Many parents have headaches about their children\’s education. The main questions focus on: Why are the children disobedient? Why do children do poorly? Why are my children so stubborn with me? But these are not the root of the problem, they are just the symptoms. If you want to solve it, you have to treat the symptoms first and then the root cause. So what is a book? It’s the parent-child relationship. Parent-child relationship determines your…
Category: School age
School age
If primary schools don’t pay close attention, junior high schools will be miserable! This is how children in grades 1 to 6 should study with them
All parents know the importance of the primary school stage, but learning in the primary stage is also the biggest headache for parents: hold on tighter, for fear of tiring the children, and even more afraid of the children losing interest in learning under pressure; pursue happy education, and also I am a little unsure, and I am afraid that my child will play around for several years and end up with nothing… In fact, the primary school stage is the stage that lays the foundation for the child\’s entire learning career…
The fifth and sixth grades of primary school are the period when myopia is most common! When you are a parent, you need to take precautions in advance.
Parents who go to pick up their children from get out of class every night may find that many children have put on a pair of glasses on their little faces early, which makes people feel distressed. But the reality is that as the pressure of competition increases, the rate of myopic children is increasing year by year. Maybe wearing a pair of glasses was a symbol of \”knowledge\” in the 20th century, but in the 21st century, it is very important to let children wear glasses early. Not what…
If you don\’t listen to the old man, you will suffer a loss! How many families have been deceived by these old sayings?
Chinese culture has a long history, and there are naturally many good words and wisdom about family education. However, can these traditional educational concepts really be directly applied? At least the following points don\’t seem entirely feasible. 1. “A filial son emerges from a stick.” In traditional Chinese education, the concept of “a filial son emerges from a stick” is deeply ingrained. Parents are sometimes annoyed…
The speech of a mother who was a poor student made her cry every time, and all the parents applauded her
After the mid-term exam, we have to prepare for the parent-teacher conference. After so many parent-teacher conferences, the one that impressed me most was the one. At every parent meeting, I will ask the children and parents who have made the most progress to tell us about their experiences. That time, the children I invited were actually very ordinary. First of all, her grades were not outstanding in the class, and she could even be said to be a so-called \”poor student\” for a long time; secondly…
A vicious adoptive mother who abused a girl was sentenced to 1 year and 9 months in prison. What do you think?
On November 18, we learned from the Huangjiajia Government of Dazhu County that there has been new progress in the much-publicized case of Juanjuan, a girl from Dazhu, Dazhou, who was abused by her adoptive mother. The Dazhu County People\’s Court recently pronounced that Juanjuan\’s adoptive mother and defendant Yang was guilty of intentional injury and was sentenced to one year and nine months in prison. Later, the Dazhu County People\’s Court recently ruled again that the adoption relationship between Yang and Juanjuan was illegal…
A weird way to punish children without hitting or scolding! Are parents and teachers at home and abroad really crazy?
How do you punish your child when he does something wrong? Hit him? scold him? Maybe not the best choice! It is said that beating and scolding children is very harmful, but when their children are disobedient, are their parents so angry that they always want to find an opportunity to \”fix\” their naughty children? Other people’s parents have already done this, it’s so imaginative! Humiliating punishment: shaving your hair makes you look 30 years older overnight…
The simplest way to educate your children is to be yourself with self-discipline
Some time ago, my daughter made me very embarrassed. The thing is like this, my cousin had something to do, so he asked me to take care of Xuanxuan after get off work, and also asked my daughter to help Xuanxuan with his homework. My daughter is in fifth grade and Xuanxuan is in third grade. On the first day at home, the two children were very harmonious and happy. The headache happened after my daughter finished her homework. My daughter finished her homework, and because she promised her uncle, she went to see Xuanxuan to write…
Be a good \”liar\” and your children will become better
When we educate our children, we ask them to be honest and not lie to others. As parents, we must also set an example. However, today I want to teach you how to be a big \”liar\”, because many times, only by lying to children will they become better. In the education world, there is such an interesting effect – the expectation effect. Before explaining, let me tell you a story: There is a…
This \”cruel trick\” that ruins children is still used by many parents
Sometimes parents try to use material rewards to restrain their children\’s behavior and make them obedient. What seems to be a reasonable and enlightened reward and punishment measure is actually the \”cruel trick\” that is most likely to destroy a child. Children are most disgusted by parents’ conditional rewards. When I went to Xiaowen’s house to play on the weekend, Xiaowen asked her 9-year-old daughter to sing a song. The little girl was shy and refused. Xiaowen felt embarrassed: “Baby…