Reason with your children this way, and be careful when they grow up and use \”strong words\” with you.

My best friend Xiaojuan is a school psychological counselor. She once took on such a case: One day, a girl came to Xiaojuan\’s clinic. This girl has long, silky hair, a lavender plaid cotton skirt, and a pair of fresh white shoes. She looks delicate and cute. The girl was born in a well-off family. Her father is a teacher in a key middle school and her mother is a doctor in a provincial hospital…

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Every child once loved his parents unconditionally

Many times, we are accustomed to looking at the world of children from the perspective of adults. If we can start from the world of children and see the motivations behind their problems, we will find that we have really underestimated our children\’s love for us. (01) Do you still remember the very popular \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”? The task of one episode of the program is to ask several fathers to prepare their children…

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The class teacher reminds: The final period is less than 3 weeks, so smart mothers should help their children review like this! Simple and effective

Seeing that the final exam is about to take place in half a month, the children are getting more and more nervous about studying. Not only the children, but the parents were also extremely anxious. To this end, Ruima has compiled some review tips and exam preparation tips for parents and children, hoping that children can prepare well before the exam and achieve good results. For Parents, Create a Good Learning Environment When their children are studying, many parents…

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unfair! It is the mother who takes care of the baby all day long, but it is the father who cares about the child…

These days, I \”leave home\” and live alone in a hotel at the foot of Fragrant Mountain in Beijing. In the early morning, I walked on the path of Xiangshan in the morning mist; at noon, I read under the shadow of the trees; in the afternoon, I watched dramas with a cup of coffee. It\’s a pity that the above are all illusions, illusions, illusions! I stayed in the hotel to avoid Xiaochuan and recuperate. I used to think that I was an iron man and wanted to do more of everything, more…

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During the summer vacation, giving your children these 4 things is 100 times better than making up for extra lessons! I didn\’t expect the last thing

Summer vacation is coming soon, and children are starting to plan what TV to watch, what games to play, and what time to sleep in every day… But parents are thinking in their hearts, what kind of cram school should they sign up for their children? How many should be reported? Because in the eyes of parents, if their children stay at home during the summer vacation, they are basically \”wasted\”; only by handing the children over to cram school teachers can the children learn things and the summer vacation will not be wasted…

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Before enrolling your child in a hobby class, you must understand these things

After you have a child, should you enroll him in a hobby class? What to study? When to learn? What should I do if my child wants to give up? These are probably questions that all parents need to face. It just so happened that I was also considering letting Rooney learn an instrument recently, so I checked a lot of information, plus some previous experience in enrolling in classes, so I summarized it and shared it with you. Do you want to sign up for a hobby class? horse…

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What impact do poor parents have on their children?

In the evening, I went to the nearby fruit shop to buy watermelon. At this time, it is the busiest and most lively time in the fruit shop. People were coming and going in an airtight atmosphere, and everyone was busy picking and choosing. At the door of the store, I found my elementary school classmate Yun, who I hadn\’t seen for a long time. She picked up a lychee and handed it to the child who was about six or seven years old next to her. Try it again…

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Stop forcing children to be brave! You\’re just going to create a vulnerable child.

A mother left me a message. Her daughter is over three years old and has always been very well-behaved. But what makes the mother confused is that the child would cover his hands or feet several times to prevent his mother from seeing them. Sometimes it would be broken for several days without letting her see it. This mother is very strange. If children of the same age around her are injured, they will act coquettishly to their mother immediately. Why won\’t her own children do the same? deep…

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Are you also a mother who has been kidnapped by parenting scriptures?

When I had some free time, I scrolled through Moments, and the most popular ones were parenting experiences from various perspectives. Breastfeeding strengthens the body and must be continued until the age of two; do not yell at children; good habits should start from newborns; the best education is companionship; high-quality companionship cultivates children with high emotional intelligence… Frankly speaking, before becoming a mother, …

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For a good education, parents must be able to \”pretend\”

Suhomlinsky, a famous educator from the former Soviet Union, once said: \”To educate children well, we must continuously improve educational skills. To improve educational skills, parents need to make personal efforts and continue to educate themselves.\” As a parent, The first lesson to learn is to \”pretend\”. Parents who pretend to be perfect will shape their children to be perfect. Children who pretend to be innocent will produce…

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