When I first came to Beijing, I met the author M, who was discussing marriage, and we got along very well. Suddenly one day, M said that she might not be able to get married. I asked why, and she said that neither her boyfriend nor her prospective parents-in-law wanted to hold a wedding because it was too much trouble. She thought it would be better for the two of us to go on a trip because of the extravagance and waste of money. I have to break up because of a wedding. Is the root cause not enough love? M explained:…
Tag: Early childhood
Please give simplicity back to that sensible child
A few days ago, I had dinner with a few friends. It happened to be a holiday, and we all had children with us. One of the children was particularly sensible. Under the guidance of his parents, the little person was like a little adult. He could also observe the words of his father. Under the guidance of the teacher, a toast was given to each of us. When she meets a fatter aunt, she will definitely avoid the word fat and praise her beauty and temperament. When she meets an older uncle…
It’s important to help your children cope with their emotions, but you may have forgotten something more important.
In the process of raising children, perhaps the biggest challenge for parents is solving their children\’s emotional problems. With the spread of educational concepts, many parents realize the importance of accepting emotions and channeling them. When we cried when we were children, we had to face being scolded by our parents, or even asked to hold it back. Today\’s children are becoming less and less common. However, there is also a thing in life…
Before you discipline your children, please learn to love them first! You must understand these 4 points
At a lecture, a mother once asked me: \”Teacher Li, many parenting books now promote the educational concept of \”love and freedom\”. I think it makes sense, but I am a little troubled: Giving children freedom is Doesn\’t it mean that you don\’t \”control\” your child? If you restrain your child and set many rules for your child, does that mean you don\’t give him enough freedom?\” In fact, love…
Are you determined not to let your children eat sweets? Not taking care of it is even scarier than not taking care of it
It was the first time I spent Halloween with Liuliu in the United States. The festive atmosphere here was naturally magical. The children all put on costumes, shouted \”Trick or treat\”, and carried baskets from merchants in the afternoon to neighbors in the evening. Go door to door asking for candy. Liuliu was so high that even though he tripped and fell on the witch dress, he still changed his clothes and kept running for several hours…
When will the unspeakable sex education begin?
Maybe one day, children will ask, \”Where do I come from?\” \”Why doesn\’t my sister have a penis?\” \”Why do boys pee standing up while girls sit down?\” You may find it difficult to ask such questions, and look embarrassed on your face. , and then he hesitated and changed the topic. However, sex education is a required course for growth. It\’s just a little different, it feels shy…
Why should children know how to be grateful? How should parents educate them?
Many people know that they need to be grateful and train their children to be grateful people, but how to do it? How to cultivate? What is the use? Many people are confused. Is it to express material gratitude to people who have helped you? Or verbal thanks as a courtesy? These are only a small part. Gratitude is actually the ability of a person to love others while loving himself…
There are many dangers to babies being picky eaters! Uncover the secrets behind children’s partial eclipse
Parents with picky eaters often feel envious when they see other children eating various dishes with relish. However, parents must not blame or force them. Only by understanding the reasons why their children are picky eaters can they guide them to accept different foods. There are many dangers to babies being picky eaters, and it is often the most troublesome thing for mothers. Let Doudehui introduce to you the dangers of babies being picky eaters. 1. Poor resistance,…
If parents ignore this point, their children cannot be well-educated!
On the way home from get off work, I ran into a relative. As we chatted, she started talking about her daughter. She was very distressed because her daughter had been disobedient. After entering adolescence, his behavior became more arrogant. In the past few days, he actually contradicted the teacher in class. In the end, he stopped attending class and mingled with people in society every day. Relatives said: You know, in order to train her since she was a child, I…
\”After giving birth, I haven\’t bought a new bag for three years!\” What, is it great?
[However, the result of sacrifice has always moved only myself. ] He Jie was forced to divorce by her idle husband who didn\’t know how to take care of her children! The reason is not cheating, but it can arouse public anger more than cheating, because most mothers have a man who is obsessed with his own world and doesn\’t care about his wife or children. All of a sudden, everyone rose up and attacked: She put down everything for you…