A few days ago, I got together with my friends and talked about the adolescent children at home, and we couldn\’t help but feel a lot of emotion. When Cheng Zi was in the fifth or sixth grade, or even the first grade of junior high school, I felt the best about raising children. Because I had studied and grown for several years, accumulated a lot of theoretical and practical experience, and became more and more comfortable in dealing with children\’s problems. Facing the coming adolescence, although I am mentally prepared…
Tag: preschool period
A three-year-old looks older and a seven-year-old looks older. How to raise a child to waste has actually been foreshadowed for a long time.
Jin Xing once shared a story in the Jin Xing Show: One day, Xiaomei had to take the subway home from get off work. She bought a chicken steak on the way and ate it on the platform while waiting for the bus. Next to her stood a mother and her son, the children were about 7 and 7 years old. 8 year-old. Seeing the chicken steak in Xiaomei\’s hand, the child said to her mother: Mom, I want to eat chicken steak too. Mom half-jokingly said: Then go and ask that aunt for it. then…
Establish family rules for children, cultivate family traditions, and build a happy family life
The report of the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China clearly pointed out that \”strengthening the construction of family education and family tradition\” and \”improving the school family social education mechanism\”. On the new journey of comprehensively building a modern socialist country, we must thoroughly study and implement the spirit of the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China report and General Secretary Xi Jinping’s important exposition on paying attention to family education and family tradition, and constantly adhere to and strengthen the construction of family education and family tradition to promote people’s Full development…
How parent educators should observe children
Montessori believed that a teacher must be an observer with keen powers of observation. He must be able to observe and study children with the spirit of a scientist and using scientific methods. In this way, he can reveal the inner world of children and discover the secrets of childhood. Recommended must-read parenting books for parents: Secrets of Childhood, super clear reading experience pdf. So, how should teachers observe…
Parents have a poor mindset and cannot raise promising children
A reader left a message asking us: \”I spend all my energy on my children, washing and cooking, picking them up from and to school. I often communicate with teachers and respond to requests. Come and rain, why are my children still not doing well? Talk to me The relationship is getting worse?\” I remembered a speech given by the writer Autumn QT about her mother. QT is a typical dual-income family…
How to teach disobedient children
Many mothers told me: My children have been beaten, scolded and scolded, and all kinds of methods have been used, but they still can\’t get in and don\’t listen to anything I say. Then I want to say: If your child listens to everything you say, then you should worry. Won\’t this child have a pleaser personality when he grows up? But if your child refuses to listen to anything you say, you should be more worried. It means that you…
Let children grow up on their own
One time when I was reading a book, my child came over quietly and stood behind me. I asked him what was wrong. He said a little embarrassedly: \”If I did something wrong, would you blame me?\” I stared at him and said with a smile: \”What did you do again?\” He said: \”I accidentally broke the bicycle The chain is broken, please help me fix it.\” I didn\’t mean…
Start reading a lot with your children
How to enable children to complete such a large amount of reading? This requires us parents to adopt certain strategies. The most powerful treasure trove of parenting and early education resources in history! Three lives of regret if you miss it 1. Reading should start from an early age and provide sufficient picture books. The traditional concept of many parents is that if their children don’t know the words, how can they read? Reading must first require literacy. Main subjects in first and second grade…
What to do if your child lacks internal drive
I have a niece who has been sensible and obedient since she was a child, and has a good relationship with her parents. However, there is a problem, that is, she has never been interested in studying and becomes irritable when it comes to studying. For this reason, the family used all kinds of tricks. For example, if she did well in the exam, she would be rewarded with a certain amount of money. If she still did the same, she would be sent back to her hometown. However, she remained motionless. How to make children…
How to solve children\’s lack of security
Bunuu’s aunt bought her a blue coat, which was quite fashionable, but Bunuu didn’t like wearing it. Every time I took it out and tried to put it on her, she would throw it away: \”Don\’t wear this.\” Why? Mom thinks it looks good. \”Too ugly.\” Bu Niu answered me with these three words every time, neatly and neatly. So which one to wear? Bunniu pointed to the pink in the cabinet without hesitation…