Many parents regret seeing the golden eight years of their children\’s lives until it\’s too late. If you catch it, the child\’s growth will be smoother and the future will be better. 1-year-old is a year that cannot be missed in cultivating a sense of security. During this period, children\’s sense of security mainly comes from their parents. Therefore, parents should spend more time with their children when their children are one year old, and give their children more attention and patience in daily life.. .
Tag: preschool period
How to calm your child when he or she is upset
Let me first respond to the questions from two parents. These two questions are not completely consistent with the topic of this article. I put them here in the hope that examples can be used to help parents learn how to deal with them. Question 01 My son is in third grade. He was very impetuous when studying. He would get angry after playing the piano for two or three times and would hit the piano keys to vent his anger. When I couldn\’t recite the text for a while, I would scream and act anxiously. I\’m so…
What are the best ways and experiences for parents to educate their children?
I like this passage very much: No one is born to be a parent. Everyone needs to learn, and needs to restore himself to a seed and grow into himself again. Let go of authority and treat your children as equals; let go of perfection and get along with yourself truly. Only after I became a parent did I deeply realize the profound connotation of \”raising children means raising oneself.\” As the child grows up, it can be said…
Height and weight standard chart for boys in 2023. Come and see if your cute baby meets the standard.
Factors affecting a child\’s height 1. Congenital genetic factors are directly related to the height of the parents, and it does not rule out inheritance from one generation to the next. 2. Acquired genetic factors In addition to nutrition, adequate sleep and appropriate exercise are also very important. It is good to pay attention to children\’s nutrition, but it is not good if the children eat too much and become overweight. Fat children will…
What kind of person do you want your child to be? What kind of words do you say?
Yale University psychologist John Barger conducted an experiment: He asked two groups of students to take two sets of test papers. One set was interspersed with words such as \”provocation,\” \”disturbing,\” \”illegal,\” and \”rude.\” One set was interspersed with words such as \”considerate,\” \”patient,\” \”courteous,\” and \”respect.\” After finishing the test paper, he asked the students to go to the office to find the tester…
How can children be emotionally stable and have clear boundaries?
A few days ago, a parent friend said: Her child always refuses to listen and is asked not to do something. He works very hard and the child will cry and lose his temper if the mother talks too much. She saw that my two children were very obedient, cooperated with me in everything I said, and did not get emotional. She found it amazing and wanted to know how to raise children with such clear boundaries and stable emotions. head…
Parents’ language has a huge impact on children
95% of the vocabulary in a child\’s language is the same as that of his parents. The famous Adele Farber said: Never underestimate the impact of your words on a child\’s life. If parents’ language contains recognition and appreciation, children will feel love and motivation and become better and better. On the contrary, children who live in verbal violence for a long time will develop problems such as cowardice, low self-esteem, and irritable personality…
When children come home from school, should they play first or do their homework first?
After children enter elementary school, as the workload increases, teachers will also assign some homework for students to consolidate and practice. Homework writing is a basic daily practical activity for students. Through homework writing, children can review and check the knowledge they have learned every day, and play a connecting role in the new knowledge points the next day. However, not every child…
Parents cannot educate their children in the following ways:
Every parent has his or her own ideas and concepts about raising children. How to raise children is restricted by parents’ concepts and family conditions. There is no doubt that parents who are financially well-off and parents who are not financially well-off must have different methods of raising children. In real life, parents from wealthy families are still a minority after all, and most of them are from ordinary families. When people reach middle age, there are old people above and young people below…
What should you pay attention to after spanking your child?
I saw a piece of news on Weibo. Two mothers openly talked about their \”experience\” in spanking their children on the roadside. At that time, two mothers were picking up bamboo sticks on the roadside, and they both said in unison, \”They picked them up to beat their children.\” A mother said: My child is beaten so often that the clothes hanger is deformed. Another mother echoed: You are stupid, you don’t know how to beat me with this, it won’t hurt the flesh. two…