Just after confinement, my husband forced me to go to work! The truth behind it turned out to be…

Two days ago, I went to have a full-moon wine with my cousin\’s child. Not to mention how cute the little guy was, anyone who saw it would want to hug him. Every guest praised my cousin for taking care of the children well, and my cousin Le\’s eyes narrowed to slits. When we were about to eat, my cousin pulled me to her table and said she wanted to ask me some questions about raising children. Based on my experience, I told my cousin some things new mothers usually do…

Read More

Will holding a child spoil the child? If you believe it, you\’ll be stupid

I went out for a walk a few days ago and saw something like this. A little girl hugged her mother\’s leg, crying and calling \”Mom, Mom\”. But the little girl\’s mother kept breaking her hand: \”Don\’t you have any legs? You want to walk by yourself, I won\’t hug you!\” When the little girl saw that her mother refused to hug her, she first kept stamping her feet, and then she just sat on the ground and cried. . Her mother was angry when she saw her child like this…

Read More

A must-see for new mothers! Eat these and eliminate postpartum lochia without any worries

Whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section, the first task of a new mother who has just given birth to a baby in the first few days is to eliminate lochia, promote wound healing, restore physical strength and feed the baby. The duration of lochia varies from person to person, with an average of about 21 days, ranging from 14 days to 6 weeks. If the mother has lochia, it should be taken to her attention. She might as well…

Read More

Collect quickly! The most comprehensive post-cesarean precautions and care in history [diet and recipes]

A caesarean section is very harmful to a woman\’s body, and new mothers often need more time to recover than a vaginal birth. The postpartum diet is naturally different from that after normal delivery, and needs to be carefully adjusted according to the recovery of the body after delivery. Doudehui has systematically summarized some precautions and care [diet and recipes] after caesarean section. Expectant and new mothers, come and take a look! Drink for the first three days after caesarean section…

Read More

After giving birth to a child, the consequences of sleeping in separate rooms with my husband are so serious

When the child was just one year old and two months old, Y got divorced. This news is shocking. In my eyes, her marriage model is extremely strong – her parents and in-laws have good incomes, the two families live in the same small town, they are classmates in junior high school, high school, and university. They established a relationship in their freshman year and are considered childhood sweethearts; When I got married, I bought a large house of more than 100 square meters and a small mobility scooter worth 200,000 yuan in full. The material…

Read More

What kind of warning does the mother who jumped off the building with her two children give us?

The news that a young mother in Xiangtan jumped off a building with her son and daughter flooded the social media circle. Many people left messages asking me to write about it. To be honest, I was very resistant. I really didn’t want the beginning of 2017 to start with such a tragic incident as a hot topic. However, after reading so many voices and opinions on the Internet, I felt the need to write about this matter. A tragic incident occurred, as by…

Read More

Why have a second child? This video tells us the answer

There is a video online. Every time I see it, I feel moved and warm. There was a little girl who went to pick up her brother from school every day. When she saw her brother\’s school bus, she ran over and hugged her brother. When the two hugged, the attentive brother would also carry his sister to a safe place. What a wonderful brother and sister. (Full video length 02’58”)

Read More

Is it just a politically correct statement that parents must love their children?

Regarding the question \”Why do some women hate having children?\” on Zhihu. An anonymous respondent\’s answer received nearly 50,000 likes. The answer is very long. To simplify it, it goes something like this: Answer: I don’t want to have children, otherwise the marriage won’t be possible. Husband: I listen to you. Let’s do whatever you say. Let’s get married first. (It’s not up to you once you get married) Husband, parents-in-law, parents…

Read More

Does giving birth really make a woman lose herself?

Someone recently posted a question on Zhihu, \”Why do some girls hate having children?\” Then one respondent\’s answer won over 10,000 likes from Zhihu netizens, and spread to the circle of friends, becoming another hot topic. To briefly summarize the respondent\’s reply: The respondent is independent in personality and is unwilling to affect his career and quality of life in order to have children. Both his parents and husband hope…

Read More