Due to parents\’ negligence in education, the future of their children is ruined!

Using money to build a future for your children will cause serious disadvantages in the deviation of your children\’s values: There is a child from a wealthy family named Amin. When he was five or six years old, he often proudly told others: \”My dad is very rich!\” And his father did give Amin great financial support. After entering school, Amin\’s grades were never good enough, but the teacher took good care of him and received more preferential treatment than those students with good grades. Amin also used money to get into junior high school, high school and even university, and his journey went very smoothly. As time passed, A Ming naturally and involuntarily developed the idea that \”money is everything\”. Therefore, he never thought about making progress and settled for a muddle-headed life. In order to have a good interpersonal relationship and learning atmosphere in the university, A Ming continued to spend lavishly, paying for meals at every turn, in order to establish his prestige among his classmates. As a result, A Ming, who was accustomed to being pampered, became increasingly inferior to his peers in terms of self-reliance. When he finally graduated from college, Amin stopped looking for a job and stayed at home all day with nothing to do. At this time, Amin\’s mother became anxious and forced her son to go out to work. But from childhood to adulthood, Amin has never had to worry about money in all his experiences. It can be said that everything has been smooth sailing. Growing up under the protection of his parents, let alone completing a job independently, I am afraid that Amin does not even have the basic survival ability. Not to mention enduring the frustrations and stress that arise at work. So by chance, Amin met a friend. The man heard that his family was very rich, so he deliberately gave him some advice: If your family is rich, get a tourist boat and become your own boss, so you don’t have to go out to work. . A Ming immediately told his father about this idea. Before his father was happy, he invested more than 3 million yuan to buy a cruise ship for A Ming without hesitation. But the shopping mall is like a battlefield. One year later, the outcome of the business can be imagined. Amin ended in a disastrous failure, and the family\’s financial situation began to become embarrassing due to the failure of this huge investment. In fact, examples like Amin are worthy of reflection by parents. Amin’s father later realized that he had made serious mistakes in educating his son about money. It was not all Amin’s fault that caused the final helpless situation. , and it is mainly due to the negligence of parents in education. During his son\’s growth, Amin\’s father and mother only acted as material providers, but neglected to provide spiritual support for their son, which ultimately led to Amin\’s loss of outlook on life and values. So, as a \”bad\” parent in today\’s era, how should we train our children so that they have a correct view of money? \”Bad\” parents will make their children realize that money is essential in life as early as possible and irreplaceable, but we must also let children realize that money is not everything, so as to prevent children from forming incorrect views on money such as money worship and profit-seeking. \”Bad\” parents will also seize every opportunity in life to help their children understand how to manage money and the benefits of it. When making children aware of the importance of money, we must also let them know that money is just a tool for us to realize our wishes and ideals, but it does not mean that we have all the good things with money, so,The most important thing for \”bad\” parents is to teach their children to view money correctly. In addition, moderate pocket money is of great significance to children\’s lives. It can not only meet their reasonable consumption needs, but also provide a prerequisite and possibility for children to learn to manage money. In the process of managing pocket money, children will enhance their financial management concepts, develop their ability to be independent, and establish correct values. \”Bad\” parents attach great importance to teaching some financial management concepts to their children. No matter how much pocket money they have, saving is the first principle. They teach their children not to spend money they shouldn\’t spend. \”Bad\” parents are also good role models for their children to be thrifty and thrifty, and can promptly detect and correct possible extravagant and wasteful behaviors in their children. \”Bad\” parents will also teach their children basic savings knowledge, such as savings principles, loss reporting procedures, interest calculations, etc. If possible, they will also explain to their children the types of savings, including current savings, fixed-term savings, and lump sum savings. Saving in round blocks, withdrawing in small amounts, etc., and then teaching the children to choose a saving method that suits them according to their actual situation, so that the children can develop the habit of saving. Because \”bad\” parents believe that when their children find out that they have saved a lot of money one day, they will be pleasantly surprised and will naturally maintain the habit of saving. In short, when it comes to educating their children, \”bad\” parents focus on allowing them to establish lofty ideals and ambitions from an early age. As parents, you should be concerned about your children\’s future, and not because of your own misunderstanding or desire for money. , they impose this adult understanding on their children’s future and blindly let them pursue a “money path”. Only in this way can children be cultivated into real talents. Otherwise, prematurely instilling in children the idea that \”making big money\” is better than anything else will only have a negative impact on the children, and may even ruin the children\’s real future. You can give your children an opportunity to learn financial management and let them choose and decide to buy some daily necessities. \”Bad\” parents advise not to give the New Year\’s money given by their elders to their children. This is not earned income and should be distinguished. It is best to save it as a fund for your children’s future education. In the early days of children using pocket money, \”bad\” parents will prepare a notebook for their children to record their children\’s daily expenses so that they can use money more effectively and develop good habits of prudent financial management.