How terrible is it to cry about poverty with your children?

A few days ago, my son asked me in a low voice, \”Dad, is our family rich?\” A young child can be so sensitive. Maybe it’s because my wife and I usually discuss household expenses. The children were also listening. Fortunately, I have never cried poverty with my children. Because it\’s like spilled milk, there\’s no point crying. Smart parents understand that they need to work hard to change if they are poor…

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Young people must work hard and learn early

\”Mom, I want to endorse something, please listen to it for me.\” My son ran over and handed me the Chinese book. The book he spread out was \”The Shepherd Boy\” by Lu Yan, a poet from the Tang Dynasty. He memorized it with a shake of his head: The grass spread across the field for six or seven miles, and the flute played three or four times in the evening breeze. After returning home and having a good meal at dusk, I lie down under the moonlight without taking off my coir raincoat. Memorize it fluently. I was surprised: \”Didn\’t you start previewing just now? So soon…

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Does your child\’s handwriting look bad? Slowly practice these 28 kinds of Pang Zhonghua hard-tipped calligraphy tutorials

As the saying goes, a word is like its face, and a word is like its person. Beautiful handwriting can reflect a person\’s cultivation and character, and can even affect your life. Are there fewer and fewer opportunities to write by hand? Want to practice calligraphy but don\’t know where to start? Don\’t worry! I’ll give you a set of hard-pen calligraphy tutorials. Familiar with these 28 beautiful writing methods of the basic strokes of Pang Zhonghua hard-tipped calligraphy, you will no longer be afraid of ugly calligraphy! Collect it and practice slowly! …

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Mom, being your child is so tiring

In my heart, I feel that my son is more like my husband\’s son than mine. My husband has always reviewed his mother\’s education methods and complained that he was not allowed to do this or that due to my mother-in-law\’s strict discipline, which resulted in the indecision in his character today. We all know the common sense that people are products of the times. Everyone cannot choose their birth date, what kind of parents they are born into, and many things in their personality…

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The man whose son stabbed his mother to death was sentenced to life in prison: Are desperate people shameful?

The latest push from Nanzhou is \”Stab to Death the Mother-Insulter\”. There were only five words, but it sent a chill down my spine. After clicking on it and reading this 3,413-word in-depth report, I felt a chill running from my back to my heart. This is a tragic story mixed with despair, insult, crime and murder. No, it’s not a story, this is an in-depth documentary report. What happened…

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Seizing these 3 hours every day to educate your children is the simplest and most effective way! If you don’t believe me, try it

\”Only when children are raised with care can they grow up well.\” Two days ago, Rui\’s mother went to hold a parent-teacher conference for Rui Rui. When several of us parents were chatting in private, I heard a mother say helplessly: \”My child\’s father and I are usually very busy at work, and sometimes we have to work overtime. We really don\’t have much time to spend with our child. No matter what he studies, he doesn\’t care.\” He has realized it.\” Another mother quickly agreed: \”Yes…

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How important is it to cultivate children’s “frustration quotient”?

On the evening of April 10, 2017, a 10-year-old boy in Dazu District, Chongqing jumped from the 20th floor of his home and died on the spot. The reason why he jumped was that his father did not allow him to watch TV. Things happened, and the child\’s parents were devastated, but everything was a done deal. When relatives and friends were sorting out the child\’s belongings, the mother burst into tears. Although she wanted to leave behind everything about her son…

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The first mission of education is to cultivate mentally healthy citizens

A teacher in the international education field that I admire very much is Ms. Jiang Peirong. She is the chief interviewer for China at MIT and has published several educational books. In an article, she shared a true story. An Asian girl, with perfect scores on the SAT, the main player of the school swimming team, a good piano player, and a student leader, was admitted early to Harvard University, and later studied in Boston…

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Children who love to work are welcome wherever they go

We have three days of Labor Day holiday. On the first day, my son studied painting in the morning and played basketball with his friends in the afternoon. On the second day, we went to the Shanghai Grand View Garden not far from home to let my son experience the \”Dream of Red Mansions\” more intuitively. The artistic charm of this classic Chinese literary masterpiece. On the third day, it was Labor Day. Early in the morning, I asked my son to get up. He lazily refused to move, his mouth…

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