The simplest family tradition is the company of parents

After watching Hunan Satellite TV\’s family-oriented program \”Children Travel Thousands of Miles\”, I became a fan of the parents of He Jiang, a postdoctoral fellow at MIT. He Jiang\’s home is in a remote village in Hunan. Villagers usually choose to go out to work, so that after working for a few years they can return home and build a new house. He Jiang\’s parents did not do this. They had two sons. In order for their children to have a good learning environment, the He family\’s parents chose…

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Mother pulls daughter to jump off building together: Children who are used as tools by their parents are the saddest

On the afternoon of September 9, in Zuo\’anpu Park inside Zuo\’anmen, Beijing, a mother wanted to jump off the building with her daughter because of a divorce dispute. I knew this news a few days ago, but I never paid attention to it because there have been too many negative news about jumping off buildings recently. Why not let people play with mobile phones and jump off buildings? People who are in unbearable labor pains jump off buildings. Postpartum depression means jumping off buildings while holding their babies…&# 823…

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When a child is crying and shouting to buy, buy, buy, how to teach him to distinguish between \”want\” and \”need\”?

What I share here is my \”combat experience\”, and it really works. Sisters who have to walk around the toy section of the mall or Toys R Us, please raise your hands?! I\’m really scared. I\’m worried that my child will plunge into it and never be able to pull it away. He will want to buy whatever he sees, and will cry and fuss if he doesn\’t buy it. In the end, he will have to pick up one item before he can leave. At that time, I said it was \”my favorite\” (actually I have one at home…

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This society has such low requirements for men and so high requirements for women

How can one gain a foothold in society without the ability to support his family? If you don\’t care about your family, why get married? In fact, this is not a requirement only for men. It\’s just that among men\’s complaints that they can\’t accommodate these two requirements, women have already had these two abilities. One lunch time, I discussed with my colleagues \”What kind of man is a good man.\” I said, I don\’t need to be like Huang Lei…

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The father\’s words made his son commit suicide on the spot: Never talk to your children like this again

Recently, this heart-stopping animated picture was circulated on Weibo: It is said that this incident happened in Thailand. The son is addicted to computer games all day long and has nothing to do. The father hates that iron cannot be transformed into steel. In a fit of anger, he handed his son a loaded gun and said angrily: If you have the guts, don\’t live! Unexpectedly, as soon as his father turned around, his son pulled the trigger and shot towards himself…

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Sensible children run away from home: Don’t let your efforts become pressure on your children

Last month, my circle of friends exploded. Everyone was discussing the fact that Sister Jing’s son Niu Niu ran away from home. In our eyes, Niu Niu is an excellent and obedient child who rarely lets his parents worry about him. He is so well-behaved. Why did your child run away from home? It\’s also confusing. Someone accompanied Sister Jing to the police station to watch the surveillance, someone helped put missing person notices in the media, and all of them posted messages on friends…

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Fuck you \”humility makes people progress\”, I was hurt by this sentence

On weekend evenings, when I had nothing to do, I went online to watch the newly released Golden Horse Awards Ceremony. When it was time to award the Best Supporting Actor, host Tao Jingying ran off the stage to interview director Ang Lee because his son Li Chun was shortlisted this year. Tao Jingying wanted to ask him, how does it feel to be a father? Li An first said politely, \”Of course I\’m very happy,\” and then changed the subject…

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Trade 20 years for Jiang Ge’s life? When the law protects Chen Shifeng, do we still dare to teach our children to be kind?

In exchange for Jiang Ge’s life in 20 years? When the law protects Chen Shifeng, do we still dare to teach our children to be kind? We teach our children from an early age that they must be good people and be kind and friendly to others. However, in recent years, from the Jiang Ge case to the 622 nanny arson case, vicious incidents have occurred frequently. I don’t know how many children and even adults have been harmed by \”kindness\”! In the early morning of November 3, 2016…

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The phone was found, but the child was gone! What kind of mother could beat her own son for 5 hours?

Recently, a tragedy in Huangqiao in which a mother beat her son to death hit the screen. On the evening of January 5, a mother in a community in Huangqiao beat her son to death because the child had lost his mobile phone. On the night when her son died, the mother was still in the community property group, calmly asking her neighbors if they had picked up a mobile phone without a card. This was originally a peaceful and ordinary night…

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What should I do if my child can’t make friends? I took my daughter to watch \”Miracle Boy\”

In September last year, my daughter Xinyi entered elementary school. Because she had been weak since she was young and her athletic ability was lagging behind, her performance in physical education class became a \”difficult family\”, and she was \”ridiculed\” by her classmates. She cried when she came home and told me that classmate xxx always laughed at her for tripping on her leg while skipping rope and for not being able to keep up with the radio exercises. Xinyi was also depressed for a time because of being \”ridiculed\”, and even…

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