Whenever it comes to educating children, many people take it for granted that it is the mother’s responsibility. In real life, we always hear many mothers complaining that giving birth to children does not seem to change men much. Not only do they have to take care of children, but they also have to work and do housework, but fathers just work, eat, sleep and play with mobile phones every day. Dads who are more responsible may work harder to make money, but other…
Tag: Early childhood
Are mobile phones and PADs that good? My child, can you play a little less?
Today’s children seem to be born with the ability to play with mobile phones and iPads. While we admire the children’s strong abilities, we also have a lot of worries: Jiayi’s mother: “My baby is only 5 years old, but he really likes to play iPad and mobile games, and plays a lot. He slipped away and played escape games. His little hands drew on the screen quickly and accurately, and he scored higher than his father. I\’m worried that my baby will be addicted to video games…
Mom, if you don\’t love me, then please don\’t give birth to me
Not long ago, a mother in Xianyang took her two children to a hot spring. Her 4-year-old son was nowhere to be found. After a long search, it was discovered that the child had drowned. The child struggled in the water for three minutes while the mother played on her phone. How helpless and desperate the child must feel when he watches his mother\’s back struggling not far away. Any mother with some common sense knows that a 4-year-old child…
What the heck is infant torticollis? There is really no need to spend money on massages
New mothers often ask Chengzi about infant torticollis. In fact, this problem is very niche, and it is not a serious disease. It will get better if you do more exercises at home. However, I found that many babies in China are diagnosed with torticollis. , they were all recommended to go to some physical therapy or massage units for treatment, which cost several thousand yuan. This is a bit of over-treatment. So, today orange…
What will happen to those children who lack the company of their fathers when they grow up?
My friend Lulu called me again and complained, \”This time I have to divorce my husband. He is as childish as a child. He doesn\’t care about anything. He has no plan or sense of crisis for the future. Any other man would definitely be worse than me.\” He\’s strong!\” After hearing her angrily complaining, she remembered that her husband had changed jobs frequently in the past few years and spent more than he earned. Family expenses mainly rely on Lulu\’s savings…
Don\’t use material rewards to stimulate children to do housework, otherwise…
During the Chinese New Year, I had afternoon tea with my cousin. When we talked about daily parenting topics, my cousin suddenly asked me with a helpless look: \”You said, if your children help with housework at home, should you reward them with pocket money or other material rewards? My daughter Yesterday, she helped me carry my rice bowl and actually asked me for 10 yuan. She said that her good friends from kindergarten would also get pocket money for doing housework at home…
To every mother who sleeps with you, the whole world owes you a hug
A few nights ago, I was typing at my desk. It was almost 10 o\’clock, and my son was still yelling. What did I think was wrong? Go over and take a look. It turned out that he was asking his mother to continue telling the story. She kept shouting \”Mom, Mom, get up, get up!\” The mother who couldn\’t bear the torture was probably at her wits\’ end. The last weapon – \”playing dead\” mode has been activated…
Never call your children \”proud\” again. The impact of this sentence is dozens of times greater than you think.
\”Well, I did okay in the exam this time, but don\’t be proud. Keep working hard and do better next time.\” \”Look, you are proud and complacent again. When you are proud, you will regress! But no, your grades have dropped again. !\” These are the words my mother often said to me when I was a child, which made my ears tingle. The word \”pride\” became her mantra. Now, more than twenty years later, I can still…
How does a mother wean her baby from breastfeeding, and how does she resume breastfeeding well?
With the arrival of spring and the comfortable weather, many mothers choose to start weaning their babies during this time. However, a series of problems caused by weaning have also appeared, such as the baby is unwilling to drink milk powder, refuses the bottle, cries for milk when seeing the mother, and keeps making noises during the day and night. Family members can help share these problems. When the baby cries, dad or elders can help…
A world-class unsolved mystery: Why do children love to accompany their mothers to the toilet so much?
If there is any corner of the house that allows me to live a mobile phone-free life, it must be the bathroom. It\’s not because the wifi signal is insufficient, nor is it because I\’m afraid it will fall into the toilet. There is only one reason – I am busy with the baby and don\’t have time to check my phone. For them, everything in the toilet is fun! The most fun thing is of course squatting…