology. Many pediatricians have noticed that due to the advent of tablets, children are beginning to be unable to hold a pen correctly. For example, under the National Health Service (NHS) in England…
Why are American children neither beaten nor scolded? They are raised liberally and laissez-faire, but there are almost no disruptive naughty children?
There is a type of social news or topic in China that is always eye-catching, called \”naughty kids getting into trouble.\” Every once in a while, an unlucky kid will appear that breaks the limits of cognition and causes an uproar in public opinion: What the hell? Hot pot soup burns people\’s faces; peeing on the elevator; throwing bottles down from the 20th floor; washing the piano with Coke; and even causing various deaths… Yes…
Tell your children: “Being able to lose” is more important than winning
My daughter Xinxin, who has just entered the kindergarten class, keeps coming home with one word coming out of her mouth recently – \”first place\”! I have never said this word to her. It must have something to do with her kindergarten life. I couldn\’t help \”gossip\”: \”Xinxin, what did you do to get first place in the class? English?\” \”No…\” \”What about shooting the ball?\” I thought of her recent \”shooting frequently\” at home…
5 things parents must do before their children turn 7 years old, the last one is especially important
Recently, the Indian movie \”Starting Line\” has become a hit. It tells the story of a pair of middle-class parents who battle with wits and laugh out loud in order to get their daughter into a kindergarten at a prestigious school. There is a sentence in the film that sparked heated discussion: This statement is a bit alarmist, but it reminds me of another documentary \”Seven Years in the Life\”. \”Seven Years in the Life\” records 14 British children over 49 years…