A few days ago, a parent friend said: Her child always refuses to listen and is asked not to do something. He works very hard and the child will cry and lose his temper if the mother talks too much. She saw that my two children were very obedient, cooperated with me in everything I said, and did not get emotional. She found it amazing and wanted to know how to raise children with such clear boundaries and stable emotions. head…
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Parents’ language has a huge impact on children
95% of the vocabulary in a child\’s language is the same as that of his parents. The famous Adele Farber said: Never underestimate the impact of your words on a child\’s life. If parents’ language contains recognition and appreciation, children will feel love and motivation and become better and better. On the contrary, children who live in verbal violence for a long time will develop problems such as cowardice, low self-esteem, and irritable personality…
When children come home from school, should they play first or do their homework first?
After children enter elementary school, as the workload increases, teachers will also assign some homework for students to consolidate and practice. Homework writing is a basic daily practical activity for students. Through homework writing, children can review and check the knowledge they have learned every day, and play a connecting role in the new knowledge points the next day. However, not every child…
Parents cannot educate their children in the following ways:
Every parent has his or her own ideas and concepts about raising children. How to raise children is restricted by parents’ concepts and family conditions. There is no doubt that parents who are financially well-off and parents who are not financially well-off must have different methods of raising children. In real life, parents from wealthy families are still a minority after all, and most of them are from ordinary families. When people reach middle age, there are old people above and young people below…
What should you pay attention to after spanking your child?
I saw a piece of news on Weibo. Two mothers openly talked about their \”experience\” in spanking their children on the roadside. At that time, two mothers were picking up bamboo sticks on the roadside, and they both said in unison, \”They picked them up to beat their children.\” A mother said: My child is beaten so often that the clothes hanger is deformed. Another mother echoed: You are stupid, you don’t know how to beat me with this, it won’t hurt the flesh. two…
What are the characteristics of enlightened parents?
Psychologist Adler once said: \”Happy people spend their childhood healing their lives, while unhappy people spend their lives healing their childhood.\” I understand this sentence deeply. When I was young, I often dropped rice grains on the table because I couldn\’t hold my chopsticks firmly. When my mother sees it, she will accuse me of wasting food, so now when eating, if any food falls on the table, I will unconsciously want to throw it away…
What kind of children are easily bullied?
Ms. Chen, the baby\’s mother, said that she had to worry more about giving birth to a daughter than raising a son. Especially after her daughter goes to kindergarten, the mother is always worried about her daughter, fearing that her daughter will be bullied in the kindergarten. Unfortunately, the more you worry about something, the more likely it is that something will happen to you. When my daughter comes home recently, she always comes home with some small scars, sometimes on her face, sometimes on her legs…
How to make children take the initiative to learn
What do many parents mean when they say they don’t have autonomy in learning? In fact, it is about parents’ evaluation of their children’s behavior. What parents want is for their children to have more independent learning behaviors. And behavior equals willingness plus ability. If parents want their children to behave in this way, they must first know why their children do not behave in this way. Only by finding the real cause can parents solve the problem. …
What should I do if my mother can’t control her emotions?
Emotions are inner experiences that everyone will experience, and mothers often face emotional fluctuations in the process of raising children. However, when a mother cannot control her emotions, it can have negative consequences for the child and the family. This article will explore ways and techniques for mothers to control their emotions and help them better cope with mood swings. Understanding emotions First, mothers need to understand emotions…
What should I do if my child is not mentally strong enough?
Many parents often say that they should raise a child with a strong heart. So, what exactly is a sign of strong heart? In life, we often hear friends around us lament how spoiled and spoiled children today are, and how fragile and sensitive they are. \”Children of this generation don\’t really have a good life.\” \”When I was their age, I didn\’t have the conditions I have now.\” \”How…