The opening line of Tolstoy\’s \”Anna Karenina\” is very shocking: \”Happy families are all alike, every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.\” In what ways are happy families similar? Qing Lanjun thought that a happy family should be one where the mother is pampered, the father is respected, and the children are accepted. 1 The mother is pampered and the family is happier. The female writer Whale in the River once…
Category: School age
School age
Deng Chao: I never enroll my children in cram schools; Netizen: That’s because your children haven’t gone to elementary school yet
Deng Chao, who has been promoting a new movie recently, was asked about the education of his two children at a press conference. He said: \”I will never enroll my children in any cram school. If you lose at the starting line, you will lose at the starting line.\” Go up.\” As soon as these words came out, countless netizens immediately complained: \”That\’s because your child has not yet entered elementary school!\” A best friend of mine was also contemptuous after reading the news…
The child is already on the verge of collapse, but the parents forgot to do this
Yesterday, a reader friend said to me on WeChat: \”There is a very popular video on Weibo, but my child is not like this when he is three years old. I am watching it and thinking that it is my child. What should I do?\” Then give it to me Posted this video: In fact, I watched this video a few days ago, and I felt so confused after watching it. Let’s take a look at what kind of message the two-minute video conveys to us:…
Do you know the consequences of always comparing other people’s children?
One night a few years ago, Chengzi had a video chat with his grandma. Across the screen, Chengzi showed grandma the Peking Opera aerobics they had learned, and grandma said: \”It\’s such a great dance, but your mother can\’t…\” I was doing housework nearby and listened to their conversation without a word. After a while, Chengzi showed some actions to grandma again, and grandma said again: \”That\’s great, your mother can\’t do this…\”
Is it a trivial matter for a child’s toys to be robbed? Improper handling has serious consequences
A few days ago, I met Sister Zhen and her daughter Duoduo in the community. Sister Zhen had just picked up Duoduo from kindergarten. Duoduo is in kindergarten this year, lively and cheerful, and her little mouth is very sweet every time she sees me. But today, Duoduo kept twitching, and her aggrieved look made people feel distressed. I touched her head and asked, \”Why are Duoduo crying?\” Duoduo raised her face, and just opened her eyes wide, tears…
When you can understand these two magical Chinese characters, your child, no matter how ordinary, can turn into a genius!
There is such a mother who has never taken any parenting courses and rarely reads parenting books by so-called masters, let alone any parenting tips. But she was able to make her 3-year-old son in kindergarten, who couldn\’t even sit still for three minutes on the bench and was recommended by the teacher to be taken to the hospital for examination, eat two bowls of rice by himself for the first time without letting her feed him, and he could still sit still by himself. On the desk and chair…
She has a criminal\’s child
During that time, in the small town where Katsuo lived, the social atmosphere was very bad. There were a group of young people who formed gangs to fight, steal, rob, and molest girls. The police were dispatched in batches, but they only treated the symptoms but not the root cause. When the gourd was pressed, the gourd floated, and the people complained and everyone was in danger. Tomboy Shengnan was 16 years old at the time, and she was in her prime. She had a flamboyant personality and didn\’t like reading. She didn\’t go to junior high school…
A 14-year-old child said to me: If I have no money, can I not sell my house?
\”If you don\’t have the money to send me abroad, why don\’t you sell your house?\” A few days ago, I heard a friend tell a story about me. The protagonists of the story are a mother and daughter. The daughter is 14 years old and is studying in junior high school; the mother is 46 years old and lives in a school. Nice place to work. Their family is a typical well-off family. They only gave birth to a daughter when they were 32 years old. The whole family loves their children extremely much. As long as their wishes can be fulfilled, they will…
Harvard doctor\’s child too shy? How to help her?
Shy kids happen to all of us. Most children may be shy at some point or another. Normal shyness may be due to sensitivity, it may be due to natural introversion, or it may be a characteristic of age. Moderate shyness can become a person\’s characteristic, sometimes even giving people a unique charm. However, excessive shyness can hinder a person…
What should I do if my child procrastinates on homework? A smart mother will teach you \”3 steps\” to completely cure it [Practical]
When my daughter was in elementary school, she was always procrastinating on her homework, and she often couldn\’t finish it until nine o\’clock in the evening. I also know that she takes too long to do her homework, so whenever I get a chance, I stare at her and ask her to hurry up and do her homework. I yelled, scolded, and even coaxed and lied countless times, but it usually didn\’t take more than a week for me to get better, and then I was back to my original form. At that time, her father and I didn\’t think of a solution…