What should I do if my child lies? This is how smart parents handle it

Oral Narration: Hongwei’s mother (full-time housewife) He lives in the life he built. All my beautiful illusions about life were shattered by a phone call! My son\’s class teacher told me that Hongwei did something special in the class and asked me to go to school to solve it. I hurried over and realized that the matter was much more complicated than I thought: 12 children jointly reported that their son was demanding…

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How to raise a happy child

I believe many parents have heard of the BBC documentary \”Seven Years in the Life\”. The director selects children from different classes and races and visits them every seven years to show their growth trajectories. Last year, \”Seven Years of a New Life\”, which was filmed since 2000, was officially completed. With a high score of 9 on Douban and 9.9 on Bilibili, it once again ranked first among the \”Top 10 Must-See Documentaries in the World\”…

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What to do if a child has fever and convulsions

As soon as the child has a fever, the mother\’s heart is like riding a roller coaster, rising and falling with the child\’s body temperature. The backbone of the mother is not calm, and the whole family is also in chaos. In her previous article, Ya Ya Ma has repeatedly emphasized to everyone that fever is just a symptom and not a disease. The main purpose of using antipyretics is not to lower the body temperature, but to make the child feel comfortable. When your child has a fever, you can give him…

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Unfilial children have obvious characteristics. I hope your child doesn’t have them.

As the saying goes: \”A child is older when he is three years old, and he is older when he is seven years old.\” If you want to know whether a child will be filial or not, you don\’t have to wait until he is old to know. As long as children pay attention to observation, they can draw \”basic conclusions\” when they are young. \”Be filial to parents, respect teachers and love children\” are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. A person who honors his parents will naturally have a \”grateful\” heart in his heart…

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How to raise children to be happy people

There is a passage in the book \”The Neglected Child\”: \”A child\’s emotions are like flowing water, the source is his heart. If an obstacle is placed in front of the water, the water will either bypass the obstacle and change the direction of flow. Or it has to flow back to the source, which also means that the child will inflict emotions on himself and hurt himself.\” Where a child\’s emotions flow is particularly important,…

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How does a child’s brain become smarter and have a higher IQ before they are 6 years old?

Before the child is 6 years old, it is a critical period for brain development. If parents can take good care of their brains before this stage and help their children develop good brain-using habits, not only will their brains develop well, but they will also lay a solid foundation for future study and life. Before the child is 6 years old, parents \”exercise control\” of the child in three aspects will make the child\’s brain smarter and have a higher IQ. 1: Pay attention to emotional management Why do we say…

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This year’s college entrance examination is approaching, and this mother’s handwritten letter has gone viral

Dear child, as the college entrance examination is getting closer, my mother can feel your anxiety increasing day by day. In recent days, the smile on your face has become less and less, and you are a little panicked when you see the exercises you did wrong. Worried about making mistakes in the exam, you study the questions and memorize them over and over again, and refuse to sleep until late at night. Seeing you like this, my mother is worried about you but also proud of your persistence and seriousness…

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How to cultivate children’s self-discipline and consciousness

Provide reasonable support based on children’s needs. Children are about to take final exams and need to review their homework at home. In the past, my wife would help make plans and push them to completion. But that time, my wife felt that they were conscious enough about their studies and could arrange some things by themselves, so she announced that the two children would prepare and complete the final exam independently. After hearing these words, my daughter Qianqian…

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How to solve the confusion and anxiety in educating children

A few days ago, I watched an interview video with Teacher Dai Jianye. He said with tears in his eyes in the video: \”If I have another child, I will definitely not educate him like this. Now parents in the whole society are extremely anxious and nervous. Their children have to make up for this class and that class. Now I look back. Look, everything is wrong.\” Seeing Teacher Dai Jianye\’s regretful look, I suddenly…

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How to make children polite and well-educated

I went to a friend\’s house for dinner last week, and I was deeply impressed by a series of behaviors of his children. There was a guest at home, and the parents\’ kitchen and living room were extremely busy. The children didn\’t help, even if they didn\’t help. They were lying on the sofa all by themselves, leaving no room to sit on the sofa. Before the food was even served, the children ran to the kitchen and grabbed it. A handful of your favorite dishes, regardless of other people\’s opinions; prepare to start…

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