Are you still telling your children, \”If you don\’t obey me, I won\’t let you go anymore\”? Never!

A few days ago, I read an article by a friend, \”I won\’t like you if you don\’t obey me\” – Are you still emotionally kidnapping your child? I thought to myself at the time, how could it be such a small case of \”dislike\”? My mother still They always say, \”If you don\’t obey me, I won\’t let you go.\” I went home to sweep the grave, and a relative\’s son was playing in our house. He was too naughty and mischievous. Seeing that she couldn\’t control him anymore, my mother said…

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List of chores for 6 age groups, have your children done them?

Should we let our children do housework? Many parents will say, \”The children have to do homework and don\’t have time,\” or \”The children are still young and don\’t know how to do housework.\” We spend a lot of time tutoring our children in English and Mathematical Olympiad, hoping that they will excel in study and future work, but we ignore a simple and effective education method: let children do housework. The study found…

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There is a boy in the family, and dad has a long road ahead…

From the direction of my childhood, what I see is always your back… You called me to be a son, and I followed you to become a father. This is a poem from Bei Dao\’s \”For Father\”. These two poems tell the true meaning of the relationship between father and son: the father brings his son into this world, no matter how picky and challenging the son is, one day he will suddenly discover that his father\’s characteristics are also hidden in himself…

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What aspects should we pay attention to for the safety of babies in summer?

As the children grow older, they gradually break away from their parents\’ arms, crawling, standing, and walking. Therefore, adults also need to be extra careful when it comes to supervision. Now, as the temperature rises, babies are wearing lighter clothes. Therefore, the baby\’s mobility becomes more flexible. This is when many common injuries can occur. Home protection matters – Regarding bumps and falls, a survey shows: bumps and falls…

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Are you still using pillows for your baby? Be careful of causing disaster

In many places in my country, there is a custom of giving tiger head pillows to full-month babies, which symbolizes good health and good fortune and protects the baby from disaster. Although this meaning is beautiful, your baby\’s pillow is not something you can just use if you want. 1. Characteristics of baby’s cervical spine development: Baby’s cervical spine develops differently from adult spinal curvature. A newborn baby has no cervical curvature yet, and the cervical spine is \”straight…\”

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If you do this right, your children will be able to easily recognize words when reading picture books.

Three years ago, when Xiaopai was about 5 years old, we went on a self-driving trip to Shenzhen. The drive of more than an hour was very boring. Along the way, Xiao Pai read the road signs and signs on the highway, \”The next exit is 5 kilometers away, ** service area\”, even the words in some place names that I rarely encounter. , she read it all, and the whole family was very happy. Before that, I had been reading…

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What should I do if my child likes to lie? 90% of parents ignore these important issues

Doudou was severely punished by her mother two days ago, and her tears couldn\’t stop flowing. It turned out that it was a unit test that she had done before. Doudou lied to her mother and said that she got an excellent grade. But later when Doudou\’s mother was cleaning up the room, she accidentally discovered that the test paper said \”good\”. The mother was angry not only because her son\’s grades were not satisfactory, but also because she felt that the child, who was only in the second grade, started to lie to others. The child is very small…

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This way of \”pooping and peeing\” keeps the baby away from harm

The weather in Beijing has been heating up in the past two days, and the conflict between M and her mother-in-law has suddenly escalated. One day she got off work early and when she got home, she encountered her mother-in-law peeing M\’s 8-month-old daughter. Moreover, M discovered that her daughter was wearing a pair of crotchless pants given by someone else. She had stuffed the pants in the cupboard with the intention of packing them away and throwing them away. \”At that moment, I realized that she only listened to me on the surface and said that I would give my child every day…

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Long live \”bad moms\”

Curing procrastination? It would be great to have a baby! Five alarms can\’t wake you up from bed? It would be great to have a baby! Do you want to be a literary and artistic young man without touching the spring water every day? It would be great to have a baby! Are you afraid of getting fat and have to count the grains of rice when you eat it? It would be great to have a baby! When I was a child, I had a deep appreciation for the noble, selfless, gentle, dedicated and other beauties of the role of \”mother\”…

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Will your child go to heaven? It has nothing to do with my children.

Once, I took my daughter to a relative’s house to attend a party. The scene that day was that there were more than ten people in a house, all large and small. Except for the boss who was cooking in the house, everyone else was sitting together. A girl from someone\’s family, instigated by her grandmother, performed a show and sang a song for everyone. Everyone clapped politely. But I…

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