Are there really parents in this world who don’t have children? If you don’t sign up for cram schools, don’t worry about grades, take your children out to play when you have time, and cultivate the values of your children without vanity or comparison, what will your children look like when they grow up? In fact, I am such a parent. My child has never been to preschool since he was a toddler. Now that his child has reached the age of five and six, the consequences of being a child are beginning to show. result…
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Many families force their children to commit suicide. Parents must be vigilant.
This symptom shows that parents have threatened their children. We now see in some societies that many children will self-harm or even commit suicide. What are the reasons for these? You know, animals have three instincts. When encountering danger, they will fight if they can beat them; they will run if they can\’t beat them; and they will pretend to be dead when they can\’t beat them and can\’t run away. A child is very weak, he needs to rely on his parents…
The two months of summer vacation for primary school students, how to arrange them so that they are not wasted, the principal of a prestigious primary school gave 12 suggestions
With the end of junior high schools in various places, children will soon have a long summer vacation. We have more than 60 days here. How to arrange such a long vacation? Although our school is not over yet, summer vacation is about to start in a week! Zhuo Li, the former principal of Shijia Hutong, shared the arrangements for children during the summer vacation in the \”Parents\’ Handbook for Primary to Junior High School, Welcome to Sixth Grade\”, which is suitable for most children…
It\’s easy to make a baby have a permanent low self-esteem. Just criticize him at these times.
After having a child, have you ever criticized your child regardless of time or occasion? For example, if your child is picky about food, you criticize and teach him while eating; if he is dishonest before going to bed, you start criticizing him while standing next to the bed; if he has a desire to express himself, you think he is not helping; if he says or does the wrong thing, you should punish him. Everyone scolded her… An incident she experienced recently made C\’s mother suddenly realize: …
Children who love to talk back have four obvious advantages and are often more promising when they grow up.
Before we dive into today\’s topic, I would like to ask you a few questions: \”Do your children like to talk back? Do you hate talking back? How do you deal with children who talk back?\” To be honest, when my daughter first learned to talk back to me, I was very unhappy. I even felt that her behavior was lack of education and tried to forcefully correct her…
How should parents cope with the great changes in education?
I believe that many teachers and parents have seen the current situation of education reform, from the double reduction policy in 2021 to the 10-minute news broadcast in 2023, to the new Beijing high school entrance examination, to the basic education reform at the beginning of 2024, the entire education reform The direction of the reform is becoming increasingly clear. This reform path at least clarifies our development direction for the next 10 years. Today, let\’s talk together…
Use 2 bowls of soup to nourish the spleen, and your child will have good health
Grain Rain has passed, and the hot and humid weather is becoming more and more obvious, which is a big challenge for children, especially those with poor spleen and stomach function, who often accumulate food and internal heat. Before summer, we must seize the time to strengthen the spleen and stomach in order to cope with it. The wet and heavy environment will last for a long time. Today we will talk about how to correctly help children maintain a good spleen and stomach. Dampness and heat are getting worse, beware of exogenous dampness and endogenous dampness…
Why do some children not like to speak in class? Psychological reasons that subvert your cognition
A few days ago, a mother asked me why her child refused to speak in class. I have met her child. Although his personality is not very extroverted, he is not the kind of child who is introverted and shy and dare not express himself. I said that I had thought about this issue when I was studying psychology, and my own children had also experienced it, so it was just right to talk about it. But what I can give you is not an answer, just a thought…
Dealing with adolescent children: This is what children need
I have written a lot of articles about getting along during adolescence. The core purpose of accepting, understanding, accompanying, and loving children is actually one, which is to let parents establish a good relationship with their children first. Only when the relationship is good can you communicate. If the relationship is not good, no matter how good the relationship is, it will be useless. Today I share the deep needs of children. Children need their parents to see the desire behind their behavior. The famous American psychologist…
If your child does well in an exam, never give him a reward! Otherwise you will really regret it
\”I will buy you a pair of genuine Jordan sneakers after you pass the exam this time.\” \”You finish your homework first, and you can play games for 20 minutes later.\” \”If you practice basketball well, dad will buy you a toy gun.\” Sound familiar? These are some of the promises many parents make when trying to motivate their children to study hard and complete their homework seriously. It sounds okay, but…