A mother sent me a message saying that her 4-year-old baby eats normally and eats well, but she is not growing taller and is thinner and shorter. Every time I see her playing with the children in the kindergarten, she is shorter than others. Soon, the mother was worried that her child would not grow taller. She once took her child to the hospital for a check-up. After the doctor checked her, he looked at her and her husband and said: \”The child\’s condition is normal…
Category: School age
School age
Should children be allowed to attend children’s interest classes during summer vacation?
Every year in July and August, all kinds of interest classes bloom overnight. Parents have become the hardest working bees in the flower garden. They are busy picking up and dropping off every day, and they are often asked by their children who suddenly don’t want to attend interest classes. The thought stunned me for a moment. Although I can temporarily relax for a few years without worrying about which class to sign up for Dingdang, I have been asked frequently by readers recently…
The Importance of Communicating with Adolescent Children: How Right You Are, How Wrong You Are
\”You are now in the third year of junior high school, and you will take the high school entrance examination in half a year. Why do you act like a normal person every day, reading novels, playing games, and showing no knowledge or skills? Do you know that if a person is uneducated, he can\’t make money even by working hard? ?\” \”You have dark skin and it\’s not suitable to wear pure white clothes, otherwise you will look darker. Can\’t you go out with me in that colorful dress?\” How do three effective parents interact with their children…
This sentence that parents often say has such a great impact on children
Before the summer vacation, many parents in the community are discussing exams and summer vacation arrangements with their children. Mom said, if you can get into the top three, I will take you to Ocean Park. Bao\’s dad said, if you don\’t review carefully, I won\’t send you to learn to swim. There are even violent fathers who say, if you don’t do well in the exam, I will beat you up! Parents pick it up casually, and any unrelated things can be combined into…
What happened to the child who lacked love?
My high school classmate Mengmeng looks like a confident and cheerful girl. Later, we became roommates, and one weekend when I was going back to school for self-study, I accidentally discovered that she loved biting her nails. For weeks to come, she would bite on the night of back-to-school. Seeing her biting her nails till they bled, I asked her curiously: \”Doesn\’t it hurt?\” She looked at me with a serious look on her face…
I am 8 years old and still get lost when I go to school alone! How to cultivate children\’s independent ability?
On September 6, an 8-year-old girl in Shenzhen went to school. After the girl\’s father accompanied her to a bus stop, he thought that the child should know the way and be able to find the school by himself, so he got off the bus early and went home to sleep. Before getting off the bus, the girl\’s father asked the girl to get off the bus together in a place with many children and students. Although the girl remembered what her father said, she was still very confused when she got off the car and didn\’t know…
Why don’t children love reading? It turns out that this is the reason
A few days ago, a mother left a message saying that her 3-year-old son didn\’t like to read. She mentioned many reasons, but there was one sentence she mentioned repeatedly: \”He doesn\’t follow my rhythm and always messes around.\” She said that when a child reads a page, he has to grab it and read it by himself. Sometimes he deliberately doesn\’t look at you, looks elsewhere, and doesn\’t allow you to stop. And there is a badly-thumbed animal picture book that he often reads, which is…
How painful are children who don’t understand rejection? People must learn to refuse…
\”When I hear her say those three words, I get a headache!\” said a friend, who was almost going crazy with her daughter. When she went to pick up her daughter from kindergarten, she saw her friend exchanging pencils for her daughter\’s bunny lollipop. The daughter pouted with a look of reluctance. \”Hurry up and switch with me!\” the child urged loudly. I thought my daughter would shake her head. After all, the bunny is her favorite…
No matter you give birth to a son or a daughter, you must tell him these 10 things!
Many parents work hard to make money in order to give their children a better life, but material things can only determine the standard of living, and the height of the parents determines the future of their children. It is better to tell these truths than to leave gold and silver to your children. Studying is not hard, but life is hard if you don\’t study. \”There is poetry and literature in your belly.\” If you read more books, you will naturally understand the truth and understand right and wrong, so that you can choose your job…
Don’t believe it, maybe you are your child’s biggest trap
One year ago today, Xiaoyou cried in front of me for a full 15 minutes before she stopped crying. I didn\’t interrupt her, I just handed her a box of tissues silently. After she calmed down, she said to me: \”Sure enough, the line of sanity came to the surface after my head was drained.\” I had known Xiaoyou for 10 years at that time, and I had watched her fall in love, get married, and have children. She is beautiful, humorous, intelligent, and at the same time…