A recent little incident surprised me a little, and at the same time, it made my thoughts on raising adolescent children more clear. Chengzi\’s school has a requirement that boys\’ hair cannot be longer than one inch. During the weekend, I saw that Cheng Zi’s hair was growing long, so I reminded him to cut it. When I came back from the haircut, I saw that the sides were shaved shorter, and the top of my head was still a bit long in the middle. I said: \”You\’d better go back and put…
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School age
What is the root cause of children\’s rebelliousness and disobedience?
We have all overlooked one issue – a child is a human being, a person with ideas, feelings and pursuits, not a simple learning machine! Especially for adolescent children, they begin to explore the meaning of their lives and will often ask themselves: \”What on earth am I doing? What is the meaning?\” Just like my daughter, when she is learning to go smoothly, she …
Improve life skills that will benefit your children for life
The Family Education Promotion Law, which will be implemented on January 1, 2022, lists \”life skills\” as one of the core contents of family education. Recently, the Ministry of Education officially issued the \”Compulsory Education Curriculum Plan (2022 Edition)\”, which completely separated labor courses from the original comprehensive practical activity curriculum, and released the \”Compulsory Education Labor Curriculum Standards (2022 Edition)\”. …
What is the best gift for children?
Family harmony and love between husband and wife are the best gifts parents can give to their children! In family relationships, do you think the relationship between husband and wife is more important, or the relationship between parents and children? I think many mothers will choose the parent-child relationship just like me at first, because in our concept, it is very important to educate our children well. As long as we educate our children well,…
What should I do if my baby becomes more and more disobedient the more I am reasonable?
The more parents like to be reasonable, the more disobedient their children tend to be. \”Being reasonable\” is a kind of education method that many parents like and has always been praised positively. But people often find that being reasonable is useless for many children. The more parents like to be reasonable, the more disobedient their children are. A parent said that her 7-year-old daughter is very rebellious and does whatever she is not allowed to do. She often…
How to cultivate children\’s independent testing?
There was a mother who had a conflict with her child because her child did not put away the yoga mat on the floor in time. The mother believed that she should do her own thing and put away things after use. The child thinks it’s okay to put it away later, or if the mother helps put it away. The mother feels that she cannot spoil her child and wants to cultivate her child\’s independence. The child thinks that the mother is not tolerant and becomes confrontational with the mother…
Reasons why children like to dawdle and how to solve them?
Almost all mothers hope that their children can do things more efficiently. However, the ideal is very full and the reality is very skinny. The parents\’ words are almost worn out and the children are still procrastinating and whining. It was better when I was in school. I spent most of my time in school, out of sight and out of mind. As soon as Sunday or holiday comes, mothers begin to \”survive the tribulation\”. Seeing the child\’s appearance, Jane…
How to help children unleash their potential?
The famous Soviet educator Kapdelev once proposed: \”Children should immerse themselves in nature as early as possible and for a long time, absorb its nutrition, and experience the thoughts and feelings that nature arouses in everyone\’s heart. Children need to see it with their own eyes See the rise and fall of the sun and moon. In a word, it must be integrated with the various phenomena of nature.\” It can be seen that playing in the natural environment…
When the child enters adolescence, the mother will become silly and sweet
Countless parents have reported that adolescent children will fall out when asked, which is too difficult to do. So today I will share two stories about my dynamic hypnosis training. The first one is M, a freshman in high school. He was admitted to a general high school, but his parents arranged for him to go to a key high school through connections. As you can imagine, he was crushed by a group of top students as soon as he entered. Successfully entered the most despised chain in the class within three months…
How to improve children’s learning consciousness
If you ask parents what worries their children the most during the holidays, laziness, procrastination, disengagement, and unplanned study will definitely be on the list. A few days before the holidays are often the time when parent-child relationships are at their most harmonious. Now that the summer vacation has passed for a month, many parents have begun to dislike their children in various ways. There are mothers around me who complain that their children are out of control when they stay at home, except for eating, sleeping,…