Children enter a sensitive period for making friends after they are three years old and want to find friends and partners to play with. However, many children do not know how to play with other children at the beginning. So what should you do if your child comes back from school and says to you: Mom, the kids in the kindergarten don’t want to play with me? When a child encounters this problem, your answer determines whether the child will grow up to be a social phobia or a social bully…
Tag: preschool period
How are excellent children raised?
I was deeply moved by a picture like this: On the subway where everyone is playing with their mobile phones, the mother is holding a book and reading quietly, and the child sitting in her arms is also holding a book and reading quietly. The kind of parents you have, the kind of children you will raise. As the saying goes: Teaching by words is not as good as teaching by example, and teaching by example is not as good as teaching by environment. A child is like a mirror, reflecting a family. …
The true meaning of raising a rich daughter
Some time ago, I attended a charity lecture. During the meeting, a guest shared the story of a mother and daughter, which made me feel deeply. The mother divorced very early, opened a clothing store, and raised her daughter. The daughter feels sorry for her mother\’s hard work and is always reluctant to spend money. But she often told her daughter: \”Girl, let\’s buy whatever you like. Mom can make money, don\’t worry.\”…
Re-read Su Dongpo’s biography and enlightenment: What can really heal a person is this
Lin Yutang recorded a dark life experience of Su Shi in \”The Biography of Su Dongpo\”. In 1079 AD, Su Shi was arrested for the \”Wutai Poetry Case\”. In the prison of Yushitai, Su Shi suffered many inhuman tortures and had the idea of committing suicide several times. Fortunately, many people interceded for Su Shi, and he was saved from death and was instead demoted to Huangzhou. But during more than a hundred days in prison,…
Why are children nowadays getting more and more depressed?
We always have such doubts: \”Nowadays, children have no worries about food and clothing, so why are they so fragile?\” \”They are also beaten and scolded. Why are children in the past rarely suffering from psychological problems, but now there are so many psychological problems? ?\” Some people may simply attribute this problem to the fact that today\’s children are \”too pretentious\” and \”difficult to discipline\”, but when you read more than 4,000…
Where to start with the connection between middle class and kindergarten
Educating children is actually a long-term career for parents, which requires parents to have goals, direction, and plans. Because at different stages, the focus of educating children is also different. The early childhood stage is the sowing period of education. If at this stage, parents do not do the things they should do well and the abilities that should be cultivated are not developed, they may have nothing at the harvest stage…
what is the best parent
When we, as parents, often want to give our children a bright future, away from any possible mistakes and difficulties. We strive to protect them from harm and frustration, and we hope to do our best to pay attention to and care for all aspects of their lives. Parents always want to guide their children to the path they think is right, and will interfere excessively in their children\’s decision-making, or even make decisions on their behalf…
What should I do if my child coughs while blowing the air conditioner?
Air conditioning is one of the indispensable appliances for many families, especially in hot summer weather. Air conditioning provides us with a comfortable indoor environment. However, sometimes children may cough after blowing on the air conditioner, which makes many parents confused and worried. This article will introduce the reasons why children cough after blowing the air conditioner and the corresponding countermeasures. Causes of cough Dry air:…
How to educate children who do not respect their parents
Children\’s disrespect for their parents is a common problem in many families. As parents, we want our children to respect our authority and opinions, but sometimes children display disrespectful behaviors that cause problems in family relationships. What educational methods should we adopt when facing this problem? This article will explore several effective educational strategies. First, establish a good communication…
What to do if your child is mentally fragile and loves to cry
Sometimes, we use a person\’s performance to judge his character. For example, some people burst into tears and cry non-stop when encountering trivial things. We generally think of such people as fragile and sensitive. And some people will not cry even if they encounter very sad things. We would call it “strong.” Children also have different personalities, some love to cry, while others often endure it…