One time, I was staying up late writing a manuscript. WeChat received a message: \”Do you think there is really a difference between studying early and studying later? They say studying early harms children, is that true?\” In fact, I have seen many versions of this question. \”Do you want to do parent-child reading for your children? Aren\’t you afraid of spoiling the child\’s eyes?\” \”Reading at such a young age won\’t damage the brain, right?\”…
Category: School age
School age
What happens to the women who become virgins?
My best friend Xiaoya invited me to get together at our favorite hotpot restaurant in college. Facing the hot hotpot, I had a strong appetite and ordered a lot of dishes, but Xiaoya looked uninterested. I was so amused: \” What\’s wrong, you\’re paying to come and see me for dinner?!\” She said angrily: \”I can\’t feel his love for me. Why is it that the more virtuous I am, the more indifferent he becomes? To tell you the truth, I have been divorced…
When a child says \”leave me alone\”
Two days ago, after dinner, my daughter was watching cartoons. After I finished my work, I went over to talk to her and said, \”You can\’t watch this episode until you finish it!\” She didn\’t even raise her head or say anything. I patted her with my hand and she looked up at me. I asked her if she heard me. She said she heard it. I asked again if he heard what I said. She said, you said you can’t watch this episode after you finish it. …
How confident are you in measuring your child’s future by looking at their report card?
In the eyes of many parents, people who can achieve great achievements must be students who studied very hard, had a very bright mind, and had excellent grades when they were young. They are also known as \”students\”. However, when an academician of the Chinese Academy of Sciences posted his elementary school report card, it reassured children and parents: It turns out that even if you are not a top student, you can still achieve great things! …
This is the secret that widens the mental gap between children [A must-read for parents over 2 years old]
A few days ago, I went back to my alma mater to chat with my tutor about being a public account. The tutor and my juniors asked me out of curiosity: \”We feel that there are also super hot topics in parenting now, such as breastfeeding, not eating salt before 1 year old, going to… Even if you don’t go to interest classes, no one will mention that thing that is more important for children’s growth.” “Yes, senior sister, many parents are now anxious to send their children to early morning classes…
No more divorces! A 9-year-old girl sings a song that makes everyone cry
After the divorce, one parted ways and the other parted ways, but who really considered the feelings of the children? Facing a broken family, this little girl sang \”My Dad\” with tears in her eyes, and everyone who had a story to listen to burst into tears. According to statistics, nearly 4 million couples divorce in China every year. Today, when the divorce rate remains high, those who truly persevere to the end will surely be grateful for their tolerance…
Speak well, start from the baby
The naughty kid was made to stand yesterday. After the penalty, ask him what he did wrong. He said, \”I shouldn\’t lie.\” \”What else?\” \”I can\’t think of anything.\” He looked at me with the innocent look that Puss has. I suppressed my laughter and said, \”Then you keep standing and come to me when you think about it.\” A minute later, he came back, \”Mom, I figured it out. I should be with her…
After reading the interview questions for this year’s junior high school students, I no longer dare to have a second child for fear of holding the baby back.
Yesterday was the interview day for Shanghai private primary schools from kindergarten to primary school. Take a look at the real-time pictures taken at the school gate by the parents in my circle of friends who accompanied the exam. Doesn’t it feel more rigorous than the college entrance examination? The children are tired and the parents are miserable! ! But this is nothing. Children who dare to take the exam have always experienced professional training to some extent. Parents and tutoring class teachers have already compiled the actual interview questions from each school over the years…
Why are we so tired of raising children, and you still think we have nothing to do?
In the past few days when there have been no updates, apart from reading and studying, the most important thing I have done is to have dinner with a few old friends I haven’t “dated” for a long time. One of them is a new mother with an 8-month-old baby. Because the elderly on both sides could not help, and she was worried about leaving the baby to a nanny, she quit her job after discussing it with her husband when she was six or seven months pregnant. During the confinement period, there is a confinement nanny at home, and the children eat…
Really smart parents only teach their children to do these two things!
A mother left a message in the background and said: I had another fight with my daughter today, and I was so angry that I secretly wiped tears in the bedroom. My daughter is now in the second semester of her second year of junior high school and is about to enter the graduation class. But this child didn\’t show any signs of nervousness. As soon as school was over every day, he would chat on WeChat and play games with his mobile phone. I took her phone away and asked her to read for a while…