It is often said that good children are praised. Is this correct? Yes and no. Why do you say that? There is no doubt that praise is indispensable in the education process, but the question is whether to praise and how to make praise more effective? In reality, we mostly praise our children like this: You are great, so smart, and capable… Such praise may be of some use to children at first, but…
Tag: preschool period
Parents should have a good sense of how much they love their children, otherwise it will be too late to regret
My colleague Xiao Lin has been online recently, collecting all kinds of gifts suitable for children. When asked why, she said that her daughter was about to celebrate her 9th birthday and she wanted to give a gift to every student in the class, and each student would be different. There are more than 40 people in a class, which means Xiaolin has to choose more than 40 kinds of gifts. \”Children\’s stuff is almost enough.\” \”No, my little father-in-law…
How to teach children time management
Parents and friends should all know that if you want your children to learn and play well, time management is indispensable, but everyone has a rather vague concept of this time management. Some highly educated parents have a sense of foresight. They will carry out strict time management on their children from a very young age. They will clearly write down what time to do what kind of things on the chart, and wait until the child…
What gift is better to give on Children’s Day?
Children\’s Day is one of the most anticipated festivals for children. As parents, relatives and friends, we all hope to give our children a special gift. So, what gift is better to give on Children’s Day? Here are some better options. Books: Books are one of the best gifts for children. Through reading, children can broaden their horizons, increase their knowledge, and…
What are the parents of outstanding children like?
Able to answer children\’s questions seriously and patiently. Carefully look for the problem from the questions raised by the child. Provide a place for the child to display the results of his work. If your child has some unfinished creations, such as oil paintings, watercolors, sculptures, etc., you must be able to tolerate his messy work space. . Provide your child with a room or part of the room that he can use alone…
How to improve children’s social skills
Children enter a sensitive period for making friends after they are three years old and want to find friends and partners to play with. However, many children do not know how to play with other children at the beginning. So what should you do if your child comes back from school and says to you: Mom, the kids in the kindergarten don’t want to play with me? When a child encounters this problem, your answer determines whether the child will grow up to be a social phobia or a social bully…
How are excellent children raised?
I was deeply moved by a picture like this: On the subway where everyone is playing with their mobile phones, the mother is holding a book and reading quietly, and the child sitting in her arms is also holding a book and reading quietly. The kind of parents you have, the kind of children you will raise. As the saying goes: Teaching by words is not as good as teaching by example, and teaching by example is not as good as teaching by environment. A child is like a mirror, reflecting a family. …
The true meaning of raising a rich daughter
Some time ago, I attended a charity lecture. During the meeting, a guest shared the story of a mother and daughter, which made me feel deeply. The mother divorced very early, opened a clothing store, and raised her daughter. The daughter feels sorry for her mother\’s hard work and is always reluctant to spend money. But she often told her daughter: \”Girl, let\’s buy whatever you like. Mom can make money, don\’t worry.\”…
Re-read Su Dongpo’s biography and enlightenment: What can really heal a person is this
Lin Yutang recorded a dark life experience of Su Shi in \”The Biography of Su Dongpo\”. In 1079 AD, Su Shi was arrested for the \”Wutai Poetry Case\”. In the prison of Yushitai, Su Shi suffered many inhuman tortures and had the idea of committing suicide several times. Fortunately, many people interceded for Su Shi, and he was saved from death and was instead demoted to Huangzhou. But during more than a hundred days in prison,…
Why are children nowadays getting more and more depressed?
We always have such doubts: \”Nowadays, children have no worries about food and clothing, so why are they so fragile?\” \”They are also beaten and scolded. Why are children in the past rarely suffering from psychological problems, but now there are so many psychological problems? ?\” Some people may simply attribute this problem to the fact that today\’s children are \”too pretentious\” and \”difficult to discipline\”, but when you read more than 4,000…