Well-educated children will be treated more gently by the world, because well-behaved and well-mannered children can bring inner joy and comfort to others. Some children are losing points in their education because of some inadvertent details. The way a child speaks reveals his upbringing. My friend Xiaoya is a primary school teacher. She shared something with me: There was a rebel in the class…
Category: School age
School age
It’s not grades that determine a child’s life, but these 5 things
For a rural family with five generations of farmers, having a child finally admitted to college is a major event that makes him stand out. Villagers from all over the country are jealous, and the whole family seems to have grasped a straw that changes their destiny. , full of hope and expectation. However, a few years after his son entered college, the 60-year-old father suddenly discovered that everything was different from what he thought…
If you can’t change your child, you might as well compromise temporarily [Conversation with a parent]
Just after the Dragon Boat Festival, a parent added me as a friend on WeChat and asked me for advice: My son took the high school entrance examination this year. He studies hard and ranks among the top in school. I don’t know why, but I don’t want to do my homework after these few days off. When adults say something to me, I still talk back. More importantly, I cry loudly, saying that I am tired of studying and don’t want to study anymore. Does the teacher have any teaching methods? Obviously,…
It\’s you who decide the child\’s significant other
Two girls who had been playing together were in a bit of trouble at the same time. An older man was forced to get married by his family, but Qianfan went through a lot of troubles and found a young man with average conditions in all aspects. A college graduate has different ideas from his family on the issue of employment and is trying hard to convince his family. Looking at the vast world and the vastness of the universe, neither of these is a big deal. But in a person\’s life, two…
When a child is bullied, the priority for parents is not whether to fight back or not.
My friend Yun’s son Ding Ding is 5 years old and was bullied by his peers twice in kindergarten. Once, there was a bite mark on my hand; another time, I was pushed to the ground and bruised on my buttocks. Yun asked me a question: \”If a child is bullied one after another, should parents help fight back?\” I was ready to answer her well, so I did some homework and read through it first…
What widens the gap is the two months of summer vacation
Summer has begun, and the children around me are going through various summer schools. It is difficult for the children to make appointments for parties… Will not being able to attend summer schools have any impact on the children? Until one day I saw a TED talk, which clearly told me the importance of summer school. The speaker is Karim Abouelnaga,…
\”Love and hate are in a moment\”, this is my summer life with my children
In the past, when I went home during the holidays, I always couldn\’t understand why my parents, who were so attentive and considerate, turned into such disgusting people in just a few days. A few days ago, I was a little princess; a few days later, I became a punching bag? Am I not my biological child? Now that I am a mother, I realize how natural this evolution is, and it was all brought on by the naughty child! …
Can’t afford a summer vacation for your children with a monthly salary of RMB 30,000? Why do we have so much focus?
Summer vacation is coming to an end. Calculate, how much did you spend on your baby this summer? Some time ago, a friend sent me an article \”With a monthly salary of 30,000, I still can\’t afford a summer vacation for my children.\” He said he wanted to hear my opinion. When I was reading the article, I had just finished telling my son a short chapter from the Book of Songs. It happened to be Wednesday, the day we agreed to read some ancient books and Chinese studies…
Keeping a child well-dressed from an early age will determine his future height in life
We were shopping with Weiwei and passed by a children\’s clothing store. We all fell in love with a set of boys\’ clothes. I bought a set of 150 for Zaizai, and Weiwei bought a set of 140 for her baby. I looked at her in surprise and said: \”Your child is only 5 years old and is not even 120cm tall. Are you sure you want to buy 140cm?? My child is 8 years old and only wears 15cm when he is 140cm tall…
Behind every outstanding child, there is a mother with \”new opportunities\”
A friend complained to me all day long about why her children were disobedient, how hard it was to take care of them, and how much she sacrificed… She burst into tears as she spoke, and I was exhausted listening to her. After my friend gave birth to a child, he never stepped into the workplace again. He spent every day around pots and pans, dealing with all kinds of trivial matters, and taking care of everything about the child. I used to deal with problems in the workplace…