On Zhihu, there was a question that invited me to answer: A third-year junior high school child asked for encouragement. After seeing his situation, I felt very sorry for this child, and the more I looked at it, the more I wanted to cry. I\’m in my third year of junior high school and I can\’t hold on any longer… Can you encourage me? The pressure is really great. I really don’t know the use of going to school. After working so hard, I have to work as a cow horse for capital. We are all that cheap…
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School age
People who are unfilial when they grow up have 4 characteristics since childhood. I hope your children don’t have them.
Junjun, who was originally smart and lively, lived with his parents and had a happy family. However, this beautiful life was broken by the birth of his younger brother. Junjun\’s mother could not take care of two children at the same time, so she had to send Junjun to her grandmother\’s house to take care of him. Grandma loved Junjun very much and felt that it was pitiful that he could not live with his parents, so she pampered him in every possible way. Any suggestion made by Junjun…
Dealing with Adolescents: Have Goals
The eldest daughter was in the first grade of junior high school last year, and the teacher asked her to run 800 meters every week. The child was out of breath and came back to complain, why she had to take the 800-meter test in the high school entrance examination? Every time I failed the test, I once felt that I would lose points in the 800 meters of the high school entrance examination. I just listened to her complaining and after venting her emotions, I told her that the 800m in the high school entrance examination is to exercise perseverance and persistence, and that as long as people work hard…
After spending 10 yuan to take his son to eat Haidilao, netizens complained: Parents with a small pattern cannot raise decent children.
When it comes to Haidilao, my impression is that the service is very good, but it seems not cheap… But I saw something online that really surprised me. A mother took her son to eat Haidilao. The whole meal was satisfying. The important thing is that she only spent 10 yuan. How did she do it? 1: Mom spends 10 yuan to take her son to eat under the sea…
Mental illness with more serious consequences than depression is affecting millions of children…
During this time, I discovered a very popular education blogger – the former Internet tycoon Zhang Chaoyang. Now his latest identity is as a \”physics Internet celebrity\”, and he occasionally works part-time as an education blogger and outputs some educational opinions. Recently, Zhang Chaoyang frequently appeared in the interview program \”Dialogue Under the Stars\” with golden quotes, and was called \”the most sober and mature view of education\” by netizens. Among them, the most out of the circle…
If you want your children to take the initiative to complete tasks, you must set goals like this
Summer vacation is coming, and we all hope that our children can arrange their study and life reasonably. But study plans always seem to become ineffective through procrastination. So, how can we implement the plans we have made and make children willing to implement them consciously and proactively? In the end, we may not say that everything is realized, but at least we can see progress every day and every month? 01 Distinguish between \”task\” and \”goal\”…
I discovered the secret to a prosperous child
In the United States, there is such a \”problem child\”. As a child, he was diagnosed with autism. In everyone\’s eyes, this child\’s life was ruined. He will not be able to speak in the future, will be unable to take care of himself, and will only be a drag on his family for the rest of his life. Just when everyone despaired of this child, only one person did not give up on him. That\’s his mother. Mom has always believed…
When a child loses his temper with you, your first reaction determines whether he will live a frustrated or self-consistent life.
Question: Have any of you here taught your children how to be \”very angry\”? What the hell? You need to be taught if you are angry? The child is getting as bad-tempered as an adult every day. He is either getting angry again or is brewing a tantrum. No need to teach at all! You don’t need to be taught to lose your temper, but you need to be taught to be angry well. 1 Two days ago, I witnessed a war between children in the community…
If a child often says these three sentences, it shows that he has low self-esteem deep down. Parents should pay more attention to this.
Some of the words a child often talks about may actually reflect the child\’s inner world. Recently, a mother has been complaining a lot. No matter what I asked my son to do, he would blurt out as if it was a conditioned reflex: \”I can\’t do it! So what?\” Although she said it easily, this mother knew how much her son cared. \”I will guide him…
Take care of your children’s studies. If you always feel this way, be careful.
During the last winter vacation, it was only a few days since school started, and Cheng Zi’s homework hadn’t been finished yet. Obviously at the beginning of the vacation, I made a vacation plan with him, completed the homework as early as possible, and had time to memorize words and do extended reading. As a result, the reality is very skinny. This guy has been having fun throughout the winter vacation. It would be good if he could finish his homework before the start of school. When I think of this, I feel a little anxious and want to…