A 9-year-old child was beaten and scolded by his father for gambling at home. The son\’s words left the father speechless.

We all know that parents are their children\’s first teachers. From the moment their children are born, they are watching with their eyes, listening with their ears, experiencing with their hearts, and thinking about every move, word and deed of their parents. Parents are their children\’s \”idols\”. They long to be as tall as their father and as approachable as their mother when they grow up. The world that children first come into contact with is mainly the family. For children…

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The first words of a 10-year-old child after coming home make mothers all over the world feel extremely regretful…

Yangyang is in the third grade of elementary school. She stays at her grandparents’ house from Monday to Friday, and at her grandparents’ house from Friday night to Sunday. My husband and I both have to commute to get off work on time and often work overtime, so most of the time He was with both of our parents. Over time, Yangyang got used to this kind of life. That day, after I got off work in the evening, I made sure I didn\’t have to work overtime the next day…

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The shy behavior of mother and daughter on the subway deserves our reflection on the sadness of Chinese-style education

Once I saw a mother and daughter on the subway. They seemed to be returning from extra classes. The mother helps her daughter carry her schoolbag. There were many people in the subway, and a girl took the initiative to give her seat to the little girl. The little girl looked at her mother and then sat down. The girl\’s mother did not thank her, but stood beside the little girl expressionlessly. Then someone next to the little girl got off at the station, and the little girl\’s mother immediately…

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Okay, I give in.

Yesterday, I picked up classmate Zhe from school and played in the playground for a while. The children were playing on the slide when I suddenly heard a quarrel. Probably two children both wanted to play with a certain toy and started fighting for it. One of the little boys\’ mother asked the other child to line up. The grandfather of the little boy in question quit and responded: \”Why are you, an adult, meddling in children\’s affairs?\” Come on, let me…

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Mom peeked into her son\’s diary and was shocked!

Over the past few years, in the painful process of learning, growing, and fighting with my children, I have transformed from confusion and anxiety to a calm outlook. \”No gold is pure, and no one is perfect.\” I am not a perfect mother, and I do not demand perfection from my children. \”One person has one nature, and a hundred birds have a hundred voices.\” Yes, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. Parents are their children\’s best teachers, I…

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Sometimes parents should encourage their children to be \”irresponsible\”!

A few days ago, a mother left me a message on the backstage of the public account, saying that her daughter Lele (pseudonym) was becoming more and more introverted and closed, and the parent-child relationship was very poor. She asked me if there was any good solution. After detailed communication, I learned what happened: Lele, who was about to enter the first grade, liked assembly toys very much. Once, I saw a box of \”Princess Castle\” in the supermarket (the kind with many parts that need to be assembled). ..

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A must-see for parents! 40 things parents must tell their children!

September is the back-to-school season. While students are returning to the classroom to start classes one after another, there are still some children who have just graduated from kindergarten and successfully upgraded to primary school students! Facing a new world for children, what should they do? What should we pay attention to? Xiaoxin has summarized 40 sentences for parents. Everyone must tell their children well!

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If a child has this habit, he will 100% suffer in the exam.

It was almost a week since school started. Shan Xiaobao, who was in third grade, brought back a math class quiz paper after school and asked me to sign it for her. When I opened the test paper, what I saw before my eyes was five thunders, plus lightning and thunder! This is a quiz about vertical calculation of multiplication of two-digit numbers by two-digit numbers. There are only twenty questions in total, and my classmate Shan Xiaobao actually got eighteen of them wrong. Oh my gosh! inside me…

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Skills in communicating with children with your heart!

Yuqi is an outstanding \”little star\” who is excellent in all aspects. Male classmates who like her often give her gifts. Facing her daughter who had just entered adolescence, her mother calmly taught her to look at such things naturally, and at the same time taught her how to politely refuse gifts from boys. My daughter handled these matters smoothly and did not fall into emotional fluctuations prematurely. Beautiful youth always…

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When her child was deeply addicted to the Internet, this mother used three measures to manage him without beating or scolding him

On September 16, 2016, the mother-murder case of Chen Xinran, a 16-year-old Internet-addicted girl in Heilongjiang, deeply touched my heart. I am the parent of a fifth-grade student. While I feel sorry for this girl, I also deeply reflect on my son\’s Internet addiction. My son did well in the final exam last semester. As a fairly liberal parent, I agreed to his request. heat…

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