Do you often encounter children who cry when they are not given toys, cry when they are not allowed to eat ice cream, cry when they are not allowed to look at their mobile phones, cry when they are not allowed to play with items that cannot be played with, or cry when they are not allowed to eat inappropriate food? In short, as long as they are not satisfied, they will roll on the floor and cry loudly. For this reason, many parents compromise in order to prevent their children from crying. In fact, I used to be like this, but recently I found that if my children are not satisfied…
Tag: preschool period
How to cultivate children’s ability to be independent
When a friend mentioned his son, who was in sixth grade, he became very angry: \”If you don\’t let him do something, he won\’t feel comfortable; if you say, \’Just do it,\’ he won\’t do it!\” It turns out that , some time ago, my son wanted to participate in a robot competition. He was worried that it would affect his study, so he said he would wait a few months. My son didn\’t participate, he felt uncomfortable all the time, and he wasn\’t as active in studying as before…
What should I do if my children are not filial to their parents?
As the saying goes: \”Filial piety comes first among all good deeds.\” The ancients attached great importance to filial piety, and many kings advocated governing the country with filial piety. The story of the \”Twenty-Four Filial Piety\” is widely circulated to this day. Nowadays, most parents pay more attention to their children\’s learning and want their children to become better. They often neglect to teach their children to be filial. A child\’s mind is born like a blank piece of paper, whatever the parents draw on it is…
Really powerful people have great brains, let your children see more
Some people say that a \”Romance of the Three Kingdoms\” is a heroic epic. Those strategists who have clever calculations in their chests can win a victory thousands of miles away in a moment; they have heroic soldiers in their hearts, and in the midst of talking and laughing, their guns and oars will be turned into ashes. Wang Zuozhi’s talents Xun Yu, Wolong Kongming, Fengchu Pang Tong, ghost genius Guo Jia, poisonous scholar Jia Xu, young Qi Jiang Wei… are countless. Among this group of heroes, only…
What should I do if my child can’t withstand setbacks?
Parents often complain to me that their children cry when they encounter problems when doing homework; some children let their parents do it while they wait for the answer. So, what should parents do when their children encounter difficulties in learning and cannot solve them independently? Recently, our laboratory conducted a related study to answer this question. Participants in the experiment were all families with children aged 3 to 6 years old. children…
What should I do if my child is timid and unsure of himself?
In childhood, a child not only needs a mother, but also a father. Only with the love of both parents can the child grow up healthily. Parents\’ love should include tolerance, acceptance, support, and respect, rather than being so-called, sarcastic, picky, and disrespectful. When children grow up, parents do not view their children with acceptance, tolerance and respect, but with criticality and criticism…
How to raise happy children
CCTV host Li Xiaomeng once shared a mother\’s story, which moved me deeply. This mother, in order to accompany her son to grow up, has been working at home. The family\’s income mainly came from his father\’s job. When he was at his poorest, the family only had a few dozen yuan left to survive. But the mother never complained about her efforts or talked about all kinds of truths with her son. Instead, she always taught her son to look on the bright side. Her son…
How to raise a promising son
99% of parents don\’t know that children raised in these four ways will be successful in the future. Parents with children must read it carefully and save it to read again and again. Keeping these four points in mind, your children will become the best in the future. First, never spoil your children, you must learn to control them. A child who is pampered is a pet, and a child who is abused is…
The big gap between children and other children of the same age lies in these 5 key points
Self-discipline I called my niece yesterday and talked about her studies. I asked her how her studies were going recently and whether there were any difficult questions or questions she didn\’t know. My niece immediately said, \”If you don\’t know how to do physical chemistry, you will forget it once you do it. I have been having a headache recently.\” I said, \”When you don\’t know how to do it, it proves that you are making progress again.\” At the very least, you have seen your problem, now you just need to find out what is wrong and what the key points are…
How to discipline children if they are disobedient?
A few days ago, I was a guest at a friend\’s house. When she walked in, her 6-year-old son was watching TV with gusto. \”Call Auntie quickly.\” His friend reminded him. But he remained motionless, as if he hadn\’t heard. My friend frowned and was about to educate her when her grandma came on the scene: \”I\’m sorry, the child is shy.\” \”Grandma, bring me a bottle of Coke!\” The friend\’s son gave orders in a loud voice…