A friend told me that since having her daughter, she feels like she has a girlfriend. Why do you feel this way? Because my daughter always wants to be coaxed, and if I speak harshly to my daughter, she will burst into tears and feel aggrieved. Once your heart softens, you have to be patient and coaxed and held. Since having a daughter, my friend feels like a man, smooth-tongued, sweet-talking, and running around…
Category: School age
School age
The greatest sorrow for a child is not that the family has no money, but that the parents reveal three personal secrets to the public at will.
Parents always like to say to their children: \”What other people\’s children have, you also have.\” Sometimes they work hard just to provide a good family environment for their children so that they can have enough food and clothing. But in fact, whether the family has money or not does not have the greatest impact on the child\’s happiness index. When I was young, I had a classmate like this who wore coarse linen clothes every day and had a schoolbag for several years…
If a child exhibits these three phenomena, he or she is on the verge of dropping out of school. Parents should pay attention.
In mommy psychology groups, you can often hear parents say: \”My children have been well-behaved and sensible since they were young, but why did they get tired of school and drop out of school when they reached adolescence.\” It may not be a day to freeze three feet. It may just be that parents have been immersed in their own creation. In the fantasy, the \”distress signal\” released by the child long ago was ignored. Among the many cases of suspension of school that we have come into contact with, we found that children will…
Let the 15-year-old daughter change from \”weary of studying\” to \”interested in studying\”: Only children who have a sense of security can calm down and study
Since my daughter entered junior high school, our whole family has been suffering from her dislike of studying. When she was in the first grade of junior high school, she would often do her homework until 11 or 12 o\’clock in the evening. I would be very anxious and would nag her, accusing her of dragging her feet. Later, she would lie and say that she had finished writing. The next day the teacher told me truthfully that she had not written. I became even more anxious and scolded her even more. Slowly, she went from being unable to finish her homework to…
Countdown to the high school entrance examination in 27 days: pay attention to these ten points in your child’s diet before the high school entrance examination to replenish the child’s physical and mental energy!
The application is finally completed and there is no need to worry about it anymore. When children reach the sprint stage, they must have sufficient energy to ensure the effect of review. In addition to getting enough sleep, children should also be given good nutrition. What to eat during the high school entrance examination? Pay attention to these ten points: 01 You must have breakfast in the morning, not only eat it, but also eat it well. Try not to let your children just buy milk and bread at a convenience store…
Qian Zhiliang: Self-control is very important for children to learn well.
There are many children who are very smart but cannot learn well. If you don’t pay attention to the lectures in class, you will either think randomly or make small moves; you will fumble around after school because you just don’t want to do your homework; you won’t want to sleep at night and can’t get up in the morning… These are all related to self-control among non-intellectual factors. Self-control means that children can eliminate external interference, master their own wishes and emotions, and thereby control themselves…
Li Meijin: What kind of families do confident children come from (good in-depth article)
Recently, I saw a question on the Internet: \”What does it feel like to be a child who lacks self-confidence since childhood?\” A highly praised answer by @Hello He Yao read like this: There are more than 500 answers in the comment area, each one The messages revealed the sensitive and humble souls behind the screen. Professor Li Meijin once said: \”Confidence is the root of a person\’s success…
Never save your parents
I believe that many people have experienced the feeling of suffocation when living and communicating with their parents; parents either use their experience of eating salt for many years to manipulate and control you, telling you not to do this or that, It interrupts your opportunity to explore yourself and the world, and drives away your possibility of success. Either your parents will tell you their dissatisfaction with each other and complain about how much they…
\”Unfilial\” children have the following three characteristics since childhood. Parents should not mistakenly think that their children are smart.
Filial piety, this traditional Chinese virtue, has been highly respected by people since ancient times. However, in modern society, with the accelerated pace of life and changes in family education, more and more children are showing behaviors that are contrary to filial piety. These behaviors may only be regarded as a sign of intelligence and personality when the child is young, but if not corrected, it is likely to make…
When a child lies flat, it’s not because he’s lazy, but because his “energy” is too low! Try these two \”empowerment secrets\” of mine, they work great
My daughter is 13 years old and is in the first grade of junior high school. During elementary school, she studied well and her grades were always among the top ten in the class. After entering junior high school, I still maintained my past study habits and life rhythm. Although I am not as proactive as other top students, I still don’t care too much. The teacher told me that my daughter actually has great potential. If she works harder and takes the initiative to study, she can achieve great results…