A college student with excellent academic performance gave up the opportunity to study abroad because he couldn\’t handle his life. This sounds like a big joke, but it is an absolutely true fact. Since 20 years ago, our society has called on parents to face up to the problem of over-indulgence of only children, and encouraged parents to focus on cultivating their children\’s independent will to do their own things from an early age…
Tag: Early childhood
Such a heartbreaking thing happened when I took my daughter on a trip. My mother was so regretful that she sat on the ground and cried bitterly!
Ms. Dong is a clerk in a company with a low income. She usually spends money very frugally, but she is particularly generous to her two-and-a-half-year-old daughter Lili. In order to let Lili grow up healthily, Ms. Dong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money. During this year\’s Dragon Boat Festival, Ms. Dong spent 3,688 yuan to sign up for a tour group to Hangzhou, hoping to open her daughter\’s eyes and gain insights. What Ms. Dong didn\’t expect was that…
From Liu Xiang to Sun Yang declaring war on Horton, the definition of Olympic gold medals has changed
On August 7, 2016, Beijing time, with only 0.13 seconds difference, Sun Yang lost to Australian rising star Horton in the men\’s 400-meter freestyle competition and won a silver medal. After the game, whether Sun Yang \”won\” the silver medal or \”regretly lost\” the gold medal sparked a big discussion among netizens. At noon, a friend sent me a message and wanted to discuss this issue with me. I was coaxing classmate Zhe to take a nap, so I just…
Those qualities you want to cultivate in your children, all you need to do is give up the toys.
In the first year after Little D was born, I bought a lot of toys. The \”smart toys\” recommended by the cognitive teacher were just the tip of the iceberg. They accounted for less than 10% of Little D\’s toy library, so why didn\’t I write about the rest? Because Little D was already 1 year old when I opened this official account. I am not afraid of not knowing the goods but I am afraid of comparing goods. Through Little D’s personal practice and my own observation this year, I have to admit that I have…
Baby, I want to tell you my secret
A Japanese writer once mentioned his thoughts on happiness in a book. He recorded: \”The more happiness is shared with others, the more its value will increase.\” As he said, sharing is a human need that will It greatly increases the happiness of the person who \”shares\”. The person who \”shares\” will have a greater sense of gain and accomplishment in the process, and at the same time, the person who \”enjoys\” is also happy because he feels…
My child, your parents allow you not to be outstanding, but they don’t allow you to be uneducated.
On vacation at the beach, many children were playing in the sand together. My daughter ran all the way, ready to snatch other people\’s toys. I grabbed my daughter\’s hand that was about to fall and pulled her back. The daughter seems to be a \”human spirit\” and pretends to cry when she sees her mother. She was sure that her grandmother would blame her mother, and she couldn\’t help but blame me. Sure enough, the mother said: You made the child cry…
This is a nutritious and quick breakfast! Moms, hurry up and pick up your hair
The weather is getting colder, but many mothers have to get up early to prepare breakfast for their children. Many mothers complain about it, but they worry about hygiene and nutrition when letting their children eat breakfast outside. So is there any quick and nutritious breakfast? Don’t tell me you really have it. If you think it’s good, you can make it tomorrow~ Western breakfast 1. Big stew. This is actually very simple, just simple…
Regarding the second-child family, the baby has something to say
After my sister was born, I felt that I was left out… Over the years, I have never been particularly fond of my sister. I naively thought that I had been left out since she was born. Fortunately, in the past three years, I have been left out. This unhealthy thought has gradually disappeared from my mind… On the day she was born, everyone was very happy and surrounded her little one. Everyone…
Reasonable parents are the most incompetent
Reasoning is probably the most common method used by parents. But we often find that the more parents like to be reasonable, the more disobedient their children are! I have a friend whose child has been very rebellious recently. He doesn\’t like to be clean. He wears white pants when he goes out and black pants when he comes home. Later, my friend secretly watched from behind and found that the child sat on the floor everywhere regardless of whether it was dirty or not. My friend came home so angry…
Besides yelling, is there any other way to make children obedient?
One thing that gives many parents a headache is that sometimes when faced with a disobedient child, the only way you have left is to yell at him. For example, some children must eat or play on the computer before going to bed. If their parents do not agree, they will start crying or even lie on the ground unable to get up. Sometimes there is no point in trying to reason with a crying child. If parents have exhausted everything…