Mother and baby

1. From now on: I will encourage and praise my children more instead of criticizing, blaming, and blaming them. Because I know that only encouragement and praise can bring children confidence and strength. Criticism, accusation, and complaint are just venting my emotions and hurting the child\’s heart; 2. From now on: I will use actions to influence children, not words. Use words to teach children…

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Not long ago, Yu Minhong talked about cultivating children\’s social and emotional intelligence at a family education lecture. He shared with everyone the way he educates his son: treat classmates to dinner at the appropriate time to win friendship and trust, be generous and willing to spend money. The money is with others, and he also shared a story from his childhood on the spot. When I was a child, Yu Minhong\’s aunt lived in Shanghai…

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Question 1: My 17-month-old baby chokes on breast milk when he is in a hurry. Especially in the past two days, he chokes hard and spits out bubbles. Now the top of Xiaobao\’s lips and the corners of his eyes are a little purple. When he exerts himself particularly hard, the color becomes darker. Could it be that he choked on the milk? I\’m afraid it may be pneumonia. Do I need to go to the hospital? In addition, what are the symptoms if the milk gets stuck in the lungs or trachea? …

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On the way to work, I met a mother riding an electric scooter with her two children. The child in the front was a boy, smaller; the child in the back was a girl, older, and she was holding a water bottle in her hand. Seeing that there were only a few seconds left at the green light at the intersection, the woman accelerated and rushed forward. However, she still couldn\’t catch up. The moment she was about to rush out of the waiting line, the red light came on. The woman suddenly braked and sat…

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Question 1: What is the difference between overeating and indigestion in babies who are just three months old? My baby has thick white tongue coating and smelly diarrhea. Most of the smell is from the milk valve. What is the problem of slow weight gain? Dr. Zhu Xiwei’s answer: Indigestion and abnormal stools, such as diarrhea and milk flaps in the stool, and food accumulation are usually caused by abdominal distension and difficulty in breastfeeding. If the baby is large, these two conditions are relatively similar. according to…

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If you keep making trouble, I won’t want you anymore! The big bad wolf only eats disobedient children! If you don\’t behave, let the police take you away! If you don’t take your medicine well, let the doctor give you injections! … I\’m sure everyone has heard the above words or said them to their babies, right? Even many daddies themselves are \”scared\” by hearing such words. But parents…

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\”The honest man will suffer a secret loss, but the crying child will get milk!\” My cousin yelled angrily yesterday. She is well-known in the company as a good person with a gentle, easy-going personality and a bodhisattva heart. She will not refuse anyone who asks her for help. However, she was doing the hardest and most tiring work, but promotion and salary increase were always insulated from her. She couldn\’t understand why she was inferior to others? …

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At about 10 o\’clock in the evening, I saw the news in the circle of friends that my elementary school classmate had left. I had heard about her condition a long time ago, and I also knew that with current medical technology, there was nothing we could do in the face of the disease. But when that day came, I couldn\’t help but feel shocked. Being in your early thirties is a good time in life. It\’s a pity that God was jealous of beauty, and a young life passed away. I dare not think of being in love with her…

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Question 1: My baby is two years old, and he is still drooling from the time his teeth erupted until his teeth have grown in. Is this normal? Dr. Zhu Xiwei’s answer: During teething, children drool more, and at this time the child will not take the initiative to swallow, so the drool will increase. This is normal. Generally, there will be no drooling when all 20 deciduous teeth have emerged. Most babies have to wait until after 2 years old to start swallowing saliva…

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