At the weekend, my son said he wanted to go swimming again. I knew in my heart that he was used to bluffing, so he might not dare to go into the water. Unexpectedly, he was skinned quite happily this time. When I was trying to set up the swimming ring, I only refused him a few times and said, \”This is so itchy.\” After a few words of persuasion, he didn\’t object. What makes people laugh or cry is that when he got into the water and found that he couldn\’t step on the bottom, he immediately panicked and started struggling. He shouted…
Category: School age
School age
Fortunately, I didn’t leave the first few years of my child’s life in someone else’s hands
Fortunately, I met Lucy during my break. There is something shining in every article she writes, even on the old topic of \”no matter how difficult it is, you have to take care of your own children.\” She hit the nail on the head and pointed out the ultimate bug of those parents who do not want to take care of their children – they are too confident in their blood relationship with their children, thinking that the baby will come if they click their fingers. …
Liang Qichao: A good education requires hard work
In a family, without the participation of the father, can the mother raise the child alone? The answer is yes. But there are still many differences between men and women. It is impossible for a mother to play both the educational role of a father and a mother. In family education without father\’s participation, no matter how powerful the mother is, the children educated are still missing something. If a…
Your child’s future is hidden in your attitude towards life.
I work in a government agency. Our unit is a division-level unit. According to the setup of a division-level unit, there are no restrictions on the number of positions below the department level. This means that every established cadre can basically be promoted to the full department level after reaching a certain number of years. If you want to be promoted to a department level, it depends on your career luck. Many old colleagues in the unit are still…
Four teenagers in Hebei killed people and burned their bodies. Do you want to tell your children that human nature can be so bad?
When I went downstairs in the morning, Xiao Fu was humming the song \”There Are No Bad Children in the World\” as he walked. Looking at his innocent appearance, my heart suddenly tightened and I thought about whether I should tell him the truth that there are bad children in the world. Moreover, there are not only bad children in the world, but those bad children will also become bad adults when they grow up. Usually when I chat with Xiaofuqi, I will mention every…
Don’t let “pretending to be a good mother” get you down
“Pretending to be a good mom” is really tiring. One day you may be completely overwhelmed by the high \”emotional cost\”. Because in addition to physical labor and mental labor, raising children also requires a kind of hard work called \”emotional labor.\” Have you ever been like me and found it strange that your child is older and does not need to be breastfed, fed, or held, so why do you feel…
There are so many ways to cultivate concentration. Without this premise, everything else is useless.
After giving birth to Su Bao two years ago, my shoulders and back were sore from time to time. I thought it was caused by holding the baby and breastfeeding, so I went to the hospital for one-on-one postpartum care. My masseuse is an American grandmother in her 60s or 70s. After taking care of me for a while, she said that 70% of the reason for the pain in my shoulders and back was \”too shallow breathing.\” She told me that many new mothers are tired due to busy work, and their breathing is habitually short, and their upper body muscles…
For children who cannot withstand setbacks, their parents must have failed to do these four steps
A few days ago, a mother consulted in the background: \”Recently, I have discovered that my child\’s frustration ability is poor, and he will give up or become discouraged when encountering difficulties. Is there any good way to improve his child\’s frustration ability?\” I discussed a topic with her at that time. The magical story of \”Just Chasing the First Place\”: A girl fell last every time she ran in physical education class because of her frail body. This made her very frustrated, the girl\’s…
What should you do if your baby has a fever and convulsions? Don\’t put random things in your mouth
Many new parents are particularly anxious about their baby\’s fever, because they heard that a high fever will kill the baby, just like this: I believe every parent will be scared to death when seeing such a scene ~ There are many rumors in the world that the baby Fever and convulsions will damage the brain. Some people say that you need to use something to pry the baby\’s mouth open when convulsing. Others say that you need to pinch the baby\’s philtrum and use hot water…
What are those kids who keep asking for something missing?
There are two food markets near the community where I live. One is closer, relatively modern, and has richer dishes, especially seafood; the other is farther away, and the cuisine is not very complete, but it is very down-to-earth. Because every day, farmers from nearby villages bring home-grown fresh vegetables and fruits for sale. So if I go shopping alone, I usually…