In China, the situation of many families is similar: parents are busy making money, the elderly help with taking care of the children, and the whole family is busy around the children, always wanting to give the children better conditions and take good care of the children. , allowing him to enjoy a better life, but the result always feels like a thankless job. Children are not grateful for their parents\’ efforts, and sometimes they even show…
Tag: preschool period
There are two types of “smart” children who have a hard time getting ahead when they grow up.
A few days ago, a friend came to my home as a guest and brought her little daughter with her. The girl is 5 years old this year, and she looks very smart, especially the way her big eyes blink. She looks like a smart girl at first glance. At noon, I was busy in the kitchen, and the little girl followed me in. She stepped on a small stool by herself, climbed to the iron basin on the stove, and started grabbing the cold vegetables I had mixed…
The key to kindergarten semester planning lies in these 3 things
I was chatting with a friend and she asked me if I had done some early childhood transition for my daughter. I thought my daughter was still in middle school, so I wasn\’t too anxious. I just exercised her hand strength to lay the foundation for future writing. In addition, I also began to consciously teach my daughter to read during play. After hearing this, my friend nodded in agreement. She told me that her Dabao was completely free at that time and felt…
How to educate careless children
Carelessness is often considered by parents to be the reason for children\’s poor learning. They think that children have mastered everything they should master and are just careless. Some will let it go, and some will take turns to provide various external assistance. But the pitfalls for children’s learning are getting bigger and bigger. In fact, carelessness is a kind of perceptual feedback of learning effect. It is just that we subjectively think that children are careless. root…
Let your children see the world. What exactly do they see?
I believe many parents have the experience of taking their children to play and travel. Calling a few friends, doing homework seriously, planning the itinerary, dragging a group of children out, noisy, non-stop, exhausted after the trip. Traveling with children is a real hassle. But why do so many parents continue to do this? Reply to many parents and friends…
It is the biggest lie in the world that children from poor families become parents early.
I used to often hear people from the older generation say that children from poor families have already become the masters of their families. But what does it mean to be in charge? What does it mean to be a good home? Last year, a friend suddenly resigned. He was a programmer doing technical development. At first, I thought it was a normal optimization and layoff by the company. After all, three years of masks + cyclical economic decline, the market performance is sluggish. Almost all units are reducing costs and increasing efficiency, and the slightly better ones…
What to do if a child has psychological problems
In many families, parents are always troubled by various problems in their children: some children procrastinate in homework; some children learn to lie; some children go out to beat others;… When encountering such problems, most parents will resort to Criticize, accuse, or persuade and educate, hoping that they can correct their bad behavior. But the result is that the more parents…
Is the fable about the stupid bird flying first really useful for children?
Cai Zhonghuai joked: \”If you search for \’Cai Zhonghuai\’ on Baidu, you will definitely see a keyword: bad temper. I want to tell you, I am not bad-tempered, but a very bad temper!\” But when it comes to children, Cai Zhonghuai is surprisingly surprised. Every child likes him for his gentleness; when facing the children\’s parents, he sometimes takes a more drastic approach and gives them a slap in the face. because…
What should parents do when their children cry and lose their temper?
What is the correct thing for parents to do when their children cry? Many parents always show abnormal impatience or even anger when their children cry. When many parents face their children crying, they don\’t think about solving the problem. Instead, they get angry directly at the child, hoping to make the child stop crying quickly. Letting the child hold back his crying is actually harmful to the child…
See how smart parents change their children’s stubborn temper
Many parents will wonder: What is the reason that turns a child who should be youthful and energetic into a stubborn and resistant \”cold-faced man\”? The book \”Cultivating Children with High Emotional Intelligence\” points out: \”The way parents communicate with their children emotionally determines the development of their children\’s emotional intelligence.\” If parents are used to ignoring their children\’s dignity and dealing with them in a coercive way, this will bring about of…