Have many parents fallen into this myth: They bought a bunch of parenting books, praised the theories in them, and secretly thought about educating their children in this way, only to turn around and see their children being naughty and getting into trouble again. , suddenly became furious, scolded her as usual, and threw out the \”ten things parents should never say to their children\” long ago. I originally thought about my child\’s health…
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School age
Among the top students, the bad students, the obedient ones and the disobedient ones in a class, who will be the richest in 40 years?
Disobedient children become rich, but good students are average. There is a joke: \”Be careful, psychology students will miss you forever!\” It is talking about a kind of research in psychology-tracking research. Especially follow-up studies on children often last for decades, and the conclusions drawn are often unexpected. Recently, the famous American child psychological development magazine \”Developmental Psychology\”…
Revealing misunderstandings about children’s brain science: The storage capacity of the right brain is 100,000 times that of the left brain?
Some time ago, a reader left a message in the background about his confusion. His child is 3 years old and does not learn things very quickly. He worries that this is because the child\’s brain is not developed enough. He would like to ask what parents can do to stimulate their children\’s right-brain potential. After asking him about his child\’s performance in detail, I feel that there is not much of a problem with his child\’s learning ability…
Gao Xiaosong talks about the relationship between father and son for the first time. Which adult doesn’t bear the pain of childhood?
In the recent \”Qi Pa Conference\”, Gao Xiaosong talked about his native family for the first time. He said that due to the influence of his original family, especially his dissatisfaction with the father-son relationship, he lived a very individual and unpleasant life in the first twenty years, and had many problems. How bad is his relationship with his father? He said that according to his mother\’s recollection, he had never…
Best Picture Oscar: How cruel it is to refuse to see your children
What would I do if I gave birth to a child with a defect? After watching this year\’s Oscar-winning live-action short film \”The Silent Child,\” Xiaoli has been thinking about this question. The short film is really short, only 20 minutes, but it tells the story of the misfortune of a 3-year-old deaf girl. I cry every time I watch it. After becoming a mother, I don’t know whether it’s because the Holy Mother’s heart is overflowing, or because my soul…
Bad kids and the unbearable lightness of life
You must have seen this video: It’s not surprising that someone was killed after such a violent beating. Fortunately, the outcome was not that bad. The naughty kid was only slightly injured. Guo, who hit the person, was detained for 15 days and fined. If parents don\’t take care of the \”naughty child incident\”, it will be too late when the violent maniac comes to take care of it. Sympathy for Guo, who hit the person, is of course extremely politically incorrect and unreasonable, even if…
In the games a child plays, his future is hidden
When your child says to you, \”I want to fly!\” how do you respond to him? I remember one time, my son was playing outside with his grandma. He said to another old woman, \”I\’m going to fly!\” \”You can\’t fly.\” \”Why?\” \”Because you are a person, not a bird.\” \”The mosquito is not a bird either, so why can… .
Become a child who won’t grow up? Parents interfere too much, clap too little, and let go too late
In court, there are always enemies. But recently, a ridiculous \”strange case\” occurred in the New York State Supreme Court in the United States: a pair of parents sued their 30-year-old son. What\’s going on? It turns out that the 30-year-old son Michael has been living at home for eight years. In the past few months, the Rotondos have written several times asking him to leave their residence and become self-reliant…
If dads do this, their children will be better (a must-read for parents)
On June 8, Tian Liang announced on Weibo: \”(Sendie) came to participate in the world competition for the first time, and won bronze medals in javelin and running.\” At that time, I had a feeling: wow, she deserves to be the daughter of an Olympic champion. I still remember that in the program \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, dad Tian Liang couldn\’t adapt to the rhythm of raising a baby for a while, and often seemed at a loss when faced with the crying Sen Die. But the show filmed several…
When school violence strikes, the FBI\’s 3-step guide will keep children and adults safe
Yesterday was such an outrageous and sad day! I just finished writing angrily in the morning. 4-year-old Yaoyao was slapped wildly by the girl\’s mother because she was fighting for a toy with a girl. I saw the violent incident at Shanghai World Foreign Language Primary School in the afternoon, and this can no longer be described as angry, but full of sadness! ! ! According to a report from the Shanghai police, at 11:30 noon on the 28th, Pubei Road Shiwai Primary School…