Children with these two characteristics are destined to suffer a lifetime of disadvantages!

For parents, everyone hopes that their children can grow up healthy and happy, and not suffer disadvantages or be bullied outside. In fact, sometimes we as parents may not know what our children have experienced outside. Although it is said that \”every time you suffer, you will gain wisdom\”, but I still don\’t want my children to grow up only after suffering a loss or suffering. A person with many years of teaching experience…

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A mother who does these 4 things is better than 10 good teachers! I don’t think it’s a big loss

There is a saying: \”A successful person must have a mother who has super-knowledge.\” Zheng Yuanjie also said: \”A child\’s growth depends on his mother\’s success and failure.\” It can be seen that the mother\’s quality will affect the child\’s life destiny. However, many mothers are mothers for the first time. They don\’t know how to take care of a child as he grows up, don\’t know how to communicate with the child, what to do if his grades are bad, puppy love…

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The secret of American children’s self-discipline from childhood is hidden in a piece of A4 paper

I used to have a colleague in the company, a single American girl who grew up in a small western town and had never left the United States. One day she had a sudden idea that she wanted to learn Spanish and go to South America to teach. Every day during lunch time, I saw her putting colorful post-it notes on her desk to remember words, and then punching cards in her notebook. The way of clocking in was to put a smiley face on her notebook every time she completed a study task…

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Cold starting from the feet? wrong! There are so many benefits to going barefoot that you can’t imagine

Since the hot summer, the weather is getting hotter and hotter. It is a very time-consuming task for the elderly at home to put socks on their babies every time. The point is not that baby socks are difficult to put on, but that after you put them on, your baby will always take them off, put them on again, take them off again… put them on and take them off again, put them on and take them off again, it is simply a protracted battle. Sometimes it\’s really…

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Are your children having endless problems? One word to save anxious parents

During the Dragon Boat Festival holiday, several families went on a self-driving trip together. The three children sat in our car and ate, drank and had fun. The initial novelty wore off and before the journey was even halfway through, we began to feel a little bored. The three children asked for a while: It\’s so boring. When will it arrive? Seeing the boring atmosphere getting thicker and thicker, I quickly thought of a way to curb it: \”From now on, no…

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“Invisible” mothers do more harm to their children than “non-existent” fathers

A mother who is busy, beautiful and still has time to spend with her children is a myth for a few people. A couple in the neighborhood are divorcing. According to reliable news from the \”Auntie Core Group of the District Committee\”, the reason is that the daughter-in-law is having an extramarital affair and is being divorced by herself. My husband was blocked. It is said that the young couple are currently separated, and the child is left with the grandparents. The mother can only see her outside and is not allowed to enter the house. My mom feels…

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Good children are a shame to their parents

The vast majority of parents like obedient children, from the smallest to the basic necessities of life. \”Baby, listen to mom. It\’s cold today. Wear another sweater.\” \”But I\’m not cold.\” \”It\’s cold when mom says it\’s cold. Be obedient.\” \”Okay.\” Or maybe it is. \”Baby, listen to mommy and drink this bowl of soup.\” \”But I don\’t want to drink it.\” \”Good boy, this bowl of soup has some benefits…

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Childhood is different: you are playing with your mobile phone in the air-conditioned room, while he is carrying supplies under the scorching sun

My son\’s swimming class ended the day before yesterday. Although he had already received the completion certificate, he and I had already agreed to use up the ten swimming tickets given by the swimming pool and swim for an hour or two every day. Review and exercise. Yesterday afternoon, at three o\’clock, my son was still indifferent. He stayed in the room, blowing on the air conditioner, playing with his mobile phone, and was extremely happy. I remind…

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Why do children get angry at you when they make mistakes?

When describing children, we often use this word: cute. Most of the time, children are indeed adorable, but there are always times when they are not. For example, he clearly made a mistake but refused to admit it. Not only did he not admit it, he got angry at you, messed around with you, and kicked and hit you. These behaviors are not only unlovable, they are simply unreasonable. You use…

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Strictness and severity, who is the culprit of psychological shadow?

I\’m most afraid of psychological shadow. Some time ago, a mother told me that her child was about to go to elementary school and asked him to pack up his toys. Sometimes he couldn\’t collect them all, or they didn\’t put them neatly, and he would procrastinate, so he asked him to help. The housework is not satisfactory, and the usual work and rest time is irregular. Judging from the quality of the children\’s work, I am afraid that the study and homework in primary school are not very optimistic…

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