Chinese children are deceived into growing up

Qing Lanjun recently watched \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” and discovered that Du Jiang is a liar. The program crew asked the children to hand over their toys. Du Jiang was afraid that he would cry, so he lied to him and said there were a few more hidden in his bag. The program crew asked the celebrity father and son to live in a house with poor conditions. They didn\’t want to live there and started crying. Du Jiang lied to him and said he would only stay for one day. At least two days actually. Du Jiang is not only in \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”…

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Zeng Guofan: To educate children, talk less, talk less, talk less!

What many children resent most is their parents’ nagging. Educate children that \”talking\” cannot solve all problems. It will also arouse children\’s rebellious psychology and have the opposite effect. It is better to say less than to say more. Talk less and do more, speak less and listen more, speak less and wait more. Talk less, do more, and set an example. Parents are role models for their children, and they are the most important objects for their children to imitate when they are young. Parents\’ habits…

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How do we parent?

This is an article I wrote before, probably shortly after Huang Zi was born. From that moment on, I have been thinking about writing something to record the various insights I have had since having a baby. Today, I found it in my previous document and just shared it here. I don’t want to discuss too much about the hardships of taking care of children, which is something every mother can experience personally. What I want to say more is that we are very concerned about childbirth…

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His head is full of ice flowers but he smiles and makes faces. The qualities of the \”ice flower boy\” are exactly what our children lack.

Recently, a boy with a head full of \”ice flowers\” unexpectedly became popular on the Internet. I couldn\’t help but feel distressed when I saw the boy in the photo with his hair and eyebrows turned into icicles, frost on his clothes, and wearing some thin clothes. Today’s children are all treasures. Who’s child is not taken care of carefully? In this cold winter, when you go out, you need to check the temperature in advance, you need a car to pick you up and drop off, and you need to prepare two more things…

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A 10-year-old boy had 27 plastic surgeries, the truth is shocking

This may be the gentlest children\’s movie I have ever seen, and no movie in a long time made me cry from beginning to end like \”Wonder Boys\” did. It has no consumer suffering, no ups and downs. It just uses an implicit approach to treat everyone in the story gently, weakening all the evil, and bringing goodwill to people, just like what the poster expresses: choose kindness. …

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Chinese couple killed and marinated their 5-year-old daughter: I just couldn’t control my emotions

Some time ago, I saw a piece of news on my phone: A Chinese couple killed and marinated their 5-year-old daughter. The title was very scary, but I still passed by it silently without opening it. This should be just an extreme case, there is no need to actively seek excitement. Unexpectedly, it was circulated several times in the circle of friends. Finally, I couldn’t help but click on it and read it once. I was even more shocked than I thought. In the case…

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How to avoid becoming a greasy brat

School is about to start for the naughty kids. Finally, I no longer have to be dragged by my mother to recite poems and sing at gatherings of \”greasy\” middle-aged people! Hidden behind my mother\’s back, my mother would fish it out and dry it in front of the heavily made-up aunties. I feel a little helpless and heartbroken, so I wanted to write something for children and mothers. Dear child: You have the right to have a complete and not greasy childhood. think of me,…

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A child\’s illness is a touchstone for a couple\’s relationship

There is no holiday during the Spring Festival holiday. I didn’t call to greet my relatives, I didn’t make up text messages to wish my friends, I didn’t post on WeChat Moments to show off delicious food and flowers, I didn’t visit relatives or visit the flower market with my husband. I only did one thing: go to the hospital! On New Year\’s Day, the child coughed and vomited. So we took the child to the hospital for a X-ray, and the doctor said: \”If there are signs of developing bronchopneumonia, he should be hospitalized.\” When we heard this,…

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You love Hawking’s interesting soul, but I envy his weird family

Yesterday, the human world lost an interesting genius forever. Physicist Stephen Hawking has died in the UK at the age of 76. He is a famous astronomy and theoretical physicist. He proved the singularity theorem and the black hole area theorem of general relativity. He is known as the most outstanding theoretical physicist after Einstein. Interestingly, there has never been such a scientific giant…

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Children who hit others are lonely

In the group of precious mothers, a mother said: \”My son likes to hit people very much recently, and I am really worried that he has violent tendencies.\” As soon as he finished speaking, someone in the group responded: My son also beats people. He celebrated his birthday two days ago and invited many people. I couldn\’t do anything all day long, so I kept an eye on him the whole time, just for fear that he would hit someone. It turned out that it was hard to guard against it. The moment I turned around to greet the guests, he used the egg…

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