Don\’t be a mushroom, children with feelings can live a happy life

In the story of \”The Little Prince\”, the little prince traveled from star to star. One day he came to a star and found a man who kept doing arithmetic problems, trying to figure out how many stars he owned. So Night after night, year after year, there was no time to stop and breathe. The little prince said: Why don\’t you look at the sunset? He said he didn\’t have time. He didn\’t have time for anything. The little prince sighed and said that you are not a person at all, you are a mushroom. This story has a special connection with education at Li Yuerba Academy. The education at Li Yuerba Academy builds 15 personality traits for children, the second one is [making children become perceptive people]. The reason why children\’s sensibility is placed second in educational goals is because Li Yuerba Academy believes that early childhood education should first lay the most essential foundation for children as a person. Human beings are spiritual animals. No matter what we have, if we cannot feel it well, we will not be able to get the pleasure of owning it, as well as the richness and interest we need in life. Only sensitive people can gain nourishment from the ordinary lives of themselves and others, and it is possible to create a life suitable for human beings. We shout that we live in a pluralistic world, but at the same time, diversity also brings chaos. Various values ​​conflict with each other, so that we cannot choose, and we lose ourselves in this overwhelming number of values. See what we are busy with? When you walk into a primeval forest, you look up and see the happy and beautiful sunlight swirling on the high canopy of the trees. What we are chasing in life are the little bits and pieces of sunlight scattered from the gaps between the trees. thing. We are as lost as Mr. Mushroom in the book \”The Little Prince\”, so it is difficult for us to find true happiness, and we will never feel happy even when we are old. This is like what a wise man said about the busy dove that started building its nest at sunset, trying to build a nest that would bring it the most happiness. As a result, it worked all night long, and when the sun rose, it was worn out. The wise man sympathized with the pigeon and said that it had been busy all night, so busy that it didn\’t even close its eyes and died of exhaustion without tasting any happiness. In addition to building nests, we also have to play various different roles, which is indeed quite difficult when you think about it. At work, you have to be a good employee and a good leader; when you get home, you have to be a good father, mother, or son; at the weekend, you have to be a good son-in-law, a good daughter-in-law, and the only thing you can\’t be is yourself. When we take off each role and play the next role in the gap, we occasionally feel very sad and feel that we can\’t stand being dragged down by these roles. We can\’t feel our own heart or our own feelings. Where is the soul? How do we calm our souls and create a good spiritual space so that we can have spiritual strength? Can we comprehend and enjoy the beauty that life brings us? If adults are not wise enough to find their own happiness, how can they let children do all this? Since the mentality of adults is related to the happiness of children, then, fundamentally speaking, we must first change our heartsStart with attitudes and concepts. We first find the feeling of happiness. If we find it and are happy, our children will also be happy.