From the direction of my childhood, what I see is always your back… You called me to be a son, and I followed you to become a father. This is a poem from Bei Dao\’s \”For Father\”. These two poems tell the true meaning of the relationship between father and son: the father brings his son into this world, no matter how picky and challenging the son is, one day he will suddenly discover that his father\’s characteristics are also hidden in himself…
Tag: Early childhood
Respecting children too much is a dereliction of duty on the part of parents
One afternoon last week, I went to pick up my children from kindergarten. When I went there, the gate of the kindergarten was not open yet, and the parents were waiting outside. I also joined the waiting army. Next to me, several parents stood chatting and overheard their conversation. A mother expressed her frustration. Her son goes to bed too late at night and can\’t get up in the morning. Every day…
This kind of behavior of parents will leave a lifelong shadow on the children
I saw a topic on Zhihu that exposed scars: \”What is the one thing that hurts you the most about your parents?\” Many people mentioned their parents\’ verbal violence. One Zhihu friend even summed it up with a slightly ironic sentence. Words: No one is more gifted with words than parents when it comes to hurting their children. Why do so many people hold back the verbal abuse they suffered as children? Probably because…
What\’s so annoying about second-born kids fighting? It\’s your own wrong mentality
Fighting between the eldest child and the second child is an unavoidable problem in families with two children. Whether there are two sons, two daughters, or one son and one daughter, all kinds of fighting and fighting are inevitable. Some people say that if the age difference between the second child is large, there will be no fighting. In my opinion, unless the age gap is so big that the eldest child is already an adult when the second child is born, fighting will still occur. Our older sister is older than our younger sister…
Understand this and your relationship with your children will get better and better
After dinner, Xiao Yuer practiced the piano in the room. He played with great interest and high spirits. Suddenly, he played a wrong note, and after a while, he made several wrong notes. I couldn\’t help it anymore and walked up to him: Xiaoyu, you played it wrong just now. He didn\’t even raise his head or pay any attention to me. He continued to play, but his interest was no longer as high as before. Next, another mistake…
Can my baby’s allergies be cured? When the time comes for desensitization treatment, you must act promptly
Last year, I shared with you that OK had a severe allergic reaction, so I took OK for an allergen test. The test results showed that OK had an allergic constitution and was allergic to dust mites. Also because of his allergic constitution, OK\’s allergic rhinitis has been bothering him. So during the National Day holiday, I took OK to the hospital for desensitization treatment. After coming back, I went with some friends…
By giving birth to a second child this way, the mother can save 3 years of hard work!
With the opening of the two-child policy, more and more families are beginning to consider having a second child, but what is the most appropriate interval between two children? My cousin left a message in the background and saw different opinions: It is better to have a baby in a few years, and the older one knows how to be humble and give in to the younger one. It\’s better to have children earlier. With two kids at the same time, it will be tiring in the first few years, but worry-free in the later years. In fact, judging from the actual situation, the birth of Dabao and Erbao…
Never limit children by gender. In fact, boys need more care and girls need more strength.
Growing up, we subconsciously believe that there are many differences between boys and girls, but are these differences really innate? In our consciousness, boys like blue, like robots, like fighting games, have courage, and have strength. As for girls, they are weak, docile, like pink, and like to play house and play with dolls. But, is this really the case? male…
What’s the best thing to eat for babies with diarrhea in winter? Finding the \”culprit\” is the key
Diarrhea is a \”frequent visitor\” to infants and young children. Recently, countless parents have consulted about their babies\’ diarrhea. It will come uninvited as soon as they catch a cold, eat incorrectly, suffer from indigestion or enteric infection. Disease comes easily, but getting rid of it is hard work. Coupled with the lack of symptomatic treatment, it will torture the baby even more rampantly. No, there is a disease that causes diarrhea in babies…
Is the flu coming back in March? How to prevent the flu?
March has entered. Although the weather is warm and cold at first, everyone can’t help but look forward to taking their babies out for an outing in the warm spring days, right? But looking at the news, I believe many mothers are afraid again! Because most of the news is in the circle of friends, I often see people retweeting it. Among these articles, there is a familiar name: Zhong Nanshan. Zhong Nanshan is a famous respiratory disease patient in my country…