When I went downstairs in the morning, Xiao Fu was humming the song \”There Are No Bad Children in the World\” as he walked. Looking at his innocent appearance, my heart suddenly tightened and I thought about whether I should tell him the truth that there are bad children in the world. Moreover, there are not only bad children in the world, but those bad children will also become bad adults when they grow up. Usually when I chat with Xiaofuqi, I will mention every…
Category: School age
School age
Don’t let “pretending to be a good mother” get you down
“Pretending to be a good mom” is really tiring. One day you may be completely overwhelmed by the high \”emotional cost\”. Because in addition to physical labor and mental labor, raising children also requires a kind of hard work called \”emotional labor.\” Have you ever been like me and found it strange that your child is older and does not need to be breastfed, fed, or held, so why do you feel…
There are so many ways to cultivate concentration. Without this premise, everything else is useless.
After giving birth to Su Bao two years ago, my shoulders and back were sore from time to time. I thought it was caused by holding the baby and breastfeeding, so I went to the hospital for one-on-one postpartum care. My masseuse is an American grandmother in her 60s or 70s. After taking care of me for a while, she said that 70% of the reason for the pain in my shoulders and back was \”too shallow breathing.\” She told me that many new mothers are tired due to busy work, and their breathing is habitually short, and their upper body muscles…
For children who cannot withstand setbacks, their parents must have failed to do these four steps
A few days ago, a mother consulted in the background: \”Recently, I have discovered that my child\’s frustration ability is poor, and he will give up or become discouraged when encountering difficulties. Is there any good way to improve his child\’s frustration ability?\” I discussed a topic with her at that time. The magical story of \”Just Chasing the First Place\”: A girl fell last every time she ran in physical education class because of her frail body. This made her very frustrated, the girl\’s…
What should you do if your baby has a fever and convulsions? Don\’t put random things in your mouth
Many new parents are particularly anxious about their baby\’s fever, because they heard that a high fever will kill the baby, just like this: I believe every parent will be scared to death when seeing such a scene ~ There are many rumors in the world that the baby Fever and convulsions will damage the brain. Some people say that you need to use something to pry the baby\’s mouth open when convulsing. Others say that you need to pinch the baby\’s philtrum and use hot water…
What are those kids who keep asking for something missing?
There are two food markets near the community where I live. One is closer, relatively modern, and has richer dishes, especially seafood; the other is farther away, and the cuisine is not very complete, but it is very down-to-earth. Because every day, farmers from nearby villages bring home-grown fresh vegetables and fruits for sale. So if I go shopping alone, I usually…
Children, if you don’t try your best, how will you know how much potential you have?
This past weekend, my son participated in the \”Sanhao Cup\” track and field competition for primary and secondary school students in the county. This is an annual traditional event, which is very grand and every school has sent its strongest lineup. My son was originally on the school basketball team. About a month ago, he was temporarily selected by the track and field team coach and asked him to participate in this competition after conducting surprise training. So, for more than a month, my son…
If you have a son at home, the sooner you know these things, the better for the child.
\”Boys should be raised poor, girls should be raised rich. I have suffered a loss because I have no money in this life and have not provided a better living environment for you two sisters. As long as you have experienced wealth since childhood, you will not be fooled by the small favors in front of you. .\” A line from the TV series \”Snail House\” has become the consensus of many parents. Especially parents who have both children at home, they will choose to raise a rich daughter…
Just one word from the child made me collapse into tears and decided to have a second child.
Baoduo\’s father drank some wine last night. When he got home, he sat next to me because of his drunkenness, put his hand on my knee, squeezed it, and said, \”Actually, when you cried that day, I felt quite uncomfortable. ” The day he was talking about was last weekend. Originally, he made an appointment with his friends to go out to play, but Baoduo suddenly changed his mind and decided to stay at home and not go anywhere. So, the three of them stayed at home, Bao Duo…
How much influence do good teachers have on children?
In the book \”The Road to Purpose,\” author William Damon emphasizes that adults outside the family play a key role in a child\’s development. One of the very important roles is the teacher. As the old saying goes, \”Once a teacher, always a father.\” It can be seen that a teacher may play a decisive role in a student\’s life. But good teachers can be found but not sought. For students…