Chinese father, career is always more important than the growth of his children

Some time ago, the director of the department resigned. It is said that his wife gave him an ultimatum: divorce if he does not return before the end of the year. After graduating from college, this director joined the company\’s branch in Tianjin, where he found a partner, got married, and settled down. Three years later, due to promotion, he was transferred from the Tianjin branch to the Suzhou branch, and then from Suzhou to another branch. Just like that…

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\”Miracle Boy\” When children face difficulties, parents must do these things

There are a lot of good movies recently, so even though the kids were at home for the holidays, I still took the time to watch a few. The last time I watched \”Coco\”, I cried several times in the cinema. In the past few days, \”Miracle Boy\” made me cry like a dog again – from the beginning of the film, the little protagonist started to cry when he told his birth story. , the tears on my face never dried until the end. Your tears after becoming a mother…

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Hello, kid! I want to say sorry to you

I still remember that winter, I was running up and down the corridors of the hospital as fast as I could. I heard loud cries coming from the delivery room. Then he took over this little life from the nurse\’s hands. I greeted him with joy in my heart: \”Hello! My child, I am your father!\” Of course, he couldn\’t understand me at that time. But I can definitely feel my love for him. \”I will definitely…

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Planning for children reflects the pattern of parents

My friend Zheng Xin is the CEO of a listed company and a graduate of an Ivy League school. He has very strict requirements for his children. Since childhood, my daughter Yueyue has been required to consider whether everything she does is beneficial to people and society, and then consider the meaning of the matter itself. When Yueyue was very young, they once held a birthday party for Yueyue outside. There is a child\’s mother…

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Violent education is the most dangerous education

There was once such a video that went viral on the Internet: In Shuyang, Suqian, a man beat a seven-year-old girl in a supermarket. In the video captured by the supermarket surveillance camera, the man grabbed the girl\’s hair, slapped her several times, and then picked up one of the child\’s legs, swinging her around like a rag doll. Throw it on the ground. The girl struggles to…

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If you want your children to enjoy \”quality education\”, you must first have money

Recently, a new round of \”promoting burden reduction and quality education\” has triggered heated discussions among parents around me. It is obvious to me that the parents around me are divided into two camps. For most ordinary dual-income families, it raises a real problem: Who will take care of the children who get out of school at three o\’clock? No nanny. If there are no more elderly people to help, this may even mean that one person has to choose full-time…

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My child, I forgive my mother for not knowing, it turns out this is a required course in your life.

In the past few days, an essay \”The First Endeavor\” written by a sixth-grade student in Ningbo has become popular on the Internet. Netizens jokingly said: This composition is comparable to the love letters of famous masters. Someone exclaimed: Are all children today so precocious? Some people say: Why don’t teachers and parents care about this child’s premature love? Others said: I don’t think this can be regarded as puppy love, it is human nature’s need for positivity and sunshine…

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No matter how many children you have, take care of the oldest one first

Many parenting books say that for families with many children, parents should regularly take time out to spend time alone with each child. If possible, there should also be quality time for the mother to be alone and for the couple to date alone. Xiaopai usually has to go to school, and I made an appointment with her that every Saturday is the time for her mother to be alone with her. Xiaopai said that Saturday is our \”Mom\’s Photo Day\”. Can be decided…

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\”Teacher trapped in the toilet\”, a joke reveals the embarrassment of current education

Let me tell you a joke first: I was giving a lecture one day, and a student asked to use the toilet. The teacher felt that it would affect the order of the class, so he was not allowed to do so. As a result, the child peed in his pants. Parents sued the Education Bureau: The teacher violated human rights and deprived students of their right to use the toilet and should be severely punished. Another day in class, another student asked to use the toilet, and the teacher allowed it. Unexpectedly, the student slipped and fell in the toilet and was injured. Home…

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I care more about the power of my child’s original dream than what school to attend.

Tomorrow is the day for my kid to apply online for promotion to junior high school. Since yesterday, friends have been sending me tips on how to apply online. Logically speaking, this kind of thing should be our concern as parents and has nothing to do with others. However, my friends know that I am basically the only one who worries about enrolling my children in primary school, fearing that I have to remember too many things…

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