During the Spring Festival, something like this happened, which touched me deeply. A boy in junior high school from a relative\’s family had a conflict with his father. He cried and said, \”I have been working very diligently at home. Why is he always dissatisfied with me, always staring at me and yelling at me…\” Two people present The elders were trying to persuade the child, but the mother said: \”Why are you crying about this? No matter what…
Tag: preschool period
What should parents do if they have inconsistent views on educating their children?
As stay-at-home mothers who spend time with our children every day, we may know them better than their fathers. Coupled with the differences between men and women and different families of origin, it is easy for parents to have different parenting concepts. How to deal with these different parenting concepts is not only related to the physical and mental health of the child, but also to the harmony of the family. In my early days as a stay-at-home mom, I loved…
Parental behavior that leaves children feeling disappointed and hopeless
Psychologist Joyce Brazes once said: \”The best proof of love is trust. Trusting each other is the best love for children.\” Children come into this world with the help of their parents and have natural trust and trust in their parents. rely. But in the process of growing up, parents accidentally let down the trust of their children, making the children\’s hearts locked and unwilling to be honest with their parents. The trust between parents and children…
Things for parents to do with their children in spring
Let’s first take a look at the poems written by the ancients for spring. The most familiar ones can be memorized by primary school students: Meng Haoran’s \”Spring Dawn\”: I sleep in spring without realizing the dawn, and hear the singing of birds everywhere. The night comes wind and rain, Whispering Colour. He Zhizhang\’s \”Ode to the Willow\”: The jasper is as high as a tree, with thousands of green silk ribbons hanging down. I don’t know who cuts out the thin leaves. The spring breeze in February is like scissors. Du Fu\’s \”Happy Rain on a Spring Night\”: Good rain knows…
What is the best way to educate children?
Why are children not taught well? Some parents often complain: My children don’t listen no matter what I say, and they can’t be taught well no matter how I teach them! Why are children disobedient and parents unable to teach them well? The reason is simple: parents turn education into preaching, instead of showing the correct behavior to their children. So, what is \”teaching\”? The ancients included the true meaning of education in the word \”teaching\”…
What impact does it have on the children if parents always argue in front of them?
A child psychology research institution once conducted a psychological survey on more than 3,000 school-age children. One of the questions was: \”What are you most afraid of about your parents?\” The most popular answer was: \”I am most afraid of my parents being angry. I\’m afraid they will quarrel.\” One answer sheet wrote very vividly: \”I am most afraid of my father being angry. He looks so fierce when he is angry! It makes my mother cry…
Does it have any impact on children if parents always cry about poverty?
I saw a sad video not long ago: a father and daughter came to eat at KFC. The father said to his 6-year-old daughter: The meal you eat is the salary I earned after a hard day\’s work. The little girl lowered her head silently and became more and more sensible from then on. When she was 8 years old, she saw a Barbie doll in front of the window and thought to herself: I want it very much, but my parents are working too hard to make money, so I need to be more sensible. 1…
How to raise inner-rich children
Two days ago, I overheard my son talking on the phone with his classmates. In less than a minute, he sighed four times and complained frequently: \”Life is so hard! When will this day end?\” I couldn\’t help but shudder. I remembered that my head teacher had reminded me that my son’s diary was very negative and pessimistic. He didn’t play with his classmates after class. He sighed all day long and felt even more blocked. …
What happens to children raised by irritable parents?
I went to pick up my son from school a few days ago and saw a shocking scene at the school gate – a mother, with one hand on her hips and one hand poking the child in front of her on the head, yelling: \”You pig head! This is a small test.\” I’m going to be so angry with you just for taking this score!” People were coming and going at the school gate, and when they heard such shouting and cursing, everyone turned their attention. The child who was scolded suppressed his blush and endured…
At what age is it best for children to sleep in separate beds and rooms?
A friend of mine is particularly troubled because of poor sleep recently: \”Why can\’t my child sleep well at night? I could bear the crying before he was one year old, but he is now 2 and a half years old, why does he still cry at night?\” I have to wake up so many times to make trouble, I really have a nervous breakdown.\” She said that her son has slept with her since he was a child, and has the habit of drinking night milk at night. When he wakes up…