You closed the door of communication with your own hands, but blamed the child for ignoring you

Yesterday morning, after Rooney finished brushing his teeth, he ran over and said, \”Mom, give this to my brother!\” I saw him holding up a small blue toothbrush, with toothpaste foam hanging from the corner of his mouth, looking at me happily, waiting. my response. I was about to speak, when my grandma saw it, and immediately came over and pulled Rooney: \”Oh, look at you, there is foam at the corner of your mouth, go and wash it quickly!\” …

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Xi Mengyao fell on stage but was praised, \”You are the best.\” A mother should never say this to her child

Everyone knows about the Victoria’s Secret show these days, right? People in the streets were talking about it, but it wasn\’t how great the show was, but how badly Xi Mengyao fell. Yesterday morning while having breakfast, I talked about this topic with my son\’s father. We discussed her series of performances after the fall, the professionalism of the model, and the mixed comments from celebrities and melon-eating people. I said actually…

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What hurts children the most is not \”yelling\”, but…

A few days ago, I saw an infuriating video on the Internet: at the elevator door of a certain community, the mother handed the child to the nanny and left. After the nanny took the child to the elevator alone, the child who had just left his mother began to cry. At this time, instead of comforting the child, the nanny raised her arms and beat the child on the abdomen, head, and back, and shook the child vigorously. This sadistic video…

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Every boy is his mother’s weakness and armor

Many parents actually want to have a daughter. Because girls are gentle, considerate, well-behaved and sensible. My niece smiles sweetly every time she sees us. The mouth is also sweet. And what about my boy? He stopped talking when his voice was loud, and kept talking about shit, piss, and farts. Don\’t expect him to be nice for a while. What is it like to have a boy at home? Walk…

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Two principles for not wasting children’s talents

This is a message from yesterday: Children have more sources of ideas. They no longer just present their parents’ ideas, and interesting things will happen. The unique talents of some children are also more likely to appear \”accidentally\”. Such \”accidents\” are good ideas and methods, which can benefit other people (to the extreme, even all mankind), because these \”accidents\” are invisible. …

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If your child is beaten, please tell him to \”hit him back\”

I once saw a news: A child named Xiao Yao kicked a little boy in the head twice while playing games in an English training class. The teacher did not stop him in time, and the boy\’s mother happened to see him. It is said that this is not the first time that the boy has been beaten by Xiao Yao. The mother has mentioned it to the teacher more than once, but the teacher always thinks that \”it is normal for children to fight and fight among themselves\”…

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Seeing Dong Qing, I finally understood why we want our children to read classics

Recently, a parent asked in the background: The connotations of some classics cannot be understood by primary and secondary school students. Why do the education departments still recommend them to them? I believe that many parents should also have this confusion. Since the start of the new semester in September last year, Chinese language teaching materials have undergone a major overhaul. Almost every unit in primary, middle and upper grades has extended extracurricular reading, and junior high schools have strengthened \”selected readings of classics.\” …

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Why do you always have troubles on the road to parenting?

You and I are not gods, we are just mortals. Such people will have seven emotions and six desires, that is, they will have \”greed, anger, and ignorance.\” On the road of raising children, you will inevitably have a lot of troubles. The naughty children are disobedient, get into trouble, and fail to complete their homework on time… Your troubles are always endless. Despite this, life must go on, and you have to worry about it. When did you worry? It’s really adding insult to injury! ! ! …

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A father’s outlook on life determines his child’s life

In the past two days, a video has gone viral on the Internet. The video is only 70 seconds long, has no plot and no dialogue, but it has been liked by millions of netizens. In Virginia, the United States, a father learned that his son was bullying a classmate. Without making any statement, he directly used a special method to severely punish his son. He ordered his son to run to school for a week, no matter the weather…

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The older the child gets, the more he behaves badly, hitting others, lying, swearing… can he still get better?

I saw an article in Moments a few days ago. The mother who wrote the article found that as her son grew older, he began to show signs of moral decay: he would hit others without scruples when he was angry, use swear words endlessly, deliberately antagonize adults, etc. wait wait wait. Looking at a child who is only 5 years old, the anxiety in the mother\’s heart is already surging, directly thinking of the child\’s lawlessness and wandering more than ten years later…

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