\”The people in China who need education most are parents, not children.\” This view was said by the ancients more than a thousand years ago. Han Yu said in his article \”Teacher\’s Theory\”: \”If you love your children, choose a teacher and teach them; for yourself, you will be ashamed of the teacher and confused.\” This sentence means that parents love their children, so they choose a teacher to teach them. Good teachers teach children. But the parents themselves find teachers to study…
Category: School age
School age
In this ugly world, what kind of safety education should we teach our children?
Some time ago, a piece of heartbreaking news broke out in the circle of friends. Yang drove home and saw the 17-year-old girl Zhang walking alone, and he felt malicious. So he tricked the girl into getting into the car to help because there was a problem with the car\’s brakes. Later, Yang tied the girl with tape in the car and then raped and killed her. In order to evade responsibility, Yang took the body of the 17-year-old girl…
Self-control is the key to affecting a child\’s life. By learning these methods, you can train your child\’s self-control at home.
Everything you want to know about self-control may be here. Recently, I have received a lot of messages related to self-control. A mother said that her son was so irritated by his homework that he had to write for 5 minutes, daze for 10 minutes, and play with toys for 15 minutes. Some mothers also say that when their daughters are not satisfied, they lose their temper, cry, and even act out. Some mothers said that their children want to buy everything they see…
Huang Lei: Why do our two children love each other?
Recently, Huang Lei\’s daughter Duoduo once again became a hot topic on Weibo. It turned out that Sun Li posted a photo of Duoduo knitting a woolen hat for her younger brother. Netizens joked: \”It\’s really \’a kind sister has the thread in her hands, and the younger brother has a coat on his head\’.\” Everyone envies Huang Lei for having such a sensible and well-behaved daughter. What is even more enviable is that Huang Lei\’s three children get along very well. Li\’s Weibo, just…
The little boy\’s face was bitten off! Don\’t mess with these little animals in the spring
An 11-year-old boy was instantly disfigured. The boy\’s name is Chenchen (pseudonym). He likes to play with the landlord\’s big wolf dog very much. Every time Chenchen runs up to the big wolf dog, the big wolf dog always wag its tail desperately, looking very affectionate. Therefore, Chenchen\’s parents were very relieved that their son was playing with the big wolf dog. Some time ago, Chenchen ran to find a big wolf dog to play with. Unexpectedly, the wolf dog suddenly went crazy and pounced on…
No matter how much I love my child, I will never change myself for him
As I told you yesterday, I am a devout Buddhist, not a superstitious old woman who burns incense and worships Buddha, nor an intellectual who treats Buddhism as a scientific study. Rather, he firmly believes in cause and effect and reincarnation. The goal of life is to go to the Paradise of Paradise after death and to be freed from the six realms of reincarnation forever. In fact, my husband is more involved in Buddhism than I am. He often chats with eminent monks and masters in Shenzhen; when he goes to Jiangsu…
In the era of raising a second child, the more children are raised, the more schizophrenic they become.
Compared with the scenery in front of you, the scenery in the distance always looks more moving. One day when I was out running errands, I passed by Ke\’er\’s school and saw students taking physical education classes on the playground. I remembered that Ke\’er had a physical education class today. I tried hard to find him. They were all wearing school uniforms and about the same height. It was hard to find him. Just as I was about to leave, I caught a glimpse of Kerr and a few classmates sitting under the basketball hoop in the playground. He was full of…
Whoever a child sleeps with is his child
My friend Xia Zi said that her son kicked her out of bed last night. When she said this, her eyes were full of sadness. Xia Zi\’s husband was hospitalized some time ago and she was pregnant with her second child. Her mother felt sorry for her and took her 2 and a half year old son back to her parents\’ home to take care of her. Three months later, Xia Zi and her husband went to pick up their son from her parents\’ home. The moment she saw her son, Xia Zi burst into tears. She called…
How to raise children successfully? This study, which has been followed for 77 years, tells you
Over the years since I opened my account, there have been many messages criticizing me in the background. Most of them said that I have been just sharing some family scraps, such as quarreling and crying with my children. I have long been tired of aesthetics. Can you share something useful? What is useful is probably how to choose a school, how to accompany homework, how to improve academic performance… To be honest, every time I see this…
What do really good parents look like?
My friend Xiaoxiao’s daughter is only 8 years old and has just entered first grade. But the mother and daughter have already lived a busy life of rushing to various cram schools whenever they have free time. English, painting, musical instrument and other cram schools are already common. I heard that a colleague’s child was taking abacus class, and the next day I quickly signed one up for my own child. Sometimes I feel tired for the little guy, a childhood that should be full of happiness…