Children are hyperactive, impulsive, inattentive, sloppy, procrastinating and love to cause trouble. The root cause may be here.

In every class, there are probably children who are distracted and impulsive, unruly, unconstrained, love to cause trouble, and lack organization. Most of these children have poor academic performance and are called \”problem children\”. In school, as long as there are two or three such children in a class, it can turn a happy classroom into a battlefield and torture a kind and good teacher to exhaustion. At home, just…

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How parents deal with the \”little thing\” of babies throwing things around shows their wisdom

Babies throwing things away is a headache for many parents. It\’s a small thing to break things, but it\’s embarrassing to hurt others. How to guide such behavior scientifically and effectively is a difficult problem for parents. Objective view, graded response, and positive guidance are wise choices for parents. Haohao is over 2 years old and loves throwing things. If you don’t want to play with the toy anymore, just throw it against the wall…

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A 3-year-old girl fell into a bucket of boiling water. How can the baby prevent burns in winter?

When winter comes, do you feel cold every day? The difference is that in the south, the wind is freezing outside, and water dripping into ice indoors; while in the north, there is heavy snow outside, but the indoors are as warm as spring. It is true that \”the north relies on heating during the winter, while the south relies on a healthy body.\” With low weather temperatures, everyone\’s heating needs increase, and the number of burn injuries is also increasing year by year, especially…

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I cried after reading these stories about stay-at-home dads…

Last week, I collected stories about stay-at-home dads taking care of their babies in our circle of friends, and received many heart-warming stories. As I watched, my eyes became moist again. Today I would like to share with you that in fact, in many cases, it is not that fathers cannot do it, but that there are still too many people in this society who view men with children through colored glasses. Tao Tao\’s dad: 36 years old. He has been raising a child for more than two years. His annual income is…

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If you have a boy at home, you should pamper him even more

A few days ago, a mother left me a message and said: She found that her son has become like a little girl recently. He always clings to me and cannot push me away. He also talks like a girl. She asked whether she was spending time with her child at home these days and pampering him too much? To be honest, there are really many parents who think this way. So I often see messages like this: \”Do boys need to be beaten more…

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The \”golden rule\” for disciplining children, what all good parents do

Good morning everyone, welcome to open the morning reading. Make a little progress every day, and persist in bringing about big changes. Today is November 21, 2017. The book we want to share with you is \”Positive Discipline: How to Discipline Children Effectively without Punishing or Pampering\”. The author Jane Nelson is the founder of the American Positive Discipline Association and an outstanding psychologist and educator. This book is best-selling in the United States 4…

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What should I do if my child steals money to buy snacks and then lies?

Recently, a mother sent me a WeChat message to ask for help. Here’s what happened: Today, her children took money from home to go to the store to buy snacks. They went with a child on the street and lied to me that the child’s grandma bought them for them. ~ Then I told the kid that I gave him the money to buy a brush for washing pots ~ I was surprised, very surprised, I didn’t know what to do, I wanted to beat him hard…

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Child, sometimes I would rather you not be kind

In the past few days, \”Jiang Ge\’s murder case in Tokyo\” has frightened mothers. On November 3, 2016, Jiang Ge, a 24-year-old Qingdao girl studying in Japan, was stabbed ten times by her ex-boyfriend Chen Shifeng in order to protect her friend Liu Xin. She was stabbed to death and fell at the door of her rented apartment. But 294 days later, Liu Xin, who was protected by his friends with his life, faced Jiang for the first time…

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If you want to cultivate your children\’s financial intelligence, first check whether you have a healthy view of money.

Today\’s parents attach great importance to cultivating their children\’s various \”quotients\”: IQ, EQ, reverse quotient, financial quotient… The so-called financial quotient refers to the ability to manage money, especially the ability to make investment returns. It includes two aspects of ability: one is the ability to correctly understand money and the laws of money; the other is the ability to correctly apply money and the laws of money. The concept of financial intelligence was first proposed in 1999…

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Children who do not respect their parents will not know how to respect anyone.

One day, I was at the breakfast shop at the entrance of the community. A father and daughter were sitting there eating breakfast. The little girl, about eight or nine years old, suddenly lost her temper loudly. Her father just said a few words and asked her not to make trouble here. Unexpectedly, the little girl became even more angry. He scolded: \”Don\’t worry about it, you are just a bitch.\” \”Where did you learn to curse?\” Dad was also angered…

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