Liang Qichao: Parents’ vision determines their children’s boundaries

Knowledge affects vision, vision determines the pattern, and the pattern affects life. Children are like a blank sheet of paper. Their vision for the future and their plans for life largely come from their parents. Parents\’ vision determines the boundaries of their children\’s life. Teach your children to be a human being, rather than striving for fame and fortune. Liang Qichao said: \”If you become a human being, the more knowledge you have, the better; if you cannot become a human being, the more knowledge you have, the worse it will be.\” Because of his own vision and knowledge, It is not uncommon for parents to be shallow and waste their children\’s lives. How many parents decide majors for their children, only considering practicality and completely ignoring whether their children like it or not. In Liang Sicheng\’s view, being prosperous, wealthy, or well-educated is not as good as being a person with ideals and vision. If you take your children to the top of the mountain and see the boundless sky, they will not set boundaries for their own lives, and they will be able to see the direction of the future clearly. Liang Qichao devoted his life to the cause of the country and the nation. He said: \”Strong young people will make the country strong, and independent young people will make the country independent.\” This feeling of family and country is passed on to children subtly from an early age. Liang Qichao had nine children, seven of whom studied abroad. After completing their studies, without exception, they had to return to the motherland to serve, even if they were displaced. Cultivate children\’s habits, rather than just talk about principles. A child\’s life cannot be outlined by one big principle. People live by habits, and seemingly simple \”little habits\” are enough to change a child\’s life. Liang Qichao wholeheartedly accompanies his children at every stage of their growth. He has never been absent from any of his nine children. No child can succeed casually! Liang Qichao gave each child a nickname and wrote letters home to each child on time. In his lifetime, he wrote more than 400 letters to his family: from describing family affairs to discussing current affairs; from eating delicious food to buying good books; from political difficulties to personal worries, totaling more than one million words. He gave \”special attention\” to each child. He never talks empty words to his children, but cultivates them good habits in every aspect of life. Habit is a huge and tenacious force that can change your life. It takes 21 days for an adult to form a habit, let alone a young child. It is better to give children a habit than to give them a bunch of principles. Parents who set examples for their children, rather than just preaching, are their children\’s first teachers. Good parents should not only have natural authority, but also have the power of role models to gain the respect of their children. Liang Qichao\’s education experience is to use himself as an example, actions speak louder than words, and lead by example. He is a person who advocates interestism. He said: \”I believe that ordinary people must always live in interest, so that life can be valuable. If you go through it for decades with a sad face, then life will become a desert. What is the use of him?\” His nine children include poetry research experts, architects, archaeologists, military officers, and economists… They did not inherit Liang Qichao\’s career, but they all started from their own interests and engaged in their favorite fields. work and made outstanding contributions. Because you like it, you don’t learn for the sake of learning, and you work for the sake of working, so you won’t get bored. Different from the current trend of emphasizing theory over literature, Liang Qichao believes that humanistic feelings are more important than scientific knowledge. The eldest son Liang Sicheng studied architecture. He was afraid that his son would become boring, so he asked him to study architecture.He spent some time studying the humanities. And he also used his writing-rich life to set the best example for his children. The best education is like this. The spring breeze turns into rain, moistening things silently. Don\’t overdo it, don\’t let it flow, keep it flowing, and manage it carefully…